"Can't hollow out yourself to love, but go to Tang Dian to love." Love to teach them 67 truths
Author:Knowing my psychology Time:2022.06.24
We have initiated a solicitation to everyone, asking everyone in the process of lover and being loved. If we only learn only one thing, what will it be? Sure enough, love will turn everyone into poets and philosophers. Let's see if there is a message consistent with you?
01.
Over the years, I love to teach me a truth, that is, if you love him, don't pretend not to love him.
02.
Don't think of it for granted to do something for the other party, maybe your affection is the burden of others.
03.
Relational church: In essence, people are different. Respecting others in understanding and accepting the other party is another individual. Do not ask for changes in the other party because of love or other reasons. Name and kidnapped each other. Giving the other party's freedom and trust is the greatest manifestation.
04.
If you do n’t love, you must not hesitate, and there is no reservation when you love.
05.
Love is not an inherent ability. Love is the Body of Knowledge learned the day after tomorrow. People are born to be thirsty, and hope that their desires will be satisfied. But real love is for the person you love. When necessary, you can endure your desire and give that person really want. Seeing too many people will not love. I once regarded love as a way to satisfy myself. But at this moment, after I really love and learn to love, I already know how to love you. Although there were too many scars in our past, we did not look forward to the future, but I love you.
06.
It seemed unbelievable for a few years, but now it is fully accepted: Ten years ago, the heroic man and the cynical man in this cowardly man were really alone. If this is not to let me learn, I will throw him find a ghost.
07.
Communication is really the hardest and most important thing. In the past, I always thought that a person would never make himself sad. Later, with a foreign lover, he realized that the different people's ideas and feelings were really different about the same thing. After spending a long time, we slowly learned to communicate with each other even if we felt injured and understand each other.
08.
Love is restraint and forbearance. I have been thinking many times. If I go back, I will fall in love with him? I think the answer is me. Many things are doomed in the meditation, even if they are together, they are separated. Knowing each other's minds, just love.
09.
You can choose to pay for love but you can't expect the other party to give you a response. You can continue to pay for your love but consider whether the other party hates your efforts. You can still pay for your love but you can't blame the other party's rejection.
10.
Can't empty yourself to love, but go to the soup to love.
11.,
Don't feel that you do n’t feel like love still to start, die to die, hurt people and hurt yourself ...
12.
Love is to achieve yourself, not a life that does not consume you.
13.
He is happy.
14.
Due to the effort, the fruit is followed, and it is natural.
15.
She often dreamed of her, and woke up a few times a night to watch the phone, which was the hazy consciousness. I received her information in the dream, and then I woke up from the dream to catch my phone. I do n’t feel like I want to be together with people who like it, but I can't bear to look at you less at a glance.
16.
Don't expect to turn the other person what you want. Either accept or choose again.
There is no so -called "wrong payment" in this world. Because what we choose in love is what we want, choose, get it, no matter whether it is in the end, this process is enough.
17.
Don't be able to find out, and you may not be thorough when you are wronged. True temperament is good, everything follows.
18.
Over the years, I love to teach me such a truth, that is, because I love you, I don't need to be correct forever.
19.
Don't love the one who lets you give up the low -bottom line, don't love the one who crys to you every night, even if you are together.
20.
Maybe some love is not perfect enough or mature. Maybe because of these reasons, we chose to give up, but please respect and cherish every love that has done your best. TAs do not love you, maybe it is not the original intention of the TAs.
twenty one.
Sincere and routines can be unified, sincere can be more, and the routine can be less.
twenty two.
The emotions of the two people must not be too much to pay and return. Once they try to weigh and lose, they will be bumpy, and even the mediocre people will disturb themselves.
twenty three.
There is a girl who will wait for you to learn how to love, but she will not wait for a long time. The first time she will accept you, she will forgive you for the second time, and she will accommodate you for the third time. The fourth time she will say, no, you say you owe me a lot, but you don't need to pay back. She fell in love with you when you were curious about the world, and when you were disappointed, it was too late to think of her. This is punishment.
twenty four.
I only learned one thing, that is, never compete with the person you love the most.
25.
If you like someone, you must tell her not to ask her to repay, but to let her in the dark days in the future, when she deny herself, think of someone in the world who likes her so much, she is not useless. I like one girl, I know she likes another boy, but I still told her. After a while, she wrote on Weibo: Thank you for liked me when I don't like myself. I am not sure if it was me, but I still have a little comfort: my like is not meaningless. 26.
Don't think that a person who is habitually neglecting you will change one day and not.
27.
Talk well at any time.
28.
We are born in the relationship, hurt in the relationship, and will eventually be cured in the relationship.
29.
True love is regardless of gender.
30.
To love someone, you must be able to listen to him with the heart, even how much grievance you have
31.
Love someone, don't verify the love of TA for you, and express your love. At the beginning, be cautious and dedicated.
(Related reading: How important is "expression" in the relationship)
32.
Don't pretend to look better.
33.
You can be right or wrong, but you can't be tangled. This will only increase losses.
34.
Don't reject people who love you when impulse.
35.
Be sure to lie when you should lie.
36.
First, there are any emotional misunderstandings, don't delay, explain it as soon as possible. Second, don't listen to others, you decide your own things yourself, especially those who are not good at provoking. Third, do n’t do it, do n’t repeat the Cold War because you are afraid of losing, because human nature is the most prohibited, and love tells TA, do n’t let TA guess. Fourth, when you love, don't think anything else when you love. If you do n’t love you, let ’s live and live your own life. No one has taken you on the way to fight. You have to survive yourself.
37.
You want to confirm the question to the other party, in fact, you have the answer in your heart.
38.
Trust is not dependent on TA, but is willing to bear the consequences and costs that trust may bring.
39.
Speak out each thought and feelings, and the guessing game of unforgettable puzzles alone.
40.
Never keep a completely equal relationship.
41.
No matter what kind of damage you suffer in the last relationship, don't continue the damage to the next lover.
42.
Be gentle, gentle, gentle. When contradictions, don't talk angry, don't cold war, don't deliberately hurt. All sharp languages and behaviors may be healed, but you can never forget. Why do you make the person you love scarred? Isn't the TA wound?
43.
Be sure to speak well, do not use the temperament and stab, to hurt the person who loves you
44.
Only love yourself from the heart can you get the true love of others.
45.
Love is deep, wisdom must hurt.
46.
Love is not humble, humble will only suppress your nature, restrain your hands and feet, and reduce your value. True love should be to be a true self, experience feelings bring the most authentic feeling, to communicate and understand each other, rather than unilaterally sacrificing a party's feelings to maintain feelings.
47.
Love also pays attention to time, too early or too late.
48.
There is a saying: "You say you want to respect the past with a glass of wine, and don't look back again. Even if you are drunk until dusk, you will still walk with him." So, I love you like Your mother hit you without reason.
49.
Don't shop when you are hungry, do n’t exercise when you just eat enough, do n’t send it in the middle of the night. Do n’t drive when you are angry. Also, don't stay when you leave.
50.
It is not the right person with the right person, and the person who walks for a lifetime is the right person.
51.
"No matter how mediocrity I am, I always think my love for you is beautiful." (Wang Xiaobo)
52.
The so -called suitable person is to be able to easily be with each other.
53.
The so -called distance is not a problem, that is because some problems are blurred, once the point is opened, it is a dead point.
54.
When I was young, I had the madness of love, but I had no ability to love; when I grew up, I had the ability to love, but there was no madness of love. Sometimes I miss it for a lifetime.
55.
We will like a type of person, not a certain person.
56.
Life is actually a subtraction. Even parents, loved ones, colleagues, seeing one side, less side, one side, this is fate, and we don’t expect how perfect the future life is. Go to implement it again. If you want to confess, let's do it. If you want to do it, you can do it immediately. Young youth can't help but wait, because every moment now is broadcast live, there is no release.
57.
Never let good friends and TA go too close.
58.
Those who really love you will definitely come to see you in the mountains. Those who are unwilling to cross a little puddy are not really love you.
59.
"Suddenly when the rainbow came, it was like you when the rainbow went."
60.
Only when I was young, I dare not hesitate to choose the one I love. 61.
Love others, you need to love yourself first. If you can't love others, you must love yourself.
62.
Don't love someone who doesn't care about you.
63.
In this world, love can save people and make people want to live.
64.
When others take a step back, don't take another step.
65.
I still don't know how to teach me. When I was a kid, my parents always quarreled. My father had family violence for his mother all year round. My mother had a language violence at all year round. I always felt that I was not worthy of being loved by love. Later, he married confused, but was cold and violent by his ex -husband, and quickly divorced after being born. Sometimes I think my daughter may be the only person in this world. She will kiss me when I get up, and I will divide me half when I eat. I will pull me to let go when I am going to work. I often feel sincere and fearful, why such an angelic villain loves me like that. My daughter's love for me seems to be gradually repairing me, pulling me out of depression, and giving me more courage. I started to face the world, although it made my head breaking through the blood again and again. For the first time for more than thirty years, I have the courage to confess to the people I like, and I still feel very powerful despite being rejected. If you have to say what to teach me, it is courage. How difficult is the world, love, courage.
66.
You think you are so loved to love TA, and you can no longer love one person like this. Actually, you can also love or even love another person like this.
67.
A person's love requires the other party's response. Whether this person is a boy or a girl, a strong or restrained, the affirmative response is the most gentle, and the negative response is the last gentleness.
I particularly agree with the phrase what the fans said, love is a kind of practice. Each of us encounters different ways of love, and what we have experienced is very different, but everyone must take this course.
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