People who are really amazing know how to keep these two things
Author:Ask Zen Time:2022.06.28
Those who are big things, the more they know how to keep the "degree"
Author: Jingjing
Source: net material (ID: cystyle001)
As the saying goes, "There is a circle of people, and there is a scale to do things."
Born as a person, you must comply with certain behavioral rules and understand how to live in the way of receiving things.
Being a person, you must grasp your own proposal;
To do things, master your own scale.
The more powerful people, the more they can keep the two things below.
Conservation
There is a saying in "Journey to the West": "The trees are greatly moved to shake the trees, and the people are fame."
Some people think that they are too capable and smart, so they are complacent, and they often forget the scale.
In the end, not only the enemy is everywhere, it is suppressed or excluded by others, but also hurts himself.
During the Three Kingdoms period, you were young and talented, and everything was empty.
When he first arrived in Xuchang, some people advised him to work with Chen Qun and Sima Lang, but Heheng refused: "How can I be friends with people who kill pigs and sell wine?"
After that, someone introduced him to Zhao Zhichang and Gou, and as a result, Hui Heng replied:
"Gou Yue is really white and has a good look. If he is funeral, he can use his face; Zhao Zhichang is a wine bag, so he has to ask him to watch the kitchen."
Many people see him so arrogant, and they are extremely reluctant to get along with him.
Later, because he was too sharp, he angered Cao Cao and Liu Biao, and finally caused the killing of himself and died in Huang Zu's hands.
In the "Rroanian" of the Ming Dynasty politician Lu Kun, he talked a very brilliant words:
"Smart must also be very important. It only needs to be hidden in a thick role. The ancient and modern people are in trouble.
It is said that people can be savvy, but not too much. The more savvy people, the more likely it is to cause trouble.
If a person is often too sharp and forgets the scale, he will be clever and clever, and you will have to lose.
The Buddha once warned his disciples:
"If you have a very talented talent, you must hide five points. These five points are from insurance."
As the saying goes, Da Ying is lacking, and the wisdom is foolish.
Those who become big things, the more they know how to keep the "degree", learn to properly put away their own edge, act low -key, and be polite.
Codes
There is an old saying in China: "There is no rule, not a square."
Whenever and wherever we need to comply with the rules and restrict our behavior.
Destroying the rules may allow you to enjoy a moment of joy, but the result it brings is often more disadvantaged.
Just as crossing the road, you need to abide by traffic rules, and you must not get off at random in the zoo beast area.
If pedestrians cross the road, it will easily cause traffic accidents.
If you get out of the car in the zoo, it will be easily attacked by the beast.
The rules are the greatest self -discipline and the best character of a person.
At that time, Qilu fought, and Lu Guo often defeated because of his weak strength. Therefore, many soldiers were captured by Qi State as captives.
At that time, the captives could be redeemed with money.
So Lu Guo issued a policy to encourage merchants to go to Qi State to help redeem the soldiers in Lu Kingdom, and all the ransom was borne by Lu State.
Many businessmen responded after hearing this policy.
Confucius' disciples also went to Qi Guo to redeem many soldiers of Lu.
But after he returned, he did not reimburse with Lu Guo, because he felt that he didn't lack money, so he could pay a lot of money for the province of Lu.
When he showed off the "good thing" with Confucius with joy, not only did Confucius not praise him, he scolded him:
"You think you are doing a good thing, but it is actually a bad thing. You do not comply with policies and regulations and contribute without authorization.
In this way, will businessmen willing to go to Qi State to redeem the soldiers of Lu? You are not saving people, but that you are hurting people. "
As soon as Zigong heard it, he understood the consequences of the rules of the rules. After admitting the mistake, he immediately picked up the redemption ticket to find Lu Guo for reimbursement.
"Disciples" said: "People, not to be abandoned by rules."
Only by keeping the rules can have the same force; the rules can be known to know the proportion.
People, knowing the rules is a symbol of a person who is truly mature.
Mu Xin, a well -known contemporary writer, once said:
"High -quality life is to know what you should do at all times."
Knowing the degree, you can do things freely.
Knowing the rules, you can be disciplined by yourself.
Those who can insist on doing these two points must be a great life!
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