The results of the college entrance examination have come out: all silence is a kind of kindness behind

Author:reader Time:2022.06.28

In the past few days, the results of the college entrance examinations in each province have been released one after another, and tens of millions of candidates have ushered in the boundary of destiny.

Some people say that the college entrance examination will be settled in the first battle, and after this hurdle, you can successfully jump in the dragon gate.

In fact, the college entrance examination is a harsh contest. It can really stand out, and there are very few people who are among the Qingbei.

For most candidates, disappointment, regret and unwillingness are inevitable.

But as there is a saying: "The college entrance examination is a battle of life, but it is just a stop of life."

Test papers small world, life test room.

Regardless of the results, the students' future will open a new page.

Therefore, if you are a candidate, you can get a good test. Congratulations to your dream Yuan this summer.

If you do n’t get well, you can lose, you can be sad, but you do n’t have to despair.

If you are a bystander, there are children around you who have fallen in the college entrance examination.

Then at this time, the best concern is actually only two words: silence.

Don't let a word that comes out, stabb the child's self -esteem; don't let an unintentional look burn the child's heart.

It is the greatest kind to leave others for a decent decentness.

Haven't experienced the suffering of others

Don't easily unveil others' injuries

Two days ago, the results of the college entrance examination were about to come out. A friend talked about his past when he was in the party:

"At that time, reading was really bitter.

"Every day, the mountains are wading, and the schools from the hometown of the mountains to the county seat. In order to catch up with the early course, they often go to the feet to grind several large blisters.

"In the evening, when the moonlight, I rushed home to write test papers, memorize notes ..."

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Then he paused, and added another sentence: "Now the children are easy to study, they are eating or wear, which is like us at that time."

I laughed after listening and didn't answer.

Thinking of some time ago, there was a saying on the Internet: "A generation of people has a generation of long marks, and a generation has the mission of a generation."

In fact, I think there should be another sentence later: "A generation has a generation of hard work."

It seems that the number of candidates has reached 11.93 million in the 2022 college entrance examination.

The year when my friend took the college entrance examination, the number of candidates was only 5.1 million.

That is to say, today's children may be full and well dressed, but mental stress is increasing day by day.

We always think that our situation is the most difficult, and we don't know that each generation has its own difficulty.

Netizen@网网 said: "In the year of high school, because I was too desperate to get hypotension, the most difficult time, I learned while infusion."

Netizen@网网 said: "In order to grab time, I never went out for lunch. I bought a cake and put it in the table pocket.

Netizen @ayn said: "Stay up all night to a little, brush the questions over and over again, and wake up the next morning. I often feel that my heart is uncomfortable, but I still bite my teeth."

Native

There are too many.

Where we can't see, most of the blood and tears of struggle, most of which are pressure and grievances that have nowhere to place.

Some people say that the farthest distance between people is that I think the person in front of me is in fact. In fact, I do n’t know the torment and pain he has suffered at all.

Don't think that children think too much, they are all agitating.

The kind of pain of giving sweat can not get the distress of reward, you have not experienced it; the pain that you insist on the stars and Yue, but you can not experience it overnight.

Since you can't feel the same body, don't judge delusion.

Because you have a word of inadvertent words, you may deny the three years of hard work of others; the joke that you think of it may just cut the unhealed wound.

Life is not easy. If you have not experienced the suffering of others, don't easily unveil the injury of others.

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Don't say that it is wisdom

Seeing or disassembly is conservation

In our account message area, readers share their stories every day.

I was very impressed by a reader named Gary Wu.

When he was in high school, he worked hard, but his grades were not tip.

On the day of the college entrance examination results, he only passed the two lines. It was naturally just an ordinary university.

But his mother was a people's teacher. Many students taught, many of them went to prestigious schools.

One day, he accompanied his mother to buy food and met a parent on the road.

In the greetings, the other party asked his achievements.

He explained truthfully, but he didn't expect someone to have a sentence: "Such points, your mother is still a teacher."

For a moment, the atmosphere fell to the freezing point.

What is even more embarrassing is that the other party went on to say: "My daughter, I took 660 points this year, I was not very satisfied."

Because of these words, the mother burst into tears when she returned home, depressed, and could not be relieved.

That summer vacation that was originally long became a nightmare of Gary Wu.

Five years later, Gary Wu was admitted to a graduate student in a famous Hong Kong school, but the parent's daughter failed in the postgraduate war.

Gary wu wanted to go to the disaster, but his mother stopped him: "Why bother to poke the pain of others."

Think of Chekhov's sentence:

"Real education is not to sprinkle soup when eating, but don't watch when others sprinkle soup."

Life is alive, everyone has some knots that are unwilling to listen to others and are not willing to be asked.

The more this case, the more you can see a person's heritage and education. Leave a little room for others and leave yourself a world.

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Calm silence

Is the highest -level kindness

Blog@博博博 has told such a story.

When he was studying in high school, his family conditions were very bad.

At that time, children of the same age would go out and go out with their parents every month, but he often couldn't even eat food.

One evening, he passed by the school's snack street and saw the menu at the door of a restaurant. The meals above were cheaper than other homes.

He walked in hesitantly, but only ordered a white rice.

The boss watched his thin look and said that he could send a bowl of vegetable soup for free.

He thought that Cai Tang didn't want money, and he called another more, saying that he took it to school for lunch.

As a result, when the boss put the bowl on the table, Zhang Yinian saw a white rice piled into a small mountain.

He was hungry, gobbled up regardless of the disregard.

Halfway, tears were glowing in his eyes -it turned out that under the bowl of white rice, there were full of meat dumplings hidden, and a braised egg.

"The Tao Te Ching" has a saying: "Good deeds, there is no trace."

The more kind people, the more they can understand the difficulty of others, and give a gentle silence, which makes people feel warm.

Writer Xingzhu wrote his own experience in the book "Uncertainty in Life".

When Xingzhu was young, he lived in the countryside with his family, and his life was very hard.

At that time, there were 3 children in the house, but there were only two beds. They were always frozen in the middle of the night in winter.

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One day, he followed his mother to the aunt's house as a guest.

When leaving, the aunt took out a blanket and said that the blankets were put on the bugs. It was better to let the mother of Xingzhu take it away, lest waste.

They hugged the blankets home with joy, saying and laughed all the way, because everyone could not be frozen since then.

Many years later, Xingzhu grew up, and he discovered that at that time, the aunt was also the poor. How could there be excess blankets?

The reason why this is just afraid of hurting their self -esteem.

Plato said: "Be kind, everyone you meet is fighting a difficult battle."

When you have seen all kinds of people and you have seen different lives, you will understand:

Behind some frustrations, maybe it is difficult to speak; some shabby and bitter appearance may be the sadness that ordinary people are difficult to appreciate.

Compared to the concern of the big fanfare, the calm silence is the highest -level kindness.

I have always liked such a paragraph:

The true kindness is the banner of good deeds without rising the kindness;

It is the scenery of the scenery, and the dark room does not bully;

It is because Jide does not need to be seen, and goodwill is like clearing.

The results of the college entrance examination have come out. The best concern for students is not to ask and disturb, but to swallow all the curiosity words silently.

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