Night reading 丨 The three stages of becoming a strong person need to experience: far -sightedness, pragmatism, and precepts of abstinence

Author:Minsheng Weekly Time:2022.07.02

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Text/Jingbo Guoxue

There is a saying in China: Life will be ordered to win with a realm. The "realm" here means that before doing things, we must improve their own cultivation and ability to make a difference. When it comes to the realm, as early as thousands of years ago, there was a saying in "Tube · Ride Horse": "Those who are born to worry about, have affordable, and lose their pride." Those in the world can become a far -sighted vision, The pragmatic spirit and the quality of humility and caution. Far -consciousness, pragmatic, and arrogance are the three stages that the strong needs to experience.

Consider

Escape the comfort zone, the future can be expected

In the lessons of Tang from the summary of Tang Yu to the decline, Ouyang Xiu gave such a warning: "Sorrow can prosper the country, and Yi Yu can die." This sentence also applies to us. Corruption is a kind of consumption of itself, just like "boiled frogs". If you want to be a matter of doing things, the first key is a long -term concern. If you do n’t want to be ease in front of you, you can escape the comfort circle. When Tangshan cancels the road and bridge charges, the words of the crowded female employees have exploded the Internet: "I am 36 years old, and now I can't learn anything." She thought that the work of the toll station would always be stable. , I was so comfortable in the comfort zone for more than ten years, but when the crisis came, I couldn't jump out again. But in this instant era, there is no real stability. The so -called stability is not a meal in a unit, but that no matter where you go, there is a meal. The seemingly comfortable life is the most powerful; the unchanged stability, the most time -consuming time. You must know that the stable airport is often a hotbed that makes inertia breeding, indulging in the stability in front of you, and it will only grow inertia crazy. We can go further and longer without forgetting the comfort in front of us, without forgetting the arrogant dream.

pragmatic

Improve action, be practical and unreasonable

"Xunzi · Slim" said: "Although the Tao is stubborn, it doesn't work; although it is small, it is not possible." The key to success is not only far -sightedness, but also requires execution and action, otherwise The predicament of no ". "Passionate", paying attention to hard work is the second trick. During the epidemic last year, Wuhan's 61 -year -old Wan Xueqin appeared on the hot search. Since March 16, she has adopted more than 160 online classes through the applet. From clothing to gourds to teaching, to the foundation of writing and calligraphy and Chinese medicine ... She studies 4-6 hours a day, and the average of 3-5 courses is completed a day. Wan Xueqin said that she had long wanted to cultivate a little skill, suffering from usually without time. During the epidemic, she just improved her learning at home. Many people also want to jump out of the comfort circle to unlock new skills like Wan Xueqin, but after all, they stay at the stage of imagination. They have thoughts, but their feet do not move. Lu Xun said: "Time, 24 hours of day, but a day of time bringing cleverness and strength to the diligent people, leaving only a regret to the lazy people." Turkey; a thousand miles, began under the feet. "Lao Tzu reminded us very early: It is nothing to do with emptiness, and it is the mystery of things. Everything can be done, not waiting, shouting, but making it bit by bit.

Abstinence

A sense of arrogance, cautious and humble

Wang Yangming said: "The major illness of life is only a proud word." To really achieve a thing, you still need to be alert to the stubborn illness of "proud" and keep in mind the truth of "lost pride". Be cautious, humble, and arrogant and proud, is the third point. During the Yongzheng period of the Qing Dynasty, scholar Jiang Shui was recommended to be an official in the court. Once the emperor summoned, he was so nervous that he couldn't answer at all. So he recommended Dai Zhen for answering. If Dai Zhenkou hangs the river, the key to analyzing the problem is very clear. The emperor was very excited and asked Dai Zhen: "Who can be higher than the teacher?" Dai Zhen replied: "My level is low." The emperor asked again: "The high level cannot answer, why?" Dai Zhen said: "The teacher is old, and his ears are a little back, but his knowledge is more than 10,000 times." Dai Zhen was cautious and humble, not only to save the teacher's reputation, but also received praise from the emperor for the spirit of modesty, and was given "Hanlin". "I think others respect me because I am excellent. Slowly I understand that others respect me because others are excellent." Throughout the ancient and modern, the more mature people, the more cautious and humility; the more, the more The person who is ignorant and incompetent, the more self -righteous. The land is low, and people are low into kings. Confucius said in the "University": "After knowing that there is a certainty, it can be calm, then calm and then can be safe, then you can worry about it, and then you can get it." ; I also have to be down -to -earth, step by step, and work hard; we must abstain from arrogance and irritability. With the determination of "born of concerns, being proud", we can turn our ideals into reality and achieve the achievements we want.

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