If you feel incompatible with the world, go and see "Most Silence"

On April 10, 1997, Wang Xiaobo issued the last email in his life to his friend Liu Xiaoyang on the other side of the ocean.

He told his friends excitedly that he wanted to produce a collection of essays called "Most of the Silence".

But on the night of the email, Wang Xiaobo suddenly died at the age of 45.

Wang Xiaobo's life was extremely short, but he wrote his own golden age with a pen.

He has a maverick, and people refuse to work in the middle age. At the age of 40, they have a sudden resignation and writing;

He thought deeply, and a few words broke through the nature of human nature, and said what others wanted to say and dare not say.

In the collection of "Most of the Silence", he even saw the blood to warn the world:

"From discourse, you rarely learn human nature, but you can learn from silence. If you want to learn more, then continue to say a word."

At this moment, you are incompatible with the surroundings, and you may wish to read this "Silent Most".

1

Strive, it's better to be silent

Someone asked, "Why do many people now become more and more silent?"

A high praise answered the heart: Silence is not cowardly, but a lifestyle and choice in a complex environment.

Wang Xiaobo once talked about his experience in the book.

For a while, he liked to watch the memoirs written by Soviet composer Shistekovic.

Because he was particularly affected by his thoughts in the book, he couldn't help sharing the book with his friends.

But the other party only read it for a while, and said that reading this book can not get any fun, the style is too low, and the flow is not inferior.

Another time, Wang Xiaobo sent his new book to the elderly to taste.

Not only did the other party not like, but also at a glance at him, the book cannot be written like this. The mainstream books should play the role of educating the people and enhance the soul.

In the face of the incomprehension of others, Wang Xiaobo did not argue, but chose to be silent. He didn't want himself to be like them:

"Only mastered some superficial principles, I think everything is ingenious, and judge the world deliberately."

The water is deep, and people are stable.

The dispute over the tongue can't change any fact. Only silence is better than thousands of words.

The rhythm is not in the evaluation of others, and it is the greatest maturity of a person alone in his own world.

In the future, when he was ridiculed and he couldn't do business. When he supported his wife Li Yinhe, he buried his head and used a work to speak.

When the irony is not incorporated into the mainstream circle, it is an incompatible alien, he laughed without saying a word, just to live bravely.

Mr. Lu Xun once said: "Silent is the highest contempt."

It is a movement; silence is an attitude.

In the face of the world, complex people's hearts, silence is the most powerful response, and it is the most difficult argument.

In this life, it is more important than defeating others in words to prove themselves. More importantly, in the silent deep sea, Sali has rushed gold and accumulated accumulation.

2

Fate, it is better to fight against

In the book, Wang Xiaobo often recalls his years when he was young.

At the age of 17, like all the young people of that era, he devoted himself to the wave of romantic imagination of Yunnan to the wave of going up the mountain and going to the countryside.

However, it was discovered that their lives had been arranged step by step, and there was no leisure time that belonged to their own.

Feed cattle and pigs during the day, and do endless farm work.

It is even more difficult at night. Without other entertainment activities, they can only play cards with people to play chess at eleven or two o'clock to disappear time.

During the day after day, the teammates who went to have already surrendered to this mediocre numb life. Only Wang Xiaobo felt that "it is not enough to have a person in this life and this life, and he should have a poetic world."

So, through the moonlight, he painted on the mirror with a blue water pen, and tried to capture the flashing thoughts.

He borrowed people to be human and shaped a pig who refused to be favored in his article.

Initially, the pig also had a established destiny. When he was hungry, he was thirsty and drinking water. When it came in spring, he was delivered to the dining table in winter.

But it was unwilling to be locked in the circle and traveled all day. It was either across the fence like a goat or jumped into the room like a cat.

It even imitated the sound of pipy, and shouted on time every day at 10 am.

On weekdays, the production team uses the sound of the factory flute at 11:30, but since the pig began to tweet, it misleads everyone for one and a half hours in advance.

The team believes that it has seriously affected everyone's work progress and is determined to arrest it.

It even broke through the heavily siege circle, escaped the birth day, and traveled to the field since then.

This story seems absurd, but it reflects Wang Xiaobo's irony of reality and pursuing the spirit of the maverick.

Many years later, Wang Xiaobo, who claims to be "hammered by life", still constantly express his nostalgia for the pig:

I am forty years old. Except for this pig, I haven't seen anyone who dares to ignore the settings of life.

On the contrary, I have seen many people who want to set up others' lives, as well as those who have been settled in the setting.

In fact, most people in the world are in the established rules of living.

After finishing the industry, you should find a job from nine to five, take a stable salary, and live a solid life;

When you are old, you should buy a house, get married early, otherwise even if your career is excellent, you are also a loser;

You must have a child when you get married. If you do n’t have a child in your life, your life will be meaningless ...

Under the rules, some people chose to confess their lives, lying on the mercy, and some dare to break the rules and fight against fate. Just like Wang Xiaobo later, he would rather look at the strange eyes of others, and insist on reading books and do geometry.

After the test was restored, he was admitted to China ’s Lumin University at the age of 26.

Just like the Andy in "Shawshank's Redemption", when others are dying in the high wall, he is yearning for the sea of ​​stars outside the wall.

In the end, he opened the door of freedom with a small shovel.

Just like Liserry in "The Wind and Rain Harvard Road", the family of addicted to the gentleman's family. When her parents followed the current, she was not willing to be dragged.

Relying on reading, I walked into the school gate of Harvard University in the top of the United States and completed the perfect counterattack of life.

After reading a word: We are alive, we cannot rot with the grass and trees, we must not be drunk and dream, and we must make a difference.

Acknowledging life will only be muddy, the deeper in the muddy swamp.

Without bowing to fate and saving enough energy, you can welcomes the bright galaxy and light.

3

From the public, it's better to be awake

In the book, Wang Xiaobo also wrote such a story.

A well -known scientific journal in Britain published a news that scientists hybridized the genes of cattle and tomatoes and cultivated a new creature called "Niu Xi Tomato".

It is said that this experimental product is rich in nutrition and tastes the taste of tomato burdock. The dripping juice can be used as milk and cheese.

What's even more amazing is that in addition to being able to enter the mouth, the peel is super tough and can be used for shoes.

For a while, well -known domestic media were excited and reproduced and promoted.

But just when they urged domestic biologists to catch up with advanced foreign technologies, British publications exploded. This media that did not exist at all, it was just a joke of April Fool's Day.

Wang Xiaobo tells everyone with this ridiculous story:

Giving up thinking and letting your brain become the racetrack of others is the greatest misfortune.

However, such things are not only in the story, and life abound in life.

For a while, Wang Xiaobo discovered that there were such people who would hold the cocks and lined up a long team at the door of the hospital.

Because they heard that only the rooster of all the animals twitched the sky, the most spiritual head was the most prosperous, and the blood energy was 100 times the blood, and returned to the old.

As a result, no matter whether these people are harmful to the body, they will go to the hospital to inject.

After a period of time, they heard that they could get fit in their hands, so they desperately threw their hands.

At the same time, Wang Xiaobo couldn't help but sigh: It is essential to live in the world and maintain sound rational thinking.

American social psychologist Solomon Ashi did an experiment in 1951.

Faced with a very simple question, when the previous few people gave an error answer, 75%of the participants would also choose people to also choose people.

The reason why they did this is just because they were afraid of inconsistency, and for seeking identity, they gave up independent thinking.

Thought is the fulcrum and weapons of a person.

Especially in the age of this information disturbance, people who do not have independent thinking ability, do not know how to use rational identification information, will only be led by others.

Blindly, just like the sheep who lost the dominance of behavior in the flock, it was stagnant into the wrong three forks.

Keep rationality and lose your judgment without being wrapped by external information, and you can pick up the steps in your life.

As Xiao Bernard said: "Don't follow the footsteps of others, go to the way, and leave your footprint."

4

Some people say that we miss Wang Xiaobo, and we are also missing the fierce self in the past.

Under the heavy hammer of life, few people still have the courage to stay in the hairline to keep awake and avoid sinking.

And Wang Xiaobo, with his transparency in "Silent Most", tells us:

If you are dissatisfied with reality, you feel that the world is too hustle and impatient.

It is better to settle down in a complex life, find a place to settle for the soul.

Your silence is not a compromise with the world, not a cowardly destiny;

Instead, he does not follow the waves, silently endure in silence, gradually stronger in silence, is not wrapped by the group, and stands independently and calm.

Like a praise, let us not cater to the world in the collision with the world, and always be as fierce.

Author: insight · Nanfeng

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