After 35 years old, please live a low -match life

I have seen such a sentence in "Life Separation" and feels quite reasonable:

"35 years old is the largest watershed in life.

Youth has become past, restlessness gradually calms, life seems to solidify, and the plasticity of life has begun to decrease slowly. "

Yes, before the age of 35, you and I were still young teenagers, a daisy of dreams in front, and the support of parents in the rear can be desperate and lived in a poetic;

But after the age of 35, we were all squeezed into middle age by years. Parents who had old -fashioned parents needed support. Young children needed to be supported.

But we can still do the richest spiritual thinking in the simplest material life.

The best state after the age of 35 is: low life, high -match soul.

On Douban, there is a group called "low material life", which is particularly incisive:

"This world is a mess because material is used to love, but people have been used by it -being used by the inner desire."

Extremely agreed.

In the era of material desires, this also wants, and that, it is the normal life of most people;

However, for people after the age of 35, the embarrassment of life often lies in-----

The material at home is getting richer, but the sense of security in my heart is getting thinner.

Over the years, the older the age, the more I feel:

Real richness is an inner experience. Instead of being bound by the shackles of material, it is better to live the simplest material life.

I met a senior and had a period of trouble for money, but he was a well -known "Defending" in the industry.

In the family, he can still use it, he will never buy it, it really breaks, just take it.

Eat simple in weekdays, a bowl of hot soup is enough; when the party is also ordinary, we come with slippers.

Most of the people who are in the same level as him have a brand name, and luxury goods are not left.

At the beginning, I didn't understand his "picking". Until a few days ago, he sent such a circle of friends:

"One meal, a scoop drink, the breeze does not need to buy a money;

A tea, a book, the heart is not led by material. "

Seeing this, I couldn't help admiring.

People, the simpler the more noble; the simpler the life, the happier.

I have seen too many people, and their desires grow up like weeds. They want this, want that, and be trapped in material life and must not be relieved;

I have also seen too many people. In a boring life, the material is used as a redemption wood, and finally I discovered that it was the last straw that overwhelmed myself.

There is a saying in "minimalist life: minimalist life":

You must know how to choose from life. Only by making life simpler, can you have the energy to discover the really important things in life.

The avenue is simple, less is more.

Live the simplest material life, and can not be the sound of the soul.

Some time ago, there was a hot topic on Zhihu: After 35 years of age, what is the most rare?

There is only one sentence of the highest praise:

"The soul is high, and the richest spiritual thinking."

Yeah, when you go to middle age, the most noble background in life is not wealth or reputation, but a spiritual abundance and the advancement of the soul.

Those who have a barren mind, even if they are high and rich, are difficult to break free of ordinary customs and protect their original intentions;

Those who are dry in their hearts will eventually go mediocre and be mediocre, and they will eventually be at everyone.

At the age of the wind and waves, it was more important than anything.

Before reading "The essence of thinking", a story in the book deeply touched me.

In a top financial enterprise, there is an excellent middle -aged accounting.

He worked hard and was deeply focused on the company's leadership.

As a result, at the critical moment of the promotion of position, he submitted a resignation letter to the leader.

Some colleagues asked him why.

He smiled and replied: "I want to stop and think about whether there is a better way."

The colleague was very puzzled, and left the phrase "After all, why bother, why bother" and send him away.

As a result, one year later, he returned to the company again and successfully entered the company's core department, and his position directly jumped to three levels.

The colleagues who had persuaded him to stay in the bunch of invoices of the financial department were still advised.

It turned out that during the period of leaving, after thinking, he was determined to transform and audit.

Reporting training courses, checking reference books, and soaking libraries, insisting on punching in the questions every day, and finally successfully won the industry with the highest gold content in the industry.

There is a word in sociology called "Lazy Ant Effect".

A person who is lazy to think about miscellaneous work will be destined to fall into a mediocre predicament.

Therefore, after the age of 35, we must be refined in thinking and keep looking for a new path of life.

Just like the thinker Pascal wrote in "Wanting Records":

"People are just a reed, the most vulnerable thing in nature, but he is a reed that can think about."

The direction of the heart, the past.

Do the richest spiritual thinking to kill mediocre and find the most valuable path in life.

What is the best state of life after 35?

Some people say that it is the richness of material life, and there are more, what is needed;

Some people say that it is the stability of the road of life. It is a clear future, and you can see it at a glance.

But in my opinion, after the age of 35, the best state of life is that the material is minimalist and full of energy.

A research institution in Nordic has done a social survey: What kind of person, has a stronger sense of happiness?

In 3 years, they have recorded a series of records and statistics on more than 7,000 highly happy volunteers.

The survey results show that those who have no requirements for material, but they are good at thinking, are often the strongest.

There is a saying: "After 35 years old, life is low, and the soul is high."

How many people have become fascinated in the brilliant material civilization, and they are busy and mediocre;

How many people lost their hearts in the desolate and barren spiritual world, first lived yourself into sorrow, and then lived sorrow into normal.

In these years, the older the age, the more I feel:

Do subtraction for material life and adding addition to the spiritual world is the top living method in life.

To know--

Live the simplest material life, half of the chicken flying dog jump in my heart;

Doing the richest spiritual thinking, there will be several times more life possibilities in the future.

I like a word very much:

"Simple life and noble soul are the highest realm of life."

After 35 years of age, life can stay away from the hustle and bustle;

Only the soul can break away from the vulgar and mediocre.

For the rest of your life, I hope you do subtraction for material life and add addition to the spiritual world;

May you listen to the sound deep in the soul and find the most valuable path in life.

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Author | Jingxing, read the author at 10 o'clock.

Picture | Visual China

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