Mo Yan: The book is going backwards, people must read forward

The past cannot be stunned,

The coming person is still chasing.

Author: Lodge Yebo

Mo Yan once said:

The world is like a book, and one page is turned over; people must look forward and turn over the old account of history.

Most of the time, we live very tired, not the situation of the situation, but the memory is too good.

Life is like a calendar. In the past day, you have to tear away a page and forget all the unhappy people and things.

Only when you learn to turn it out and know how to look forward, can you constantly write a new chapter.

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Those who are irreparable, let go as soon as possible

In Mo Yan's novel "Frog", the youth Wang Yu, who fell in love with a girl named Little Lion.

I thought the two would be together, but I did not expect that the little lion gradually alienated him.

Wang Liver was reluctant. In the next 12 years, he wrote more than 500 lovers.

In order to please the little lion, he even betrayed his sister and friend.

In the end, not only did he not receive any response, but the normal life also became a quagmire.

The writer Zhang Xiaoxian said:

The biggest disadvantage of a person is not selfish and passionate, but paranoid people who do not love themselves.

What does not belong to you and cannot be forced; the relationship that is not suitable is unable to stay.

The people's hearts have changed, their feelings are gone, the more entanglement, the more embarrassing it is.

In Maom's novel "Blade", Isabel and Larry have been engaged since they were young.

Later, Larry went to the war, but after returning, he was judged.

He gave up his generous work, extended his marriage contract, swaying everywhere, looking for the so -called life meaning.

Isabel was lost, but in order to lose Larry, she chose to support and agreed to travel around and do what she wanted to do.

After waiting for two years, she found Larry and asked him to return to the United States to get married.

Unexpectedly, Larry rejected her and said she had to continue a mental journey.

At this time, Isabel finally recognized that in Larry's heart, he was never the most important.

So she took off the engagement ring, returned to Larry, and canceled the marriage contract.

Then Isabel began a new life, eventually married to the young and promising Gray, and lived a happy life.

Jia Zhangke once said:

Some people can only accompany you for a while, and sooner or later they will be separated. After this road, you will meet new people and new life.

Either love or friendship, the time of transit is inevitable, and it is normal for gradually.

Many people will meet in life, but not all the relationships can last forever.

Cherish it well, and you can only let go if you can't keep it.

As Mo Yan said: "Come is accidental, it is inevitable, and of course, let it go."

Only when you learn to let go of your regrets, can you be full of happiness.

2

Things that cannot be changed, turn over early

I agree with one sentence very much: "Don't cry for the overturned milk."

It is not terrible to encounter bad things in life. What is afraid of is blindly entangled with it, not only without complementary things, but also makes the situation worse.

Many things have become a boat, so don't have to worry too much.

I have seen the story of a philosopher Thomas Caleire.

At the age of 40, Carlisle wrote his first book.

After writing the last page, he couldn't restrain his excitement, and came to the yard to take a walk and calm down.

After he left the study, a gust of wind blew, and the manuscript blew it.

After seeing the maid who came to send the tea, he thought it was a waste paper discarded by the owner, so he picked up them and put them into the stove.

When Carlisle returned and learned that his work was turned into ashes, he was shocked.

You know, in order to write this work, he spent 2 years, and his energy and effort were even more estimated.

During that time, Carlisle was stunned every day, and the meal couldn't eat, and I felt that she couldn't sleep well.

It wasn't until one day that he looked up at the calendar that he was surprised that it had been three months, and he didn't do anything except he was mourning.

After some pain, he decided to forget it and re -invest in research.

Three years later, he wrote 3 volumes of "The French Revolution", which established his master's position in the academic world in one fell swoop.

There are always too many things in this world.

Since it cannot be changed, it is better to put aside and continue to rush.

In 2005, Mo Yan's novel "Sandalwood Criminal" was in the final evaluation, and due to the difference of a vote, the Mao Dun Literature Award was missed.

The news came out that many friends called and the words were regrets and regrets.

Unexpectedly, Mo Yan said nothing: "This is the past. I don't have to mention it. I have to put my mind on the next work."

This relief of the established things made him quickly throw this defeat and continue to create.

In 2011, Mo Yan finally won the Eighth Mao Dun Literature Award with the novel "Frog".

Shakespeare once said:

Looking forward, don't look back, as long as you face the courage to face, you will find that the haze at this moment is just a short rainy season.

Everyone will have an unbearable experience, the failure of the caught, and it is expected to blow.

Always sigh, life can only give you darkness.

Don't let a shadow cover all the sunlight, don't let your yesterday imprison your imagination of all the future.

Since the past cannot be reversed, it is better to turn this page, make your hands, and start again.

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The injury that has passed in the past is released in time

Writer Yu Qiuyu has an article, which mentioned that he had four enemies.

They used their power to suppress him wantonly, malicious injuries, and even obstructing his wife's work, which caused a huge harm to his family. So he synthesized the word "Qian Fang Lisa" with a homophonic surname, and said that he would never forget.

For a long time, he was very suffocating, and often lost his temper for no reason, and it was difficult to start at work.

It was not until one time he talked with Master Nebula all night before choosing to reconcile with resentment.

Wilde once said:

For ourselves, we must forgive something. Because a person cannot always support a poisonous snake in his chest, he cannot get up at night, and plant thorns in the garden of the soul.

Those past grievances, learn to let go, will not be crushed and dragged.

In a speech, Mo Yan mentioned the past that he was most unwilling to remember.

When he was a child, because of his poor family, his mother often took him to pick up wheat ears.

Once, the guards came, and everyone fled, but the mother was not running quickly with her small feet, but she was caught.

The guards couldn't help but say that Yang waved to her.

After the mother slapped, she fell to the ground, and soon the corners of her mouth exuded.

In the end, the guardian confiscated the ears that they had worked hard before they picked up, blowing away with a whistle.

On that day, the lonely figure and blood of the mother and the mouth of the bleeding became permanently stabbed in Mo Yan's heart.

Many years later, one day he and his mother went shopping, and suddenly saw the guardian of that year. At this time, he had gray -haired.

Mo Yanzheng was ready to rush to teach him, but his mother pulled him down and said:

Son, the person who hit me, is not the same person as this old man.

After listening to this, Mo Yan was in place and understood the mother's painstakingness.

Although people are actually that person, things have already passed.

"Consciousness" said: "There are many categories of troubles, if you don't hold me, there is no trouble, I have a root and have troubles."

Those injuries that have suffered, the pain of experience, if you tear it repeatedly, will only let your wounds constantly ulcerate.

With resentment to others, it will only increase your burden in virtual.

Zhu Guangqian said: "Let those who should go, the one to come will come."

In the past, there were all kinds of bitterness, and it was better to let time dilute; it was difficult to let go, it was better to forget in the middle school.

Putting down the fault of others, it is his own heart.

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"Song Yan Banknote" records that Lu Yijian, a famous Northern Song Dynasty, gave birth to four sons.

One day, he deliberately broke a precious jade to observe his son's reaction.

As a result, the three sons exclaimed and ran to report his wife. Only the second son was unmoved and continued to read.

Lu Yijian asked him: "The jade is broken, why do you have no response?"

"Since it has been broken, what's the use of melancholy?"

After listening to this, Lu Yijian determined that there would be a promotion in the future. Sure enough, the public officer was the prime minister.

Roman Roland said: "On the road of life, the best way is to look forward, don't look back."

What should happen, let it happen, and let it pass.

In the past, those who come to be chased.

Aside from the shackles of the past, we can step forward and welcome the new future.

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