No matter what age, don't ignore these 4 people's bottom lines

"The Analects of Confucius" said: A gentleman is pregnant, the little man is pregnant. The gentleman is in his punishment, and the villain is Huai Hui.

This means that the gentleman and the villain's thoughts every day are different.

The gentleman will reflect on his morality every day, but the villain only remembers whether his house can appreciate every day; the gentleman respects social rules and legal rules, and villains will only be greedy for Xiao En Xiaohui.

Being a person must have a bottom line. You can not be a gentleman, but don't be a villain.

Keeping the following four bottom lines is to keep the dignity of being a person and be a human qi.

01 No matter how smooth, but it is greedy

I have seen a very brilliant concept, called Shunjing Management:

When people are particularly smooth, they must suppress their own momentum.

Shunting is more tested than adversity, because people are most likely to overestimate themselves in the current situation and lose themselves.

Therefore, in the current situation, stabilize yourself, but to be greedy, you can stabilize.

Not greedy. People with excellent character are indifferent and reputable. Instead, people who are famous for their reputation will be tired of their reputation and even be killed by reputation.

In the way, it is easy to lose yourself in some words of Fengshen, fight for high, fight for qi, and fight for names. When you have suffered a loss and fell, you know that you do n’t fight or grab the name.

Not greedy for money. Those who are too greedy, desire like vines, constantly take root, always hope that fish and bear's paw can be both. Some people can abandon their loved ones and friends for money. I want anything, and in the end, nothing will be available.

02 No matter how hard, don't lose your ambition

Life is sometimes tired, and everyone will be decadent. No matter how difficult it is, a person must have his own dignity and cannot lose his ambition.

People are alive just for a breath. Effective and hardworking work hard, but I hope I can fight for anger.

People must learn to look forward, less emotions, sigh, and walking down than complaining than complaints.

Zeng Guofan said: "Resting a group of spring means and supporting two poor bones." "A group of spring means", saying that there must be a good attitude; although the "two poor bones" have the intention of ridicule, they are saying that there must be bones to be a man, and even if you encounter setbacks, you must maintain principles.

Without a person's bone, the whole person lost his support; if a person had no ambition, he lost the motivation to move forward.

Regardless of the ability, no matter how hard you are in life, as long as you live with ambition, not afraid of wind and rain, and not afraid of bumps, you can stand strong and mighty.

03 Cooked again, don't calculate too much

Whether it is emotional or life, people will always compare. How deep is the other party who loves you and how many yuan when buying food, care about the gains and losses in life.

It is not wrong to care about it. Excessive calculations are disgusting.

Some people calculate love in order to make a good life, some people calculate their friends in order to gain private interests. Some people have only benefits and disadvantages in their eyes.

All thoughts are for yourself, regardless of others, and never restraint. After a long time, everyone can see what kind of person you are.

No matter how good the relationship is, don't feel that others should pay, don't count others. Calculated everything, but in the end, he lost his heart.

04 No matter how difficult it is, you can't specify

A hard work, a harvest.

But the rhythm of modern society is getting faster and faster, and many people start to bear their temperament, so they hope to take a shortcut, hoping to reach the end of the end with speculation.

As everyone knows, the gifts given by heaven are in secret. Those speculative strengths and saving efforts will go back sooner or left.

Zeng Guofan was stupid when he was young, and was even humiliated by the examiner in public.

At the age of twenty -three years old, Xiucai was tested, and the county was the second. However, Zeng Guofan learned very well. Although the "Xiucai" took a lot of time, it took only five years to "Jinshi", much faster than ordinary people.

It is the "stupid man" of Zeng Guofan. The foundation is solid and step by step, but goes further.

A thousand miles begins with a single step. Don't be frustrated and walk slowly yourself, step by step, as long as you step down, you can achieve your goals and ideals sooner or later.

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