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Reader: Li Chunjiang

Buddha said:

"There is eight sufferings in life, which are life, old, sick, dead, love, love, resentment, no need, unable to let go."

Human palms are so big, and there are too many things that can't be held. Life should be simple, too many thoughts will live very tired.

It is also a lifestyle.

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Light gains and losses

A few days ago, I went to a buffet with my friends.

My friend said: "It's tiring to eat buffet meals. In the face of so many types of food, I don't want to miss each other, but I really can't support it."

When he was about to eat, he said to me, "Did you not eat it?"

This sentence triggers my thinking.

Regarding our lives, if someone asks you what else is not available, I will feel a bit sad.

Because you can't get everything.

I remembered that I went to Shanghai to watch the art exhibition and met a pair of father and daughter.

Dad said to her daughter: "The air tickets spent thousands, the tickets spent hundreds, and each painting had to be seen."

The pair of father and daughter walked quickly in the exhibition hall. There were three floors in the entire exhibition hall, and the two were exhausted.

I told my friends in the exhibition hall.

He said: "After working here for 5 years, although many paintings have not been seen, I still feel very happy, because I also saw a lot of amazing paintings."

In fact, what is getting and not getting anything is just two different attitudes of life.

Just like when we went to eat buffet, "There are still a lot of foods not eaten."

You will be tired at this moment because you can't eat all food. Even if you really eat all the food, your stomach will feel particularly uncomfortable.

But if you say, "The cake I just ate is really delicious. When the cake melted in my mouth, I think life is so happy."

For what we already have, we must have a sense of satisfaction and cherishment.

Just like you are holding a person, but still thinking about the other person who hasn't hugged, it feels painful.

Because there are billions of people on the earth, you can't hold everyone.

Therefore, since you can't get it, you can cherish what you have.

For the rest of your life, I hope you can see the gains and losses, and you are comfortable.

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Look at the fame

Ask you a question:

What does it look like to come to the world?

Is there any power to travel around the world, or in the poetic countryside.

95 -year -old donated 35.68 million. Have you heard of Ye Jiaying's story?

She is the protagonist of the literary documentary "Shuishuiyue in hand".

She is an academician of the Royal Society of Canada.

She donated all savings, books, calligraphy and calligraphy to Nankai, and set up the "Jialing Fund".

She is the descendant of the Eight Banners' children. Her grandfather is a jinteller of the Qing Dynasty. Her father graduated from the English Department of Peking University, but the family loved classical poetry.

Under the influence of the elders, Ye Jiaying has been immersed in ancient texts since childhood.

At the age of 17, she was admitted to the Department of Chinese Language of Furen University, and her mother died of illness this year.

In her sophomore year, she met the teacher who changed her life -Gu Sui.

Gu Suijiao "Tang and Song Poems", each of his courses, Ye Jiaying is elective.

She wrote down eight notes, and she took the notes with the world, from Beijing to Taiwan, to the United States, to Canada.

When she graduated, Gu Sui wrote a short saying to her: "I don't want you to inherit my mantle. I hope you can open a new world outside of my method."

This sentence affected her life.

At the age of 20, she wrote the sentence: "I have worried about the world, and the fugitives will not borrow the name."

She will use her life to inherit Chinese classical culture.

Now that she is in her 90s, she lives a bitter life alone and is accompanied by poetry.

She said that the gentleman worried about the poverty.

She did not care about fame and fortune in her life, just dedicated to her ideals.

There is a saying in "Tao Te Ching": "Name and body?

Which one is important than life? Which one is more important than life? Which one is harmful to get fame money and lose life?

In ancient times, 6 people went to take a boat and encountered a storm.

Seeing that the ship was about to be flooded, the people on the boat dived and escaped, but one person was not as fast as others.

Others asked: "You usually have a good water nature, why is it so slow today?"

He said, "I have thousands of copper coins in my waist, and the weight is very heavy. I can't swim at all."

Others persuaded him to say, "You will be drowned, and finally the money is empty, throw the money away."

He didn't listen to persuasion, and was drowned by the water.

It can be seen that the word fame and fortune is a puppet in one person's heart.

For how many people paid various costs for fame and fortune, they even lost their lives.

Some people are implemented as soon as they are born, and you have to become famous.

Some people live in the desire of nothing in their lives and lose their own family happiness.

The wise man Leshan Mountain is picturesque, and the benevolent is beautiful.

Those who have experienced bustling, they know that fame and fortune is to see flowers in the fog.

At the moment of birth, everyone is carrying a empty basket, and we will continue to fill things in the basket, and only the life of adding addition will be tired.

For the rest of your life, I hope you can see fame and fortune and learn to do subtraction.

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Deadly love and hate

Knowing a topic:

What is the hardest thing in the world?

Gao Zan's answer is:

Love can't, hate but can't. Perseverance is too deep and suffering for a lifetime.

Share the emotional story of listening to You Yufei.

When she was studying at Xiamen University, she met her boyfriend Jiahua. The two have been dating for four years, and they get married after graduation.

With less than a year after marriage, the man had a new love. She chose to divorce and not consume her feelings.

After the divorce, she continued to believe in love.

A year later, she met another man. The two fell in love for 6 years and finally broke up.

The people around him were incredible and asked her why she left that excellent man?

She said, "It's very simple, I'm not happy with him. Only when I leave him can I be liberated."

She is self -reliance, self -love, and indifferent love and hate.

When we are together, love. If you don't love it, two knives are broken.

This is the posture in love.

But in life, too many people are bound by love and hate. They are entangled in love all their lives, and they are suffering for love throughout their lives.

Why do people feel pain?

Because, if you want to change things that cannot be changed, you want to retain people who cannot be retained.

In the circle of friends, I have read a sentence: "Since it has become a fact, it can only be so."

If you seemingly frightened, you actually write a calm and calmness.

Jimi said, "Don't be entangled for too long in a awkward thing. After a long time of entanglement, you will be annoying, painful, tired, tired, wounded, and heartbreak.

In fact, in the end, you are not overwhelming with things, but you can't live with yourself. Whether you are awkward, you must learn to pull back. "

Love and hate are in the same thoughts.

Looking away, it is light, and it doesn't matter.

Inxuated things, decisively give up. People without fate let go in time.

Human disturbance, learn to accept. In the face of helplessness, An Zhiru.

For the rest of your life, I hope you can see the love and hate, and you will be safe.

Reader

Li Chunjiang

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■ Edit: Dong Jie

■ Responsible editor: Wang Shujun

■ Supervision: Li Jianhui

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