Three ways to get out of the trough of life

Schopenhauer said:

People have an inherent mistake, that is to believe that living is for happiness. However, the world has never been operating at the purpose of happiness. Life is a struggle, a history of suffering in tragedy.

In just a few words, the true meaning of life was exhausted.

No matter who it is, they are experiencing their own lives, confused before the way, or being defeated by the torrent of fate.

However, in the downturn, different choices will have different life situations.

Choosing to break the jar will only sink into the pain, stagnate, and make life dim;

Only in the vortex of pain, upside down, no matter how dark the road is, there is a day of rewriting the sun.

These three methods allow you to face the disturbances of life and get out of the downturn as soon as possible.

Life is ups and downs, and there is a low tide.

In the low tide, some people always blame themselves, sluggish.

As a result, it took a lot of energy and did not spare no effort to solve the problem.

Some people, no matter how bad the situation is, can accept it frankly, and put energy on the difficulty of breakthroughs, and eventually dispels the haze.

Mr. Gao Lujie, Mr. Lite, is the latter.

At that time, when he was the company's soap salesman, he had a very low time.

At that time, he sold soaps very hard, but there were few people who bought his soap.

Seeing that if your performance does not meet the standard, it will be fired by the company and loses the source of the economy.

But he did not have a weakness, but began to find the reason why he could not sell soap.

After some inquiry, he concluded that the problem was not in the product and price, but in his own words.

So he began to study his words repeatedly.

Every time, after the sales failed, he thought about where he was not convincing, and where he could say better.

Not only that, he will also ask customers why the reason for not buying and improvement.

Sure enough, Huang Tian lived up to the people. After a period of time, more and more customers bought his soap, he also became the company's best salesperson.

In this way, he not only successfully got out of the downturn, kept his work, but was also appointed as the president of Gao Lingjie.

Psychology has a word called "Karel Vanling Formula".

It means that when you accept the worst situation at the moment, you can focus on solving the problem.

Those who are amazing know this.

They are not not in the downturn of life.

Instead, they know that they are useless and complained, and the problem will not disappear out of thin air.

Blindly resentment, it will only pass by with the opportunity.

In this world, there are always more methods than difficulties.

Dare to face reality, abandon miscellaneous thoughts, always put energy on solving the problem, find the opportunity, take advantage of the situation.

No matter how hard the stones are penetrated by water; no matter how difficult it is to solve, there is a day of solution.

Whenever I think of my friend Lao Zhang, I always feel sorry.

A few years ago, the business of Lao Zhang's factory was declining, and his performance also severely declined. The salary was more than half less than the original, and he could not afford a mortgage.

Many colleagues around him are seeking another way, but he feels that the industry's downturn is just a moment.

Moreover, there are parents who want to be filial, and their children should raise them without daring to act rashly.

Soon after, the factory went bankrupt and he was forced to lose.

For a while, he didn't know where he should go, and he was sorrowful all day.

Coincidentally, a colleague intends to open the hotel and see him good at cooking. He wants to find him as a partner.

I never thought that he had rejected it.

Just because he felt that there were too many restaurants on the street, the competition was too fierce, and he was worried that the hotel would not operate well, and he lost his savings for many years.

In the end, he was only 46 years old and chose to go to the community to be a security guard.

The colleagues who opened the restaurant, because of the booming business of the hotel, opened several branches.

Excessive sufferings and losses are often lost.

What is even more terrible than failure is to be defeated by failure.

In life, this situation abounds.

After many people encountered setbacks, they were worried about failure again, and looked forward.

As a result, the more afraid of failure, the more you dare not move forward. The more nervous your mind, the more you can't change the status quo.

As a result, let yourself fall into the dead cycle of "continuous downturn and struggle", and cannot extricate yourself.

The world is changing rapidly, life cannot be smooth, successful, and sometimes failure.

People must not stop because they are afraid of falling.

At any time, if you want to break through the siege, you must put your energy on the possibility of success. By the way, make the worst preparation and leave the way to fail.

Then, according to the current situation, the strategy is optimized in a timely manner to get out of the predicament.

Someone asked, "How did you survive the trough?"

A high praise replied: "It is indestructible, put a long line, fishing big fish."

People with short eyes are often gray and difficult to walk; and people with long -term eyes can always be ambitious and step by step.

Thinking of the experience of Hollywood superstar Stalong.

Stallone was once a little confusion, but after watching a movie, he was determined to become an actor.

At that time, there were a total of 500 film companies in Hollywood. Each company of Stallone visited three times, but was repeatedly rejected because of her appearance.

This is to be replaced by ordinary people. Seeing that the current efforts are not achieved, they have been hit hard.

But Stallone did not, he always believed that he would always be an actor one day. If he couldn't change his appearance, he concentrated on polishing his script "Rocky" and took it to visit the director.

Although his script was favored by many people, he was rejected again because he was going to star in the actor.

Finally, a director who rejected him more than 20 times promised him to appear.

Unexpectedly, this film set off a huge sensation and won the Oscar Best Film Award.

Since then, Stalong has emerged in major films and has ushered in the spring of his career.

Although it is very difficult to walk on the slope, it is easy to exhausted, but you can see a more beautiful scenery.

There are no insurmountable gaps in the world, nor can there be no obstacles to break through.

Really smart people are optimistic long -term.

Not only can they accept their imperfections, they will not be discouraged because of local failures.

On the way to success, they knew that they stayed in the mountains and were not afraid of no firewood.

Putting your eyes a long time, life can suddenly be cheerful and fragrant.

I really like what Jia Pingwa said:

The snake grew up in the molting, gold was found in the gravel, and the massage was comfortable after pain. Spring was the prosperity of winter.

On the way to grow, the beach reefs are full of reefs, and we will inevitably experience the dark moment of life.

But life is like a pot. When you are in the bottom of the pot, you can go up no matter which direction you go in.

When frustration, do not complain about the sky, put energy on solving the problem, can always break through the fog;

When you are down, you are not afraid of failure, and you can get better in life if you pay attention to success;

When frustrated, not discouraged, look at the future with an optimistic attitude.

Don't be afraid, those sluggish time will eventually turn into the light of your way.

Author | Wu Yan, personal public account: Walking watermelon skin.

Picture | Visual China

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