"Life is rich because of loneliness": Your ability to be alone exposes your height of life

Previously, the "Bentley Girl" in Shenzhen was so high that the incident of showing off wealth crazy was not calm, but Tangshan revealed that the appalling "several men beaten a woman incident" ...

The expansion of people's hearts that breed in rights and rights reveal the ugliest side of human nature.

Think about it, if a person is allowed to control the desire and emotions, and always live in the mood of interests, comparison, and vanity, whether it will never be.

And in the lonely, should you be glad to be lonely?

At this time, reading Mr. Zhou Guoping's "Life is rich and rich" may help: how can we be lonely in the hustle and bustle?

How to enable loneliness and brew your own life?

01

Let life return to simplicity

Teacher Zhou Guoping said: "Life is originally simple. However, people live more and more complicated. Many times, we are not living as life, but living as desire, ambition, identity, and title, not for life for life, not for life Live, but for wealth, power, status, and reputation. "

The accumulation of these substances and intangible piles cover the light that life should have.

Just like the "Good Song" sang by the lame of the Taoist in "A Dream of Red Mansions":

"The world is good, but only the fame can not forget!

Everyone in the world is good, only beauty can't forget!

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There is nothing wrong with pursuing a better material life. This is the right to competition rights given to this era, and it is also an opportunity to show a person's wisdom.

But at the same time, there is another line of life that also needs to travel, that is, the inner mental state of life.

When a person is immersed in the pursuit and pleasure of material, the soul is hidden, and you can't feel the nature of the person who is the spirit of all things.

You can not experience the color conversion of all things in the four seasons, the flowering and withered of life; what a member of all things should enjoy, the ordinary life fun of Chunhua and Qiu Shi, and children.

Teacher Zhou believes: "Letting life return simply is not only a kind of life art, but also a spiritual cultivation."

This kind of cultivation itself refers to: not covered and confused by the external material appearance; it is not slavered by greedy vanity.

Only when the outside is simple can the inner life really open to you.

Once a person's soul is lit, all your life becomes open.

In this way, we can understand the top talents in a certain field. They have an enterprising spirit beyond ordinary people. For several years, they have achieved results in their fields.

What we see is the "achievement", and the sense of mission and the whole process of seeking is the falling point of their hard work and joy.

Like what has been brushed recently, Wei Dongyi, who has been reserved at Peking University, is low -key, humble, simple, and refuses to have a strong salary abroad. What he is pursuing is a kind of professionalism and spiritual abundance.

02

Lonely

Each of our lives belongs to ourselves. The feelings between growth and aging and the pain that gathers separation is carved into the double traces of the soul and body.

In the hustle and bustle, you will yearn for loneliness, and when you are lonely, you are eager to see similar figures, which is a contradiction in human nature.

In fact, compared to the hustle and bustle, which one you choose to endure.

But don't be confused that the loneliness of the mind is different from the loneliness of character.

Teacher Zhou Guoping's point of view is: "Lonely belongs to the weak, and loneliness is strong. Neither of them are in groups, but the former is afraid of being hurt.

Or, lonely people are easy to enter the hutong, and because of the abundance of their hearts, the lonely people realize that the disability and regrets of life are inevitable, and they will accept the "lonely state" of life.

Regarding the relationship between "loneliness and creation", Mr. Zhou believes that "Xu is a cause and effect."

Those who are negligent in communication will definitely pay more attention to the inner world, and focusing on creation also seems to be destined to lead to an alienation in interpersonal relationships.

The birth of some great works, most of the source creators have endured loneliness for a long time.

Sulor's two years away from the bustle of wasteland, self -sufficient, and pursuing the spirit of freedom, which made him create a great "Lake Walden".

Nietzsche and Van Gogh, because of loneliness, creation has become their spiritual comfort. But because of this, they could not get ordinary warmth.

Or it can be said that a person's spiritual world determines his realm of life. There is no absolute good or bad. Lonely people use to create comfort and loneliness, but they cannot feel it all.

In a state of enduring loneliness, or for the big goal ideal, he has been committed to focusing on research for a long time.

Or choose to leave the hustle and bustle, and make loneliness into a stronger love and inject it into a spiritual home. Even a small flower, small grass, trees and rivers in Tianxiang can carry this loneliness -born into love.

"It turns out that loneliness is also a kind of love."

In the accidental existence of the rotation, no one could change the fate of human beings.

"Love can soothe the loneliness, but you can't eliminate loneliness."

If you try to completely eliminate loneliness, you will lose weight and move towards its opposite side.

The loneliness explained by Mr. Zhou Guoping does not mean that there is no "partner". On the contrary, if you have the same self, you can appreciate the loneliness, loneliness, and alone, but also have a kind of interest in life.

03

Conclusion

Thousands of worlds, thousands of prosperity.

Only not being confused by glittering can keep the inner side clean and explore the meaning of the true life. This meaning is not absolutely or not. But what can be followed is that people are a species with faith, and life is the only one.

"Human noble lies in the soul."

With a tens of thousands of bags on the back and driving a million cars, it can only bring you a moment of happiness, or happiness, but it is justified for vanity.

Going to a luxurious banquet can not offset tomorrow's lunch.

Do not ignore the function of "tools" and do not abandon the spirit.

There are also spring in grass and trees, and people need to grow constantly in their lives.

On the long road of life, in the contest of constantly grinding and persistent, hustle and bustle and loneliness, choose a lifestyle that can reflect your own life value.

Looking for meaning in loneliness, breaking the shackles in the meaning.

Zhou Guoping is a well -known scholar. The contemporary prose is everyone. Reading his "light philosophy" prose can always awaken more of your sleeping spirit.

Your ability to be alone exposes your height of life.

"Life is lonely", I hope you can get something.

Author: Jane Y, study members of the readers, draw the fragrance of life from simplicity.

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