The fastest way to abolish one person: idle all day

Author:Ten o'clock reading Time:2022.07.03

Rousseau wrote in "Repentance":

"In order to keep a distance with the unrelated idlers, he would rather be a puppet, and he didn't want to communicate too much with them."

If people are too idle, they will fall into endless anxiety and panic. Not only will life be getting worse and worse, but life will also become a disaster.

Walking too close to those who walk too close, consume your time and energy lightly, and change your thoughts and behaviors.

Really smart people know how to keep a distance from idlers.

Cai Kangyong said: "When you are not motivated, you are killing people by negligence, and you are killing yourself."

The more leisurely, the easier it is to fall. They have nothing to do, get over, and lose themselves.

What's even more terrible is that when you make friends with such people, they will transmit the evil habits on their bodies like a virus.

On the Internet, see such a story:

Xiao He was fired by the company.

But when he first entered the company, the leader of the direct was very optimistic about him, thinking that he was an created material.

He also did his due diligence at work. In order to better complete his work, overtime is the norm, and his colleagues all told him to desperate Saburo.

But after hard work for more than half a year, when the end of the year, Xiao He found that he and his colleagues who were often lazy in a few jobs were the same.

He was unbalanced in his heart, but dared not say anything.

Colleagues Xiao Zhang found him and said, "How about doing so many jobs, the company will make more money and will not be assigned to you. If you do it, you may be scolded.

Later, every time he worked overtime, he always remembered Xiao Zhang's words.

His mentality began to change slowly, and he could not work as well as as much as possible without overtime. It was not the work that he should be responsible.

Soon after, Xiao He was assigned to work with the intern.

Xiao Zhang came to give him a trick: "You can throw your work you don't want to do to the intern.

After hearing this suggestion, Xiao He felt very feasible.

He thought: Even if the intern knew anyway, this was not his own category, and he dared not have any complaints.

"Picking the ball" kicked too much, and his ability was kicked away.

Customers and colleagues from other departments are more and more dissatisfied with Xiao He.

Some important solutions, Xiao He has not been completed; every time he meets the task of all -level leaders, he throws it to the intern; when he encounters a problem, Xiao He also pushes his work and cannot do it. Reply in time ...

It wasn't until being fired that Xiao He knew the seriousness of the problem, but it was too late.

What kind of person will you become?

Flying with Phoenix is a handsome bird; walking with tiger wolves must be a beast.

When you associate with people who are accustomed to mixing, they will only teach you to mix and make you lazy.

Instead of associating with idlers, it is better to focus on and refine themselves.

If you are too idle, you will always be a loser.

People with different levels are difficult to stand on the same line.

To associate with such people, you don't have to persuade each other. Speaking is the best answer.

Writer Li Shanglong has shared his personal experience.

He usually drives to work, and the car is parked in the underground garage of the company's building. 15 yuan/hour, nearby parking lots are about the same price.

One day, he ate with his friends in the restaurant downstairs.

A friend told him that there was a roadside parking lot that was charged nearby. The first hour was 10 yuan and the second hour was 15 yuan. It was cheaper than the underground parking garage of the building, and the distance was similar.

After their dinner, Li Shanglong and his friends went to the parking lot to pick up the car.

Friends arrived at the parking lot at 11:50, now 12:50, just 1 hour, it is reasonable to pay 10 yuan parking fee.

However, the toll staff said that his car was parked at 11:45, so he had to pay a parking fee of 2 hours, a total of 25 yuan.

Li Shanglong's friend was furious, and he said loudly, "I just looked at the time, stopped at 11:50. I stopped the car and sent a message to my colleagues. It was not wrong at 11:50."

After a few minutes of the quarrel, the toll staff looked at the time and said, "Now 11:52, it's timeout."

Although he was dissatisfied and wanted to say something, he paid 25 yuan in helplessly in the end.

Li Shanglong said to his friend: "I don't want to be in the roadside parking lot of manual tolls. I don't want to argue with people a dozen dollars every time. You see, not only wastes time, but also affects your mood."

"Sheepskin Roll" wrote: "People are really busy, there are not many complicated emotions at all; people are too idle, and they will take the grim."

If you argue at the same level as the cognitive level, you will never get the results you want.

Some people, the most lack of time, some are energy consumption with you.

In front of these idlers, he bowed his head and admitted it, and it was a good strategy that retired from the whole body.

Avoid saying more about the life, you will lose more.

For people to live, the more you say, the more recruiting people.

Colleagues A Qing, a person who can't stop in his mouth.

Some time ago, A Qing saw that Xiaomei's mental state was not good, so he chewed his tongue roots with other colleagues and said, "Xiaomei may not be satisfied with this job. You see her, his face is full of negative work."

But in fact, Xiaomei during that time, shortly after divorce, urgently needed to deal with a bunch of troubles, so she was in a low mood.

Because of these gossip, Xiaomei was called into the office to talk.

A few days ago, A Qing met the restaurant downstairs and met Kobayashi with the leader. A Qing guessed that Kobayashi must have invited leaders to dinner and increase salary increases for himself. After returning to the office, A Qing couldn't wait to talk to everyone about this gossip.

However, Kobayashi actually asked customers to eat in the restaurant. It happened to see the leader and greeted him in the past.

Recently, Wang Wenjin was promoted, and everyone congratulated him.

Only A Qing was disdainful, and told my colleagues in private: "I have not been promoted for so long, and Wang Wen has been promoted in less than two years. There must be backstage behind it. ","

In fact, in order to be able to complete the work better, Wang Wen often worked overtime at the company and even sacrificed the rest time of holidays.

Although A Qinglai has been in the company for more than three years, not many people go close to him at all, because everyone knows what kind of person he is.

The old saying said: "In terms of right and wrong, it must be right and wrong."

Not to say gossip is the most basic cultivation and kindness of a person.

People who always put their minds on others will eventually lose themselves.

It is the secret of galloping life to control your ears and not to provoke others' leisure.

Shen Congwen said: "I am most afraid of my life, and I lost all the meaning of life when I was free."