The results of the college entrance examination come out, please hug the silent child

Author: Insight · Annabe Su

The children who are accompanied by a dozen years are about to leave us to go far.

In recent days, the results of the college entrance examinations in each province have been announced.

The cold windows read for dozens of years. In a blink of an eye, millions of students also came to the bifurcation of their respective life.

After the college entrance examination, there have always been a few happy and sad.

But no matter what the result, please be calm and look at the string of numbers.

If your child is not bad, please hug him to reward his diligence, self -discipline, and unlazy.

If your child is not good or silent, don't lose your temper, and you don't have to comfort them deliberately.

You just need to give him a warm hug.

Leave them for some time, digestion, accept, and regain the fanfare in the future.

01

In the past two days, I came to a post in Zhihu: "What kind of experience is the college entrance examination?"

A netizen shared his own story.

She said that the first night of the score, she didn't sleep overnight.

The score that her head and shoulders and neck waited for her, but made her like a ice cellar -not only could she not go to 211, but even the ordinary one could not go up.

Her parents were heavy and gloomy for several days, not sleeping well, and she couldn't eat, and her "sorry" in her throat, but she couldn't say it.

His dreams and parents' expectations were all broken that night.

After filling in her volunteer, she was even more silent.

The former classmate, to the north to the north to the big future, she was dropped.

She said that the college entrance examination is a big bang for herself. "I am the loser in life, who can deny it?"

The sense of self -blame and weakness can feel across the screen.

In life, there are many children like this netizen.

They also worked very hard, and they had chased it with stars, but they were looking forward to it, but they were against their wishes.

What they need to bear is the shame of failure to successfully contradict failure, the disappointment of parents, and the unable to explain to their ten -year cold windows.

They will be like the netizen above, blame, guilty, unwilling, they will find a place, hiding alone and licking the wound silently ...

At this time, don't bother him.

If you can, happily make a table for him, use silent care, comfort his injured soul and tell him:

Parents are more concerned about your mood than your grades.

Tell him that compared to "the spring breeze is proud of the horseshoe disease, the longan flowers are looking for the longan", regret and loss are the norm in life.

And each of us grew up and bumped in failure, but we did not give up hope.

Tell your children that life is not a sprint, but a long marathon.

No matter what choice you make, we have been standing behind you and making your eternal harbor.

02

There is a program in Hong Kong called "Tracking".

One period host found a school grass that would be lost more than 30 years ago, and wanted to see if the results of the year had affected his later way out.

He is 56 years old and now lives a good life.

The spacious house, decent work, and small hobbies that are enough to comfort themselves.

When he looked back on the experience of the past years, he said:

"Walk, wrong, change, come again, you can always come back.

Life has taken two (here again), and everything has taken to two. Not one thing can determine a person, life is not dominated by one thing. "

The failure of the college entrance examination is only a journey, and it cannot destroy a person's foundation.

Hurricanes of destiny can break a less thick tree, but can't blow a tough grass.

Some time ago, the entire network was screened by Yu Minhong's New Oriental live room.

Who would have thought that this middle -aged man who had cultivated countless outstanding teachers, a few losses but still working hard, was also a loser in the college entrance examination?

For the first time to participate in the college entrance examination, Yu Minhong's goal was the regional division of Changshu City, Jiangsu Province. The English admission line was 38 points. He took 33 points;

In the second college entrance examination, the English admission score of Changshu Teachers was 60 points, and he took 55 points.

Several differences, destiny is different from cloud mud, but one after another strike has not destroyed this strong soul.

He only had to take the college entrance examination for the third time.

Shakespeare once said that people can dominate our own destiny.

The college entrance examination is the watershed of life, and it is a thousand troops crossing the wooden bridge.

If your child is smashed, please don't worry, don't put too much pressure on him.

Life is very long. A frustration cannot be deserted throughout the spring, and one failure does not mean the collapse of life.

Tell the child that only the weak will fall to the ground, and the brave will always move on the road of progress.

If you don't admit defeat, no one can let you lose.

03

According to data released by the Ministry of Education, the college entrance rate in 2021 was about 93%, and the undergraduate admission rate was only 42%.

By 2022, the total number of college entrance examinations was 11.93 million.

According to the practice of previous years, 6.92 million candidates will be missed undergraduate.

Although we all expect children to have one day of the gold list title and one fly, but unfortunately, 90%of the world's people in the world will eventually attribute to ordinary.

I think of "My Son is Student Study", which once brushed the screen.

The parents in the story are very good. Dad is a PhD in engineering of 985, and his mother is a master's degree in 985. The two gave birth to a son in the best childbirth age and gave birth to a son in the most scientific way.

They once thought that their children would be very good.

But since his son went to elementary school, he gradually exposed the "scum" constitution.

This pair of Gao Zhi parents did not want to confess their lives, spent a lot of time and energy, reported various tutoring classes, and even invited an expensive couple.

Children, I also work hard.

Not only do the homework on time and quantity on time, but also actively ask parents to report more counseling classes to themselves.

But even if everyone rushed forward, the children's grades could not be raised, and because they were overworked, they dragged down their bodies.

Parents could not help but start thinking about the significance of education.

In the process, they were surprised to find that their sons were not as bad as they thought.

He is not good at mathematics, but he is a housework, and he can make a lot of dishes at the age of 10; he is not good in language, but he filial piety to his parents; he is not good in English, but when he enters the door, if there is someone behind him, he will help support to support it. The door; he has a bad grade, but when he is running for the propaganda committee in the class, the 38 children in the class chose him ...

Such a child who is educated, optimistic and kind, and where can you be gently waiting for others, where can he be worse in the future?

Master of Guoxue Nan Huaijin said that education should be taught to be a person first, becoming a comprehensive talent, which is more important than any achievement.

If you look at the entire life, the quality of the child is actually greater than the child's grade.

Is the college entrance examination important?

important.

It provides more fair opportunities to take you to a larger stage.

But who can say that is not a success to live in your own world and be a person who is satisfied with yourself?

Just as a writer wrote in the letter to his son:

"I hope you are happy than letting you succeed. If you are a person who likes animals, for you, be a Wall Street manager and fight for the number of money every day. Brush your teeth for hippos. "

Everyone lives in the world and has their own position. Each child also has his own talent and flowering period.

The mission of parents is to teach their children to work hard.

When he has a clear goal, we insert his wings for him and send him straight to Qingyun;

When he was confused, we made his climbing ladder, so that he slowly picked up on the road of life.

Good parents, do not compare, do not force, are gentle and firm, and always be the most solid arms of children.

04

On the eve of the college entrance examination, a senior class teacher wrote a farewell message to the parents:

"Don't complain to accompany your child to write your homework tiring. It can't be used for a few years. You watched the child's room goes off the lamp, which is dark. You will miss the little back. Sit there, write and write, and touch your head for a while. After a while, I called my mother for a while ... Looking at the child's empty bedroom, I really wanted to ask him to get up in the morning to school. But at this time, maybe he had left you thousands of miles away. The familiar bedroom has already been Become his hotel. "

After the college entrance examination, the children we accompanied us for more than ten years are about to leave us to go far.

On the way of life, there will be a lot of storms, and those who have left their parents to adult children can only watch.

The results of the college entrance examination came out, and the child's life has just begun.

Regardless of the result, please give your child the warmest hug and the deepest blessing.

May our children live freely whether there is a secular success or not.

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