She is "the last boudoir of the Republic of China", and she has not lost Lin Huiyin, and was loved by the big poet for a lifetime.

"The four girls in the Zhang family of Jiuru Lane, whoever marries them will be happy for a lifetime."

This sentence of writer Ye Shengtao made people remember the famous "Zhang family's four sisters" -Zhang Zhaohe, Zhang Yuanhe, Zhang Yunhe, Zhang Chonghe.

Among the four sisters, there is such a woman.

She was loved by the poet Bian Zhilin for a lifetime, and the latter wrote a number of love poems for her, which was praised by future generations;

She also wrote the epitaphs of Shen Congwen's "not to discourage, but also to let it be, the stars fight the text, the Chizi people". This sentence is still printed on Shen Congwen's monument today.

Famous Sinologist Fu Hansi once said:

"She represents the best and exquisite part of Chinese culture."

This legendary woman is the youngest sister of the Zhang family, Zhang Chonghe.

Seven years ago, Zhang Chonghe died in Enron in the United States.

At the same time as her talents, Lin Huiyin, Zhang Ailing, Lu Xiaoman ... have already withered.

Therefore, Zhang Chonghe is also known as "the last lady of the Republic of China."

For a century, she hurriedly passed from this talented woman, but she seemed to be in the floods of time, no increase or decrease, and it was peaceful.

And we can also see from Zhang Chonghe's body that a woman was born in the world, the best attitude.

Good love, wait slowly

You stand on the bridge to see the scenery, and the people who watch the scenery look at you upstairs; Mingyue decorates your window, and you decorate the dreams of others.

Speaking of Zhang Chonghe, many people will think of the "Broken Charter" written by Bian Zhilin for her.

Since the age of 23, at the beginning of Shen Congwen's family, Zhang Chonghe, Bian Zhilin has been deeply rooted in this talented woman.

In addition to writing love poems, Bian Zhilin also wrote Zhang Chonghe into his own briefing, which recorded it in detail, and every time he visited Zhang Chonghe.

Everyone in the world says that Bian Zhilin's affection is so moving.

But Zhang Chonghe, as the heroine of this love, will not lose the principle because of his movement.

She once bluntly said with her sister:

"Bian Zhilin is very good, but she is uncomfortable, not open, and is completely inconsistent with me.

I have given up his kindness, but this kind of thing cannot be reluctant. I have no interest in him from beginning to end. "

Zhang Chonghe not only said so, but also did not give each other a chance when he got along with Bian Zhilin.

Bian Zhilin wrote a love letter to her, and she almost didn't reply, even if he responded, he said that he was "lacking depth."

Once a party, others played the relationship between her and Bian Zhilin in front of Zhang Chonghe.

Zhang Chonghe felt that it was inappropriate. After the wine bureau ended, he said to Bian Zhilin:

This kind of boring party, I hope you will not attend again in the future.

But Bian Zhilin didn't take it for granted, still three or five times, letting people help matching the relationship with Zhang Chonghe.

In order to avoid Bian Zhilin, Zhang Chonghe ran away from home and ran to Qingcheng Mountain.

Later, there was another Mr. Fang who studied Oracle, pursuing Zhang Chonghe.

He also often wrote to Zhang Chong and wrote, and the text he used was oracle.

This made Zhang Chonghe very helpless. She didn't like to play with people who played knowledge, and the oracle bones on the letter paper. She didn't understand and didn't want to understand it.

Treating feelings, Zhang Chonghe's attitude is very clear: the soul must be fits, otherwise it is better not to abuse.

In this way, for a long time, Zhang Chonghe still kept single.

It wasn't until the age of 34 that she met her true emperor -Fu Hansi.

Fu Hansi is a German Sinologist. He loves traditional Chinese culture and has been selected as the official translation of the movie "Mulan".

And Zhang Chonghe is also intoxicating. She likes to read ancient books and study opera.

Two people with interests and hobbies always have endless topics together, and even the children of neighbors can see the tenderness of their eyebrows.

Every time Fu Hansi visits the door, the children in the neighborhood will always coax:

"Four Aunt, find you!"

A year later, the two loved people held a wedding in the fire of the liberation war.

After marriage, the two came to the United States thousands of miles away.

At the beginning of life distress, they both taught and improved in their careers;

Without children, they raised a pair of children and cared for themselves.

Zhang Chonghe once said:

"There are many friends of Hans, good popularity, and never have any complicated thoughts. You bully him, he doesn't know, I often bully him ...

He is more familiar with Chinese history than me, and what he does is there, making me have to convince it. "

In the words, it is the love that the husband can't hide.

Mr. Liang Shiqiu once said:

A marriage based on love is an unparalleled happiness on earth.

In the relationship, Zhang Chonghe never stunned because of the enthusiastic pursuit of others; he would not be in chaos because of his age.

She used soberly to measure her sincerity, and she also waited for her own happiness with patience.

Loneliness is the highest level of freedom

Zhang Chonghe once wrote a couplet:

"Very cold and indifferent to confidante, a little bit of vastness."

meaning is:

It is very indifferent to get a confidant in countless people;

A clear song is enough to spend this life in the world.

The cold and superiority between the lines seems to be Zhang Chong and myself.

When time returned to 1915, Zhang Chonghe had not been born to his uncle and grandmother before he was born.

The uncle and grandmother loved the little granddaughter very much. She spent a lot of money to learn ancient texts, poems and calligraphy for Zhang Chonghe. The ancient charm of the incense in the poems and poems nourished Zhang Chonghe's soul invisible.

When the partners of the same age are playing and playing, Zhang Chonghe prefers to stay in the library and be friends with the book.

She said: "Books will be more than friends in this world, so that I know more."

When he was slightly larger, Zhang Chonghe was taken back to Suzhou's house by his parents.

Compared with several sisters who have received Western -style education, Zhang Chonghe appears to be quieter and restrained.

When the sisters held a party, she always liked to go back to her small room to study.

It is not unable to integrate into everyone, but Zhang Chonghe feels that a person's world is more comfortable and free.

In private school, Zhang Chonghe's most enjoyable is Kunqu Class.

Because he was influenced by traditional culture since he was a child, Zhang Chonghe raised his hands, with a classic charm, as if the beauty who came out of the drama.

However, although the drama sings well, Zhang Chonghe does not love too much.

When she was in Suzhou, she rarely entered the stage, but she liked to drive the blue boat and sing the Kunqu in the night of starlight.

Zhang Chong and himself admit:

"They like to perform on the stage and face the audience; I am used to being uncomfortable and do my own business."

This style that is immersed in his world has been kept by Zhang Chonghe to grow up.

After becoming a family, she often sings and entertains in her home.

When you do needle embroidery, you sang "Peony Pavilion"; when you sweep the floor and mop, you sang "Steamed Tiger".

There is no need for audiences, no need for applause. Really interesting people can also make life interesting.

Writer Liu Tong said:

I used to think that loneliness is the world, and now I only think that loneliness can actually become a world.

Zhang Chonghe's loneliness seems to be uncomfortable, in fact, it is the result of her active choice.

Because of enjoying the small world in her heart, she will take the initiative to isolate herself from the outside world.

On the surface, she does not need it. In her, her heart is pure and the greatest freedom.

Poly life, love

In Zhang Chonghe's world, as long as she is related to "Chinese learning", she is all refined and love.

Kunqu, calligraphy, painting, writing poems ...

These hobbies not only let her have a full life, but also supported her for a time and walked through the most difficult time.

At the meeting of the Anti -Japanese War, Zhang Chonghe had to flow to the southwest, and in the artillery fire, he moved around.

Even so, she still took her favorite pen and ink, usually next to the air -raid hole, used two empty oil barrels, a desk, and alarm, she hid in the cave.

Zhang Chonghe once said:

I can not dress up, or I do n’t have gold and silver jewelry. But I must have it, and I must use the best. As long as I have time, I have to pick up my pen to practice for a while.

She also summarized her experience: writing big characters and fees, and small characters did not feed ink, so during this period, she wrote the most.

Later, in order to avoid the fire, Zhang Chonghe and Fu Hansi went to the United States.

In a distant foreign country, Zhang Chonghe still relies on the love of Chinese studies to explain the suffering of his hometown.

She served as a calligraphy teacher at Yale University. In class, she often said that Chinese calligraphy is painting, allowing students to feel the beauty of Chinese from "painting".

In the spare time, Zhang Chong and the teachers sang Kunqu. Whenever she danced on the stage on the stage, Fu Hansi helped the drum board while she was on the stage.

Although the war fire blocked the pace of the couple's return to China, they made them love the Chinese studies and take root on the other side of the ocean.

In 1979, Zhang Chonghe finally returned to his homeland for 30 years.

After years of refining, she exuded a moving poetic from the inside out.

The ink painted by her hand was regarded as a treasure by others and exhibited at the exhibition;

Her handwritten poems were also copied by people and made a collection of poems.

People praise her as "charging and everyone" and "the first person in the world".

But Zhang Chonghe just smiled at this:

"I am playing in my life."

Zhang Chonghe in his later years also wrote a poem:

You still returned to the sky, sitting on the branches and squirrels. The pine ball was full of Ren Jun, but he borrowed a cold Yin for a while.

Between the lines, it is the casual naive that the years cannot be taken away.

We often say that the luckiest thing of people can do what they like in a lifetime.

It allows you to discover the interest and beauty of life in barren days, and use it for yourself.

Like Zhang Chonghe, regardless of the situation of her life, she can always go to her love, which is shining and shining.

Zhang Daqian once painted a ink painting for Zhang Chong and ink.

Zhang Chonghe's painting, the sleeves of the water, calmly, left to the world a beautiful back.

And Zhang Chonghe himself stayed in the hearts of the world with an elegant posture.

Yishu said: "Being a person, the most important thing is the good -looking attitude."

Behind Zhang Chonghe's elegant temperament is also his adherence to himself.

When choosing love, sober and determined;

When you get along with yourself, independent and calm;

When treating life, I feel poetic and full of love.

In this life, Zhang Chonghe always adhered to his heart, and lived his desired life, which also made people see the last afterglow of the family ladies.

People often ask: How can people live in their own gestures in their lives?

Zhang Chonghe's answer is: calm down, make suitable choices, take the road of love.As she wrote in "Peach Blossom Fish":

"Putting on the world is free to him, willing to be the wave butterfly, and to the end of the world at will."

Click [watching], I hope that we can all find our hearts as Zhang Chonghe, and in the world, Huai Su performs in the past, and it will travel to the sky.

Author | Zhuxi, love reading, love life.

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