People who are too strong, have a good life in this life

I have heard a word:

Those who indulge in their lives in their lives will only endure their physical and mental exhaustion, and lose their losses.

Having said that, it is not unreasonable.

In life, there will always be some people fighting for or losing winning with others because of a small matter.

When some people have entanglement with others, even if they have a lot of loss, they just laugh, but their lives are getting more and more comfortable.

Then I walked and gradually understood:

People who are too strong, have a bad life.

Yi Zhongtian said:

If life is wrong, stop is progress. Do not entangle with rotten people, just stop loss in time.

Unfortunately, there are too many people in life that cannot penetrate the truth.

They often missed the beauty of life because of entanglement with bad things and let themselves live in pain.

I have seen a news:

Ms. Wang said that since she rented a new house, her mental state was extremely poor, and her work also made a mistake.

It turned out that the children of the residents upstairs often bouncing and pushing the chair when she was resting.

The loud noise woke up countless times from her sleep.

Ms. Wang, who was uncomfortable, reminded the residents upstairs many times, but every time she reminded, she was quiet for a while, and the child would continue to make various sounds.

Friends around her advised her to change the house, but she didn't listen, thinking that the residents upstairs had deliberately tortured her.

In order to fight back, she deliberately packed two sounds on the ceiling. As soon as the sound was made upstairs, she turned on the sound.

Although she successfully disrupted the lives of the residents upstairs, she was also disturbed.

The residents upstairs were not willing to show weakness. They deliberately poured water downstairs several times, and wet the clothes that Ms. Wang was on the balcony.

The "battle" in this way back and forth makes Ms. Wang miserable.

Jimi said:

Don't be entangled for too long on a awkward thing. After a long entanglement, you will be annoying, painful, tired, tired, wounded, and heartbreak. In the end you can't live with things, but you can't live with yourself. Whether you are awkward, you have to learn to pull back.

In life, we will inevitably encounter some bad things, but many times, these rotten things are like the bottom of the quagmire.

If it is entangled with it, it will only be caught in it, which will not be able to extricate themselves, which will enlarge the original pain.

What's more, everyone's energy is very limited. If you spend time entangled with bad things, you will not have the power to become a better self.

When you encounter bad things, you must know how to stop in time so that you will not get yourself into the pain.

This is not timid and weak, but choose to let yourself go.

In the TV series "Little Relief", a clip is still in memory.

When Tian Yulan found that his son Yan Ziyou's math test papers, there were two big questions that could not be done because Mr. Zhong did not say in the classroom, but after opening the small stove to other classmates after class, she took this one. Tell other parents.

Not only that, she also instigated other parents to go to school together, but parents expressed their unwillingness to calculate this matter.

But she refused to stop there, but asked Teacher Zhong directly in the parent group.

Seeing that Teacher Zhong did not respond, she simply reported to the Education Bureau's real name to open extracurricular tutoring classes, causing Teacher Zhong to be expelled from the school.

Later, in order to enter the key high school, Yan Ziyou participated in a gold medal counseling class.

I never thought that the teacher was actually Teacher Zhong.

When Teacher Zhong saw Yan Ziyou, he immediately canceled his enrollment qualification.

In order to allow Yan Ziyou to enter the school smoothly, Tian Yulan lowered the four places to ask Teacher Zhong in three places. As a result, he not only could not change Teacher Zhong's decision, but also replaced Teacher Zhong a humiliation.

When he was young, he would be entangled with others as soon as he encountered suffering.

But after half a lifetime, experienced bumps, after falling, I gradually understood the compatibility with others. I seemed to get what I wanted, but I didn't get anything.

Because of the moment of gains and losses, he offends others and makes your life road narrower.

There is a saying that is very right: "The more tolerant you are, the better your life, the stronger you are, the narrower the space."

As the so -called, take a step back and wide sky.

When getting along with others, it is better to compete less and give up more.

Over time, you will find that you get more than expected.

Netizen@网 网 has shared a period of experience.

Once, a colleague had a dispute with her because of her work.

She felt that her colleague was intentionally targeted at her. When checking the salary, she deliberately filled the wrong colleague's bank card, which caused colleagues to delay for several days before receiving the salary.

When she found that a good friend bought the latest brand -name bags, she also bought another brand with a higher -priced brand bag in order not to be compared with her friends.

Another time, she went to the cousin's birthday banquet and found that her cousin gave the cousin's limited edition watch, and felt that her husband did not love herself enough.

After returning home, she had to buy her a limited edition watch with her husband.

After a long time, she found that although she won others on the surface, she lived particularly.

She was criticized by leaders because she filled the wrong colleague's bank card number.

Because I bought this brand -name bag that I didn't like it very much, and I used to save money for several months before I still cleared the credit card.

Even, because of the fact that her husband had to buy a limited edition watch for himself, he had several disputes with her husband.

Later, she began to relax and no longer easily compete with others.

She said that since she no longer compete with others, her mood has become better, and her life is more comfortable. When he compete with others, he thought he was fighting for this, but it was a self -consumption.

In the end, it may not be able to fight back, but it will make yourself struggling.

Zhou Guoping said:

The cause of many pains in life is blindness.

People who are too strong often have a bad life.

Winning, he lost his feelings; he lost, but lost his face.

No matter who is competing with and competing, there is no benefit except to reduce happiness and add to yourself.

Life is short, time is very expensive, and energy must be used in the right place in order to live in full swing.

A word that Liu Zhenyun wrote in the book is extremely praised:

When I live at this age, I think of many bad things in the past. At that time, piles felt that things were quite big and could not be over. Now think about it, it is nonsense.

When you are living, how hard you are, how many regrets and remorse you will have in the future.

Too hard life is often a disaster.

In trouble, it is the top cultivation of a person.

The road of life is long. You and I are all on the way. May you and I have less energy, leave some space for others, and leave some retreat for yourself.

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Author | Wu Yan, personal public account: Walking watermelon skin.

Picture | Visual China

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