Do you want to choose a lover in love or be loved

#In love, choose a lover or be loved#

Talking with a female owner, her words were still very deep.

At that time, we were waiting for the results of the incident, and we chatted without any time in leisure. She knew that I was a little envious after I was just married. It was said that "youth is so good" for a while, and said "Hurry up and enjoy" for a while. It seems that love is the fruit that can only be harvested once in my life. The trees are called life.

Honestly, I am a little scared for this interpretation. So with almost a trembling temptation, I asked her marriage.

She is a nurse and has been married for more than ten years. There are two children, and her husband is a logistical in another hospital. At that time, the two met with each other, and they married smoothly, and then borrowed a house in order to buy a house, give birth to children, and to be old -fashioned. Over the years, my life is unpredictable. If you are unhappy, you have not encountered any unsure; but if you say beauty, she feels tedious, and often has a kind of emptiness at a glance.

I helped her define very comfortably: "The waves are not shocked."

She laughed: "That's better to follow the wave flow."

"That's also good. Isn't there a song called" Ordinary Most Romantic "?"

She was sitting on a chair, holding her hands and rubbing her two index fingers at will, and wanted to say: "Hi, you are too young, and you can't realize the feeling of being in your heart."

She said that the burden of life is one side, in fact, her more illness comes from her husband. After entering middle age, they are less and less words between them. Even if the two have a large number of intersections and common topics in the industry, they also know where the receiving points and expressions of each other are, but they still rarely open a few to pull a few times a few times. Even if the sentence is very inadvertent. Because they are too familiar with each other, a lot of words are like answering themselves, and even more resonance is difficult to have a sense of gain.

For example, she cooks in the kitchen that day and told her husband who was washing clothes in the living room. Without saying a few words, her husband asked her what she was talking about. It turned out that the roar of the range hood covered her voice. When the bare husband shook his hands with his hands and opened the door of the kitchen door to let her say it again, she suddenly lost her desire to express her.

"Nothing, I can't find a soy sauce, I found it now."

She knows that there is nothing wrong with both sides, but a long and tasteless life has domesticated the two more and more silent.

I was a little suffocating and wanted to interrupt this topic until I heard what she said behind.

"Isn't the marriage of most people all of this?"

"Yes, in the marriage of most people, as long as there is no third party, as long as there is no objective and devastating blow, in fact, it will go to the end, depending on what kind of reason you are insisting on."

Some people are for children, some are afraid of divorce dividing property, and some people just want to look like a decent home.

"What about you?"

"I? I am not so realistic, I think I still like the one in our family. After all, I’ m in love with myself seriously. How can I remember? "

She said that her husband has changed a lot in recent years, her hair is less, her stomachs are bulging, and she will breathe in the autumn when climbing the stairs, and she becomes a mother -in -law and mother. But at least this person was the one in her memory, and what made her fortunately was that in her limited and stretched memories, the lively image of this person's best time still occupied an irreplaceable position.

Because of this image, I spent many important moments with her.

She used to sit on the back seat of a bicycle, holding his back waist without a trace of fat, and laughed at the bushes that quickly retreated when they came home from get off work. He joggedly run away together; he had been held by him, and he had a lot of taste but a stunned Western food; he used to laugh at him in the big market on the eve of marriage. Choose the green shading curtains.

Embracing, even the sweaty smell was fragrant; when you were stunned for a while, you would breed the desire to explore the crazy exploration.

Suddenly she was so energetic and raised a finger: "I tell you that it was really good at that time, there were no WeChat videos, etc., the two of us could send hundreds of text messages a day."

I suddenly realized: "So you let me enjoy the present, this means this."

"Of course, I really like it that year. Looking back at him now, although it is a bit spicy, it is not so annoying him."

Therefore, in love, love and being loved, although the former is not absolute, but must not be absent. Only when we devote enough feelings in a close relationship can we form an unforgettable memory point. The emotional life of passion may be like a wasteland, but this memory point is like a landmark that is always inserted in the soil, so that we will not completely get lost, but we can also think of the leaves of the leaves. Essence

To love and love seriously.

After all, no matter how the years died, deep in our hearts, we are still the young boys and girls who only belong to the beautiful scenery.

Source: Sina Weibo@来 来

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