The truth that is not tire of marriage for a long time: lazy

As the saying goes: "Lazy people have lazy blessings."

Lazy is not leisurely, the four bodies are not diligent, but they know how to let go.

In marriage, people who are too diligent are not only physically and mentally exhausted, but also difficult to please.

In a good marriage, moderate laziness is a kind of wisdom.

In the family, the more sarcasm is one side, the easier it is to make the other party feel frustrated.

I have seen a story:

Two people lived on hunting. One day, the two husbands went out to hunt, each caught a rabbit.

When I got home, one of the wives began to count her husband, saying that her husband was incompetent and then brought back a rabbit.

The husband was unhappy instantly, saying that he was hunting hard, and a rabbit was already very good.

In this way, the two argued.

On the other hand, his wife was considerate and said hard.

The husband was very happy and said he would cheer in the future and catch more rabbits.

Two people enjoy dinner happily.

The next day, the two husbands went to hunt again.

The first husband went home empty -handed. He thought that if he went back to scold, hunting was so hard every day, making her feel the feeling of no prey.

The wife became furious, scolded her husband incompetence, hated that he had married the wrong person ...

After hearing these, the husband also felt aggrieved and thought that his wife did not understand himself, and the two quarreled again.

Another husband brought two rabbits back the next day.

The wife was overjoyed, and she also made good dishes.

The husband was also very happy, and the two said and laughed.

If you do n’t care about speaking, you do n’t consider each other ’s feelings. It is not only an invalid communication, but it is also easy to intensify contradictions and cause disputes.

His noisy, noisy love, scattered the family, and finally dumped the pot.

The misfortune in marriage is not right and wrong, but often because of the triviality of oil and salt sauce vinegar.

Emotional expert Dix said:

Among all marriage, more than 50%of the culprits of unhappy are not constructive but heartbreaking criticism.

In family life, the trivial matters of garlic are not worth tangling. Non -principled issues must be understood by each other and forgive each other.

Complain less and accuse less to live in harmony.

The restrained mouth is the best feng shui of a family.

Peter Dixiong said:

The difficulty of marriage is that we are in love with each other's advantages, but live with his shortcomings.

If you always stare at each other's weaknesses, you will infinitely enlarge all kinds of disadvantages and branches.

In "Golden Wedding", Wen Li is looking forward to marriage. In less than half a year after marriage, passion is diluted by reality.

In her eyes, her husband, Tong Zhihara exposed:

The novel was thrown on the ground, and when I went home, I fell asleep without washing my head.

Wen Li couldn't see her husband's stingy, and she was scolded, and her husband was not willing to show weakness.

So, tit -for -tat, you are fierce, I am fierce.

Such a scene is no stranger, like our daily life.

Franklin said: "Before you get married, open your eyes to see clearly, and open your eyes and close your eyes after marriage."

A good marriage is not because of the two perfect combinations, but because they can accept and accommodate each other's deficiencies.

I have watched a short film:

The husband is meticulous at work, but it seems to have changed at home.

He always couldn't find what he wanted to use, and he used to use it and habitually set it up.

He often loses three or four, either to forget to bring the key, or to go out to purchase something.

At first, his wife was always annoyed, and he was unhappy to see him.

However, her husband has never changed these problems.

Until one day, the wife watched the documentary "Fruit of Life", and a daily life of a couple was deeply moved.

She decided to let it go, and no longer stared at this little thing.

If you can't find something, let him find it slowly.

Forget the key and lose something, it is not a big deal.

Because of the tolerance of his wife, the husband was guilty, and he also paid attention to the trivial matter. In this way, his life became better and better.

The truth of family harmony is to discover the other party's flash point and ignore the small shortcomings of each other.

Only by accommodating each other's habits and adapting to each other can we achieve a good marriage.

Marriage is not a legend. Don't have too much fantasy and extravagance.

Writer Zhou Xin once recalled:

His wife went out for a while, and no one was nagging. He was quiet and felt relaxed.

Sleep when you are sleepy, eat when you are hungry, invite friends to drink a few cups every three, and you want to go home when you want to go home.

However, for a month, he felt empty and overwhelmed.

A hunger, a full meal, no one told that the old problems of stomach pain began to recur.

The clothes are not very shaved, and the hair becomes frizzy. When I go out to buy daily necessities, I have less instructions.

Without the short parents, a person was deserted, and he was restless.

He began to regret the words of returning to his wife in the past, and thinking about his wife's nagging, he was all careless.

The puppet between husband and wife is a fireworks on earth, not grievances, why do you have to compare baht.

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Outside of the family, her husband has nothing to do with it and take care of it properly.

After getting into get off work, she threw off her shoes, dumped her bag, and fell into the sofa with one butt. Husband, as usual, cleaned up and stunned:

"I really serve you, I haven't seen you so lazy!"

Watching her husband dangling, she just smiled.

Her husband had no temper, pierced the apron, and got into the kitchen again.

Every morning, my husband was hot milk, cooked the eggs, and urged her to get up.

When traveling on a business trip, her husband will repeatedly instructs, pay attention to safety, don't be sloppy.

Her husband's shattered thoughts, she never kept heart, but enjoyed it.

She said, "My husband is good, cook and wash, and take care of the family, and sends some grievances, shouldn't you?"

It turned out that it was not to hear, but pretended not to hear, and pretended to be confused.

After hearing a word: "In a harmonious family, at least one couple is deaf."

Life is inseparable from chai oil and salt. It is inevitable to bump between husband and wife. He is full of himself and gives the other party the opportunity to stretch the intimate relationship between each other.

Bai Yansong said:

A good marriage is actually the art that both parties know how to compromise.

There is never a real perfection in marriage, only suitable.

There is no need to work too much, as long as you treat it gentle to gradually run in.

Lazy, lazy to speculate, laziness, no right or wrong, no old account, no loss of temperature.

Don't expect too high, don't demand each other, heartless, lung, and not tired.

With imperfections, you can have a little luck.

The real "laziness" is a process of continuous tolerance and compromise.

Half -living, half -life, and cherishing each other for love, so that you can start with your heart, and finally look at it.

Author | Chen Ge, all the fireworks on earth are all happy.

Picture | Visual China

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