Elder sister like a mother
Author:Southern Magazine Time:2022.06.29
I returned to the classroom in a new clothes I bought in my elder sister. The classmates looked at me with envy eyes. To be honest, I never felt so handsome.
◎ Lin Wenxiang (Director of the first -level screenwriter, Director of Meizhou Drama Research Studio)
◎ Editor -in -chief of this article / Jiang Yu
The elder sister just graduated from high school, and the threshold at home was almost broken. Some who cared about the media and came to the door. It is said that there are still those who want to ask for the "goddess". It is useless. Brother, my sister is still young. "
My sister and brother were born in Luohu Village in Golden Town, Fengshun County, Guangdong. I am 10 years younger than my elder sister. At that time, his father was busy with revolutionary work. The mother was seriously ill, and the family had a serious lack of labor. The burden fell on the elder sister.
A bowl of beef soup
I have been wild since I was a child, played and greedy, and I am not afraid of it. I was tired of playing bird's nests on the mountain and picked the wild songs. It was not new to sleep on the cement board of the ancestral grave. Get my mother often shouted that "wild dogs" were looking for me.
I do n’t know what to do, I am afraid of my pair of people who are good. On one occasion, she picked fertilizer to fertilize the vegetable field, and told me to watch the porridge in the furnace before going out. Soon after she left, the porridge opened and cooked, and my saliva fell. Have you ever eaten it? The hot porridge is mixed with lard, sprinkled some salt, and put some onions, but that is the high -grade food in my childhood memory! I couldn't help it. I scooped up a bowl of porridge and moved through the bench. I wanted to remove the lard bowl on the top of the wall cabinet. The elder sister suddenly came back and scared me almost fell to the ground. Unexpectedly, she didn't say a word, put down the burden, washed her hands, helped me remove the oil mantle, cut the onion ...
In fact, my pouting problem was developed by the eldest sister. When I was 13 years old, I went to school 30 kilometers away from home. At that time, the father retired, and the second sister dropped out of school to help her mother hold her housework at home. Because the family is still very poor, the elder sister goes to the clothing factory in Tangkeng, Fengshun County to work, and can earn more than 20 yuan a month.
Tangkeng's beef soup is well -known for a long time. Until now, if you go to Tangkeng but don't eat the beef soup there, then your trip can be regarded as running in vain. Tangkeng is also 30 kilometers away from Fengliang. I often spend seven cents on Saturday to "see the elder sister" in Tangkeng. Speaking of my sister -in -law, in fact, what I remember in my heart was the delicious beef soup. When I arrived at Tangkeng, my elder sister would take me to the restaurant and called a bowl of beef soup, but she sat quietly and watched me eat. I asked, "Sister, why don't you eat?" She always said faintly, "I have been eating in the cafeteria." How many years have passed, and every night when people are quiet, when I think of the scene of the year, I still can't help tears. Bob. Today, I have tasted a lot of treasures in the world, but only the bowl of beef soup made me unforgettable for life!
I have eaten earthworms
I am not afraid of laughing (of course, a bit of "Versailles"). I have been over half a year old. I have never bought a piece of clothes for myself. Until now I don't know what size my shirt and pants are. My wife will buy me, the old girl who worshiped will buy me, and the ninety -year -old mother will buy it for me. The key is that the eldest sister has been buying it for me. Full of clothes and clothes, I can often match the tolerance of Jiji. Do you say it is angry? With such an older sister, the younger brother is not "low -energy".
I was in the first day of studying in Fengliang Junior High School in 1981. One day when the autumn and winter changes, God did not know what nerves were posted. Too far from home, I didn't bring a cold clothes, sitting in the classroom froze and trembling, and the two rows of teeth kept knocking on the "emergency wind" of the opera drum board. His face was helpless ... At this time, the elder sister suddenly appeared at the door of the classroom, holding a bag in her hand, telling me to return to the dormitory and put on a new autumn clothes and autumn pants she bought for me, and a green coat. Then she hurried back to the county seat 30 kilometers away. I returned to the classroom in a new clothes I bought in my elder sister. The classmates looked at me with envy eyes. To be honest, I never felt so handsome.
There is a saying in the West that people come to the world, and God will send an angel to protect you. The angel is your mother. I am lucky, the elder sister is like a mother, I have two angels! In the summer of 1974, his father took his mother to Huangtang Hospital in Meixian District for major surgery. As soon as he approached half a year, he only left the older sister to live with our three siblings. Once I had a fuel -saving lamp, because I touched shrimp and caught crabs in the ditch, but I got a high fever with a cold cough. Although I asked the doctor to get an injection, I still did not retreat. Three days and three nights, the elder sister has been staying at my bedside. The mother lived and died in a distant place, and the younger brother in front of him was dying. I can still remember that when I woke up in the middle of the night, I saw her sobbing in a low voice, and her thin body kept shaking! That year, the eldest sister was only 16 years old! Until many years later, there was a routine physical examination. The doctor said that there were several calcification points in my lungs, and I knew that I had tuberculosis. The reason why I did n’t die is that my eldest sister asked someone to ask for a remedy. I dug a few earthworms as a medicine for the soup and cheated me to drink it. Later, my brother kept joking, because I had eaten earthworms. But I was more willing to believe that at the time, I should have reached Naihe Qiaotou, and the elder sister called back and shouted me back.
"Ye Xia Tao" day
For this family, the eldest sister has not been married until the age of 25. No, to be precise, I have never been in love. In the small county in the mountains of that era, the old girl was definitely an old girl, and the children of their peers would make soy sauce. Her parents also began to worry about her lifelong event. She has no need to say that she has chopped firewood from a young age. She has done hardships, tailoring, and getting off the mine ... She has eaten bitterness, and she does not understand the young people now. One year of the Spring Festival, she returned from the clothing factory on vacation and gave her father more than 300 yuan. In the early 1980s, this was not a decimal, but she only wrote that the money came from where the money came from. The eldest sister has been very opinionated since she was a child. Her parents knew that she refused to say that she was useless. She guessing and guessing that she was ecstatic, thinking that she had found a rich boyfriend in her family. It wasn't until many years that she said that the money was actually used to use the night break in the past year, and she received a lot of tailor clothes.
Speaking of the eldest sister and the elder brother, I also have to thank our three siblings for their drag. The two talents have the opportunity to find the real half. At the age of 25, she and her brother -in -law almost fell in love at first sight and eventually became dependents. They have been married for many years, and I have been calling my brother -in -law to call it. Perhaps it is destined to be. In the decades since then, my elder brother -in -law really replaced my brother to become the pillar of our family.
In the spring of 1993, my brother was on a businessman and collided with a large truck. Unfortunately, he killed, and the sky in the family suddenly collapsed. The father who came through the wind and waves was dead, and the elder sister who was in the wind fell, and I just entered the society ... My brother's funeral treatment fell on the elder sister alone. He first brought his hometown to his parents, and then slowly disclosed the bad news. Then he invited his doctor and friends to wait for the elderly weak and sad parents for 24 hours, and then processed my brother's funeral alone. Essence In the whole process, he would not even let me participate, for fear of something wrong in this family. In that period of the liver and intestine, every night, when the old man was relatively quiet, he would stand on the balcony alone and smoke one by one ... After spending 10 years with the elder sister, he took us as his compatriots and his own flesh and flesh. It's right.
There are such big sisters and elder brother -in -law. Although I can still live "Ye Xia Tao", in that suffering experience, my elder brother -in -law taught me how to be a big husband.
I am also addicted to "scolding"
After the eldest sister got married, she became a mother -in -law. There are five younger brothers and sisters under the elder brother. He has come over for decades. The relationship between his aunt is very good. Later, the elder brother -in -law became the deputy county chief and the standing committee member of the county party committee. He was also a "high work" in the mountain city. In the buses, the eldest sister always stepped on the bicycle when she went out. I heard that many people said that if the elder sister rode a bicycle on the road to say hello, she would get out of the car and talk to the other party to talk about a few words of parents.
Everyone said that the eldest sister was humble and docile. Only my elder brother -in -law and I would laughed. The elder brother -in -law called her "Secretary of the Discipline Inspection Commission" in private. No matter how long our siblings have been seen, she can't say a few words, she will start "scolding" me, for decades like a day. In the past, I "scolded" that I was delicious and playful, did not think for progress, sitting and sitting, and the king of bragging. Now I scolded me at the hesitation, the reputation, arrogant personality, not understanding the world, and so on. No matter what I do, she can find the reason for "scolding" me at any time, and "scolding" my mouth is very good, and she almost caught up with my old father who can seal the speech for three hours at the 10,000 -person conference. She loves to "scold" my "problem". Since she is married to her elder brother -in -law, the "compulsory courses" I have trained have changed from the previous "big sister to scold" to their "husband and wife scolding".
Now that we are all old, I am addicted to the "scolding" of his two and half of his life. If there is no scolding, I will take the initiative to return to Fengshun to find the elder sister and elder brother who has retired at home. After drinking two cups of tea, I deliberately said that I offended who and who had caused something wrong, and then quietly waited for quietly waiting for They "scolded" until they felt that they were "scolded" and began to "admit their mistakes" and expressed their willingness to "change the past". Then, they drank two glasses of wine with the elder brother -in -law, and they left with satisfaction.
The eldest sister and elder brother -in -law just had the 40th anniversary of marriage this year, and also "scolded" me for 40 years, hoping to "scold" me for 40 years. No, if there is a afterlife, no matter whether they are willing, I still have to be their younger brother and can't get rid of it. Otherwise, who is willing to "scold" me!
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