After 16 years, I revisited "Wulin Wai Biography" before I understand these philosophy of life
Author:Insight Time:2022.09.23
There are too many unsatisfactory world in this world,
But your life must continue.
Author: insight yy
Someone on the Internet asked: "Which TV series can you watch for a lifetime?"
Many people recommend a classic masterpiece released in 2006- "Wulin Wai Biography".
This drama Douban score is as high as 9.6, ranking first in the high -scoring Chinese drama list.
Sixteen years ago, as soon as it was broadcast, it quickly attracted a large number of audiences with the plot of the sky and the lively and funny performances.
At that time, if you didn't know a few lines in the play, you couldn't even communicate with others.
Behind the story of its comedy, behind the interesting story, all the philosophy of life is hidden. Every time you look at it, you will have a new understanding.
Today, Wan Jun carefully selected the 6 classic lines of "Wulin Wai Biography", which is deeply rooted in the hearts of people.
1
The correct road and fork are only a few steps.
In "Wulin Wai Biography", the shopkeeper of Fusheng Tong Xiangyu once told a story.
On one occasion, she and her father went up the mountain to hunt. When it was in the evening, the light in the mountains gradually became dim. From time to time, there was a wolf that came from afar. Seeing that it was not early, the father decided to go down the mountain quickly.
They walked in the mountains for a while and found that they had lost their way.
In order to see the road, they had to risk the danger of falling in the cliff, and climbed along the vine of the cliff to the top of the mountain.
After exhausting the power of nine cows and two tigers, I finally climbed to the top of the mountain.
Standing at a high place, Xiang Xiangyu looked down. It turned out that there was a small road straight down the mountain.
And this path, where they lost their way, were a few steps away, just because the deep grass was blocked.
As long as they took a few steps forward and through those thorns, they could easily find the way down the mountain.
Life is like this. Many times we choose to give up because of confusion and hopeless hope.
But as long as you go forward and go, the result may be different.
Just like the picture below.
Two people drilled their treasure hunt at the same time.
As soon as a person dug a little, without seeing the gem, he immediately dug.
After he tried several places, he found nothing.
And another person aimed at a place, and only dug down, never giving up.
It didn't take long for him to dug the gems buried under the ground.
Life is actually like digging wells. Instead of hitting a hole around, it is better to dig a well.
Maybe you may not see the water source in the first 30 meters, 60 meters, and 120 meters.
But as long as it is dug down, maybe at the 121 meters, you can see a surging underground river.
2
How can you succeed if you do not work hard and work hard? After practicing for a few days, I thought of the world invincible, where to find this good thing.
In Tongfu Inn, the chef Li Dazui was often bullied by Wu Yi's high -strength Guo Furong.
Once he was unhappy and secretly went out to worship and learn martial arts.
After studying back for two days, I wanted to discuss Guo Furong, but I was beaten down in three or two.
Li Dazui immediately vent his anger and frustrated his face.
Xiang Xiangyu stepped forward to comfort him: "If you do not work hard and work hard, how can it be successful? After practicing for a few days, I want to be invincible in the world.
There is no successful success in this world, nor a ladder of the sky.
Behind all the nest is the result of accumulated little by little.
When the painter Da Vinci was young, he studied with a master of painting.
But the master just let him practice eggs.
Without a long time, he was bored and couldn't help complaining to the master, what is the use of eggs to draw eggs.
After listening, the master said faintly: "You don't even draw the simplest eggs, what else can you draw?"
Da Vinci suddenly became red, so he sank and focused on practicing eggs.
Early morning, he put eggs outside the house to observe the light and shadow in the sun.
He looked at this day, from morning to night, carefully recorded the shadow change.
After day after day, a few months later, the eggs drawn by Da Vinci were lifelike and difficult to distinguish between true and false.
In the end, he became a world -class master of art with the solid basic skills of light and shadow painting.
There is a paragraph in "Bird Collection":
Only by hell -like tempering can we create the power of heaven; only the blood flowing fingers can pop up the world's singing.
No one in the world can rely on talent success. Only by diligence and hard work can we maximize a person's talent.
In this impetuous era, we must sink, be patient, and polish your professional ability.
When you refine your skills thousands of times, you can accumulate and usher in the transformation of life.
3
When people live, just think about it. When you have no money, you want to have money; when you are sick, you want to be healthy; when you are lonely, you want happiness; it is because of the thoughts that you have the courage of life.
One day, a middle -aged man came to Tongfu Inn and tried to commit suicide three times.
The guys did not understand, so they stepped forward to ask, so I knew that he felt that life did not run, and it was better to die.
Bai Zhantang persuaded him to say, "When people live, they think about thinking. When they have no money, they hope to have money; when they are sick, they want to be healthy; when they are lonely, they hope to be happy; With the courage of life. "
The most terrible enemy of people is not from the difficulties of life, but to lose their faith first. Writer J.K. Rowling had a dark time.
After she got married and had children, she thought that her life was fulfilled, but she encountered domestic violence.
The husband's temperament changed greatly, and when he didn't say a word, he fought with her.
But in order to protect her daughter who was born, even if she was swollen, she still chose to bear it silently.
Facing the reality of weak resistance, she pinned hope in writing.
She began to create "Harry Potter", to treat her hearty grievances into novels, and to heal it in words.
But later, after a dispute, the husband still kicked the mother and daughter out of the house.
She is homeless and can only live in a dilapidated apartment with her daughter, relying on the government's rescue.
On that bad day, her daughter and writing became the reason for her to survive.
When her daughter fell asleep, she concentrated on the novel and immersed the pain of life.
After her daughter woke up, she told her daughter's story in the novel, causing her daughter to laugh.
In this way, she spent ten years and completed this popular "Harry Potter".
The writer Ding Ling said:
People, as long as they have faith and pursuit, they can tolerate everything, and can adapt to any environment.
The belief is the vitality buried in the bottom of the heart, just like a grassy species.
As long as you are firm, you have light in your heart, even if you are in the fog, you still have the courage to cross the other side of life and reach the other side of life.
4
There are a lot of unsatisfactory life in life. If you are unhappy, you hope that if you were at the beginning, then you will never be happy.
I like a lyrics of the ending song of "Wulin Wai":
"There are too many unsatisfactory worlds, but your life still needs to continue."
If a person always sinks in the past, it will never reach a new life.
The novel "Poor Dad, Rich Dad" tells a story.
There is a young man who works in a car wash shop.
Once, he accidentally scratched the car paint because of wearing a ring and was complained by the guests.
After the boss came, he repelled him fiercely and asked him to take off the ring.
He said angrily: "If I recognized them at the beginning, how could I fall here?"
It turned out that he had previously been a professional athlete. He put on a championship ring at the age of 20 and signed millions of dollars in a large contract with the team.
Just when he was full, he encountered injuries, could no longer play, and was then calculated by friends and agents.
Overnight, he became a poor egg, so he had to wander the streets and live in zero work.
He was a waiter in the restaurant. When he met the guests who drank five and six, he scolded: "If I were not deceived, how dare you treat me like this?"
He was a carrier in the warehouse and couldn't stand the command of the manager, so he shook his face: "When I think I was rich at the beginning, which round of the round was you called me?"
Whenever life is unsatisfactory, he responds with "not" and "want to be originally".
As a result, no matter what job, he was fired after a few days, and his life was worse.
San Mao said: "I stood in front of Chaoyang and said to myself, if time can't flow back, let all this go with the wind."
Many times, the reason why we are unhappy is because the memory is too good.
If you are full of past things in your heart, you naturally have no time to take care of the current scenery.
You send your sorrow to hope in the past, and new happiness will only be rejected.
Life always goes forward, you can't always look back.
Learn to turn over the chapter in time to give your life and constantly write new chapters.
5
Without steaming steamed buns, this spirit is a strong ambition, not the grievance of a small belly chicken intestine.
I have seen a conversation between Master Nebula and his apprentices, and it has benefited a lot.
The little monk asked Master Nebula: "How can I not be angry?"
Master Xingyun smiled and said: "Angry means power, and the best way to resolve anger is to fight for qi."
Life is alive, and angry is worse than fighting. Complaining is better to change.
In 2002, Yao Ming won the NBA draft championship, becoming the first Yellow.
For a while, American public opinion was uproar and questioned his basketball level.
The commentator Buckley even spoke in public: "If he can score more than 19 points in a single game, I will kiss donkey ass in public."
In the face of naked humiliation, Yao Ming did not complain, nor was he embarrassed.
Instead, he has worked hard and strives to adjust his physical condition to adapt to the strength of the NBA.
As a result, in less than a month, Yao Ming scored 20 points in the game.
In a wonderful game, he hit all the people who were not optimistic about him.
In our lives, we may also encounter a situation like Yao Ming, or dreams of being laughed at, or their ability to be questioned.
Some people are full of resentment and only complain, and eventually sink in negative emotions.
However, people who are firm in their hearts are never emotional, and they only fight for or losing their ability.
Rather than trying to change the views of others, it is better to settle down to improve yourself.
When you become strong, all doubts and ridicule will not be able to break.
6
Reading is not to show off, but to better communicate.
Mr. Lin Yutang once said:
Reading, you can open Mao, in addition to contempt, get new knowledge, increase school questions, widely consciousness, and nourish the spirit.
Many times, the reason why people are in the predicament of interpersonal communication is constant troubles. The root cause is that there are too few reading.
In Zhihu, I saw the story of a netizen.
On one occasion, she went to interview a long -lasting job, and she was fully prepared for professional knowledge.
I thought that the last interviewer jumped out of the work content and chatted with her in order to test her comprehensive quality.
Ask what book she usually reads and which writer she likes.
She usually didn't read a book, and was asked suddenly, hurriedly perfunctory, and said a few best -selling books in the market.
At the time of panic, he also worn the title and author Zhang Guanli.
When the interviewer saw her preface, she told a joke and wanted to ease the atmosphere.
I did not know that this joke quoted a historical allusion. She didn't understand it at all, and didn't even know where the laughter was. She could only squeeze a embarrassing smile next to her.
The interviewer saw that her comprehensive quality was too bad, so she had to brush her down.
Seeing this, I can't help but sigh.
It turned out that people who read and did not even have no way to talk about it.
There is such a sentence in "Art of Life":
"A person's outdated and pedantic is caused by refusal to read."
If people do not read much in the world, they are not limited to seeing.
When communicating with others, you often have jokes without saying, and there will be unnecessary contradictions.
It should be understood that reading is not to show off his knowledge.
Instead, I can improve the cognition and give myself a confidence to communicate with different people.
After reading too much, dealing with people, naturally not so panic.
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The ending song of "Wulin Wai Biography" has such a lyrics:
There are too many unsatisfactory worlds, but your life still needs to continue. The sun still rises every day, hoping to grow in your heart forever.
People in the arena involuntarily.
When you face the various difficulties of reality, you might as well make time, let go of yourself, and revisit this drama.
In laughter and laughter, soothe your emotions, strengthen your beliefs, and work hard.
Even if the smoke is filled, you have to laugh at the rivers and lakes and live a hearty life.
Like a praise and encourage friends.
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