Home > culture >article

Five years ago, how was the girl who settled back to the small town now?

Author:Smile Reading Time:2022.09.25

At this moment, I sat on the grass and knocked on the tablet,

Behind it is Yuehai Bay,

The weather today is good,

The sun is very warm, the wind is gentle, and the lake surface is sparkling.

Everything is beautiful, it is worth the world.

Sit here for only 5 minutes,

The frustrated heart was cured.

A thought:

How good to bring a tent on the weekend!

Watch movies, read books, write,

If you are tired, look at the scenery, teasing baby, beautiful ~

Of course, what I want more is,

I hope the studio will be renovated early,

I have worked at home for a few years,

I really want to have an independent office.

Two years ago,

Brother Bin and I bought a small apartment nearby.

Originally for investment.

Today, with the development of the cause, it is prepared to be offline venues.

It should be said that it is just right.

The location is near the lake,

There is also a park around, and the business district is also under development.

The 50 -square -meter venue is not large, but small and beautifully start a business.

It doesn't need too much manpower, and it is enough.

In the past few years, the freelance profession has been working hard and hard work,

Get money, freedom and recognition,

But it is often accompanied by anxiety and pressure,

Compared with the North Drifting,

Finally, there are more confidence and strength.

Today's achievements and development

I never thought of in my 20s.

At that time,

I worked in a tourist resort in Jiangxi for a year.

After graduation, I was very hardworking.

No one brought it, just explore it by himself.

Check the information online and find contact information,

Many afternoon, I wandered out and forth outside the office.

Consider the good word in advance,

Talk to the past to communicate and cooperate with strangers.

One after another after another.

The attitude and results of work were quickly affirmed by leaders.

It was promoted as a supervisor after half a year,

The income rose from 3500 to 4000.

The progress of work makes me confused after graduation,

I started to have some confidence.

Even the ambition to go to a larger place to go into a larger place.

There are many opportunities to listen to classmates in Beijing.

So I started to vote for resumes.

In May, he went to work in Beijing's new company in July.

Internet companies that make borders do online sales.

The company develops very well, and the colleagues around them are also excellent.

There are international students and graduates from 985 and 211 schools.

The intern also has a Tsinghua.

Even the front desk is a beautiful Russian beauty.

At that time, everyone had an English name,

Everyone calls me Bala.

However, the job did not like it.

Sales are not what I am good at,

At that time, I didn't know what I was good at.

The crazy overtime culture of Internet companies is suffocating.

From 9 am to 9 pm, rotate on weekends.

Almost all of my time is on work.

Go back and want to read the book, but it is too exhausted.

The income obtained every month is only enough to pay and eat.

I don't want this life.

Later, I went to other companies,

Slowly began to turn to cultural work.

No need to find a stranger to chat,

There is no need to knock on the fingers to be sore every day.

Look at the book, write articles, and become calm in my heart.

Even the class is avoided,

No longer need to rush the subway that can crush people in the early peak.

I seem to finally find the ideal job.

Use the holiday that year,

Brother Bin and I even went to Chengde and Thailand twice.

I started to feel,

Beijing city

It seems that I am friendly to me.

However, six months later, Brother Bin said, let's go back.

I tangled for a while, and then followed him back.

Now think about it, I had desire, but there was no ambition.

I went to a big city with a lonely city,

Duckweed generally cannot find a sense of existence,

He followed him back to the small city without bone.

At the age of 25, I am too young after all.

Young enough to be courageous about your dreams.

Lack of wisdom to plan a bright road for yourself.

After all, I am a late -familiar person.

Fortunately,

The unwilling little girl in her heart never died.

Although people are back, they are always unwilling.

I always feel that it hasn't been mixed yet,

Why did you go back with people so frankly?

I'm going to get married soon,

Will the rhythm of my life be a bit too fast?

The person with rhythm has always been that he is not me.

At the age of 25, he said engagement, I want to be responsible for you.

Okay, then order it.

At the age of 26, he said, let's go back to my hometown to get married. My mother is not assured at home.

Let's go, return.

I didn't think too much, our future has always been planned by him.

At that time, his maturity was much greater than me.

His care and care for me far exceeded my parents.

In those years, in our relationship,

He is the leader, and I am willing to be dominated by him.

He always seems to be able to propose a stable and reliable plan,

I can convince me every time.

What I didn't expect is,

Later, I re -held the steering wheel of my life.

When I went back, I was 26 years old and started reading and writing book reviews.

At the beginning, it was not well written,

The original intention is to improve yourself and keep progress.

After reading it for half a year, I wrote for half a year

Fortunately, encountering the rise of knowledge payment, and successfully relying on reading to make money.

In the third month,

I got nearly 5 digits of first -tier cities.

I'm surprised and surprised.

Later all the way, it was smooth,

Ending North Drifting and Marriage 1600 kilometers,

It does not look unusual decisions.

But my fate is not thin.

Relying on a cavity, enthusiasm,

Turning a small interest into the main business and career.

Perhaps I am the fish that is missing.

Beibei's unknown dream,

Gradually played back to small cities.

But I know:

People are not mutations, but gradients.

I have been longing for better.

I took the math test from the fourth grade 69,

Self -esteem was extremely frustrated to cry.

Later, I struggled to be strong, and rushed into the top three in two or three months,

Since then, he has become the most favored student of the teacher,

I am no longer willing to be an obscure person.

Later years of schooling, there are ups and downs,

There were confusion, helplessness, and lying flat.

But the unwilling little girl,

Always lurking in a certain corner.

Just one opportunity can be activated with one click.

Everyone knows later stories.

Looking back at the past few years, what changes me is reading and writing book reviews.

I can't find the way, I don't know where to go

Read the book, read it, maybe suddenly it is suddenly open.

Reading will allow you to harvest warmth, strength and courage during the trough.

"There is no limit in life", "You are like a bird to fly to your mountain"

"If there is no wings: the independent goddess Chanel"

"Unbelievable of Life"

"I can't read books, you still want to succeed"

These books have injected energy into my life.

Also, while reading, please remember to write something.

Reading notes, book reviews,

Three or five hundred words, two or three thousand words.

Write some understanding and perception every time,

You will find this study like this,

Each book can read a lot of gains.

Every book will not read in vain.

Never compromise to mediocrity.

You have to believe:

In this world, someone really lives a life of your dreams.

When you are young,

Everyone has a deliberate dream.

However, with entering the society, under the cruel reality of poison,

Many people began to doubt whether ordinary themselves have dreams?

Until later, I gradually gave up and forgotten ...

But I want to say, never forget your dream,

As long as you really work hard,

You can definitely live according to your wishes.

Maybe you will say that there are only 20%of success in the world.

So what?

For girls with attentiveness,

Our desire,

Isn't it a mediocre majority?

Of course, mediocre is not wrong.

For some people,

This is their ideal life.

There is no good or bad,

Look at your life value and pursuit.

For everyone,

Living out the life you want is the best.

Because self -consistent is the best choice.

I have settled in the small city for 5 years, and I want to tell my sisters:

Whether in big cities or in small cities,

There are opportunities to realize their dreams.

The premise is to keep in mind the original intention and persevere in dreaming.

Finally, fate will definitely reward you severely.

I am Xiaowei. The girl in the south marries the northwest and lives freely by reading and writing. He has worked in the enterprise and has also tried water in the system. He has been a youth in the north. Now the small city is safe and insisted on chasing dreams. Grow with you!