Civilized etiquette accompany you and me

□ Liu Peilin

Since ancient times, as a state of etiquette, from ancient times, from an inadvertent subtle etiquette, we can let us see the profoundness of the Chinese etiquette.

For example, for loyal martial arts fans, when watching some martial arts movies, two martial arts masters can often be seen. Before the official fight, they first applied each other to show their respect for their opponents. This seemingly simple "Holding Fist" has a profound meaning: First of all, the left palm represents the "four education" of morality, wisdom, body, and beauty, symbolizing noble sentiment; Express the bravery to practice martial arts; the left palm hugs the right fist, indicating that "bravery does not nourish" and "martial arts do not commit banned", so as to show the meaning of restraint and control brave martial arts. Secondly, the left palm and right fist were flexed, and their arms were flexed, indicating that the five lakes and four seas, the world's martial arts is a family, modestly united, and the friends of martial arts. In the end, the left palm is a text, the right fist is martial arts, and the literary and military and martial arts are also learned. It shows that he has to keep his mind and longing for knowledge. It is such a seemingly simple etiquette movement not only represents friendly respect for others, but also means the inheritance and development of a country's excellent spiritual culture.

In modern society, compared with the cultural connotation behind, etiquette needs to pay more attention to its practicality, and becomes a "lubricant" for communication between people. Below I will share the social etiquette often used in daily work and life. I hope it can be helpful for everyone's daily learning and use etiquette:

First, when meeting with others for the first time, you should take the initiative to report the full name of your name. If your name is too difficult or difficult to write, there are remote characters and the like, it is best to write it down on the paper and hand it to the friends faced by us; the second is when it is introduced by others, you need to stand up to signal Keeping standing posture can make our personal image more prominent. Compared to sitting, it is not easy to be ignored. If you have no time to stand or not stand up because of some special circumstances, you should also lean forward slightly, saying "the meaning of standing up"; the third is that in a single dialogue or speech, it is best to say only once or twice "Thank you", if you say too much "thank you", you will not only fade your own thanks, but also seem embarrassed or not calm enough; the fourth is that you need to adjust your mobile phone to silence at the meeting. At the time of receiving, we need to apologize to the leaders and colleagues in the seat, and then try to only listen to the phone as much as possible, and it is best to end the call within 30 seconds. In addition, you also need to pay attention not to play with your head, switch, make up, or lead Erlang's legs during the meeting. These are all behaviors that spokesperson and other colleagues on other meetings. In the view of a certain thing, first of all, you need to patiently listen to the expression of the other party. First, the other party’s view is repeated with your own understanding, which means a certain degree of affirmation. The attitude and effort, and then connect your views with euphemistic and non -turning language such as "I have an idea here" or "I think I think".

The above is the social etiquette often used at five o'clock. Finally, I think that today, when our country and nation are constantly pursuing cultural self -confidence, it is more and more needed to adhere to the traditional and standardized etiquette perspective on the basis of adhering to the traditional excellent etiquette culture. Civilized etiquette accompany you and me, do things from daily work and life, strive to improve your etiquette cultivation, and make unremitting efforts to become a civilized and polite modern person!

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