Book of Section ｜ "Autumn Garden": Female of women in the old age beyond the accident

Author:Ru Mu Shuhan Time:2022.09.27

Some people say that "Autumn Garden" is a female version of "Living", but these two books feel completely different. In Aqiu's view, "Living" is like a glass of spirits. After watching it, it is impressive and very excited at the moment, and "Autumn Garden" looks like a glass of wine, which is not so big but full of stamina.

Why the emotional impact of "Autumn Garden" is not so great, this is a good explanation. After all, one of these two books is a real story, and the other is a fictional novel. The reason why "Autumn Garden" is so great, but this has made Aqiu spend a lot of time thinking until the fate of the two protagonists from the perspective of gender.

She has suffered more things than accidents

Francis Fushan once said: "Every dust in the times falls on a big mountain." In the turbulent era, it is difficult for individuals to control their own destiny. Fugui and Qiuyuan lived in the same historical period. After the end of the Qing Dynasty, the establishment of the Republic of China, and the reform of the Republic of China, and the reform of New China, these major historical events, whether it is natural disasters or human disasters, suffered them suffering. Many accidents have caused major changes in life.

For Fugui, most of his lives were caused by accidents. The son died accidentally because of blood donation. His daughter died of an accident due to difficulty in giving birth. The son -in -law died accidentally because of an accident. In normal life, he took his relatives one by one, so that people who read the book would not help but sigh, "How can there be such a miserable person?"

For Qiuyuan, her life not only has a tragedy caused by accidents, but also many artificial tragedies. As a daughter, Qiuyuan could not rely on the native family. At that time, she could only be "married", and her father's premature death made her not have more choices. She had to accept her relatives and hurriedly married herself to reduce The burden of the native family, the personality defects of her husband after marriage made her suffer.

In the turbulent era, life is difficult, because of the identity of women, in addition to the unpredictable disaster, Qiuyuan has also undergone the pain created by many others.

She is a water splashed out by the native family

In the 1920s, Qiuyuan was born. For the society at the time, her birth and her growth were all to complete one thing -marrying.

At the age of five, in order to marry well, her mother pressed her small feet to deformed and wrapped her feet. Since then, she brought the disability of "three -inch golden lotus". Walking from the feudal family.

At the age of twelve, the book wrote that "the childhood of the autumn garden ended at the age of twelve", because the father died this year, the elder brother dyed smoking addiction, and there was no money at home for her to continue reading. More importantly, the father, the father, the father, the father, the father, the father, the father, the father. Once the family died, the family was dominated by the elder brother, and the family was no longer her home. Since then, she has become a person under the fence, and she will be "splashed out" at any time.

It happened that a national government official came to mention kiss. She had no choice and had to agree without agreed. Regarding the marriage of Qiuyuan, the book was very restrained: "Mrs. Liang asked Qiu Yuan to disagree with the family affairs, Qiu Yuan didn't answer, and she cried again. The wife asked for three nights, and Qiuyuan cried for three nights."

The mother was asking her clearly, in fact, she was just forcing her to accept the marriage in disguise. When she asked, she cried, and kept crying, kept asking, grinding her temperament, she admitted her fate after grinding.

Although the other party is a government official, they have not met with the family. The family does not know that what the matchmaker is saying is true or false. Even if it is such an adventure, the family is eager to marry the Qiuyuan. The family is indeed falling, and it can be seen that the native family can no longer tolerate her.

In a pair of words, behind the old age, the helplessness of women in the old age, a silent sorrow.

Facts have proved that the husband Ren was really lied. He had no fields or houses in his hometown in Hunan. It was not a well -off family but a poor family. When I arrived at my hometown, I had lost contact with the native family.

After the marriage, no matter how much she lives in her mother's house for help. In fact, she didn't want to find it. It was useless to find it. After her husband died, she went back to her brother, but the sister -in -law did not give her a good look. She could only bring it. Wandering in the country with his younger son, he married others.

In the old era, the relationship between daughter and native families seemed to be weak, especially poor people, and the only resources would only be left to their son. Even in today's thoughts that have improved a lot of society, most of the daughters are not as good as their sons.

A few days ago, the 21 -year -old woman brought her daughter to take a takeaway news. Her husband died of an accident. She and her children not only did not get compensation, but also because she gave birth to her daughter because she gave birth to her daughter. Her experience is really distressed, but similar incidents are endless, making people just foolish.

In the concept of most parents, the adoptive son must fund him to buy a house, and the adoptive daughter only needs to get her to marry a man with a house. Many people also joked that the son is the construction bank and the daughter is China Merchants Bank.

As everyone knows, this concept itself is to put her daughter in a passive position. The native family does not give her daughter's resources. She hopes that the daughter's dependent man who is attached to the resource, but does not consider how high her daughter needs to bear because she depends on others. She Therefore, it is the possibility of giving up more freedom, so what is paid is no longer the body and fate that can no longer be the master.

She is his wife or mother or is she herself

Although it may be unpopular, in Aqiu's view, in fact, a large part of the suffering of Qiuyuan is caused by her husband's benevolence. Qiuyuan is a traditional woman. She listened to her brother in Girls' Generation. After marriage, she used her husband as the sky. Although the husband's benevolence is natural and kind, he has very serious personality weaknesses. He is pedantic, cowardly, and partial.

Not to mention that I am deceiving Qiu Yuan to make up a solid lie to cheat marriage. The matter of the ground.

Ren Shou didn't ask Qiu Yuan's opinion, and he resigned from his work, and asked the whole family to move with him a place where he was unfamiliar with him. But he would not plant land at all, tossing, and in the end he could only let the neighbors help plant. The neighbors were not attentive.

So the livelihood of the whole family was pressed on the shoulders of Qiuyuan, but it was not enough to rely on the salary of teaching. Qiuyuan could only teach during the day to help others make clothes to subsidize their homes at night.

The paranoid benevolence will not plant the land but can't let go of the poor self -esteem. They do not listen to the persuasion to go out to do things. As a result, they have been cut into trouble. For example, they are cut as a weeds as weeds. In the end, he not only did not plant good food or earn money, but also broke his body and got hernia.

Ren Shou is like a child who is not sensible. As many people are ridiculed today, "a man is a teenager to die." His behavior is completely irresponsible. He shouted and scolded Qiuyuan to take care of, and Qiuyuan Ben bears the burden of supporting the whole family. The most ironic is that Ren suffered hernia, but it still gave Qiuyuan a fourth child.

With this book, you will find that in fact, the suffering of the male protagonist and the suffering of the female protagonist are completely different, one has a sound, and the other is silent.

The suffering of Qiuyuan is different from the suffering of Fudui. The first half of the blessing is in a state of muddy state, but he has always been an active party. Although Qiuyuan is in a sober state, she is always a passive party.

Fugui's life was full of dramatic accidents. In him, Aqiu felt more about the pure sadness created by the devastating blow to normal life. However, in the life of Qiuyuan, there are many people who can't stop the accidents, and there are many artificial stifling. In her body, in addition to sadness, Aqiu also felt a kind of anger that destroyed beauty.

Unlike Fugui, there is a pursuit of culture in the life of Qiuyuan. She has eager to study since she was a child. Qiuyuan is a very nourishing woman. , Hard -working and wise, compared with such a beautiful autumn garden, the husband's benevolent is very inferior.

Both husband and wife were originally cultural people. They did not understand the situation in the countryside. Faced with strange poor life, the two people's response attitude was completely different.

Following her husband's Qiuyuan in his hometown, he did not complain about the hardships of the country's life, but quickly adapted here, and worked hard to make the family live better. It has become a weak man who is weak, not only cannot protect his family, but also needs to take care of his energy to take care of it.

Such a beautiful autumn garden does not have a beautiful life, and it is not good for good treatment. The reason may still be in the passive position of autumn garden as a traditional woman.

She is like a drifting leaves. She follows the flow, trying to take care of the whole family, and take care of others, but she has never considered herself. As an individual, she has been ignored, becoming a wife, and a mother.

In the eyes of readers, the life of Qiuyuan is ups and downs. I do n’t know how much bitter tears are there in Qiuyuan itself?