The highest -level health method: good intentions, kindness to others

Zuo Zongtang said: "Being a man is not as kind."

"A Dream of Red Mansions" also mentioned: "Everyone is a person, you have to be more kind."

Blessings and blessings, nourish life.

The kind people are as pleasant as the spring breeze, and it is as cured as the warm sun.

When people reach middle age, they become more and more understanding: the high evaluation of a person and the top cultivation of a person.

01 people are engraving, the more blessed.

The ancients said: "Those who are thin must be thin, and the blessing will be thin."

The mean people often speak sour, selfish, habit, and easily offend and hurt people.

In the long run, the popularity is getting worse and worse, and the good luck and blessings are naturally less and less.

Ji Xiaolan recorded such a story in "Reading Caotang's Notes".

There is a person named "Sai Shang Yang", who is a talented talent. This person is sour and humble, likes to be defeated, and picks people everywhere.

After the death of Mr. Qian Duntang, the student of Hanlin Academy, his disciple disciples set up a coffin for him to take care of his family, handle funeral, and deal with it properly.

In this regard, "Sai Shang Ye" said: "There is no such good person in the world. They do so, they just want to win a good reputation of the ancient roads and help the crisis, so that they will be convenient for the future and make a fortune for promotion."

There was a poor man who died on the road. He is not scattered, and can only begging on the road, hoping that everyone can fund the money and let him bury his mother.

This person described the withered and sour sound. Seeing this, the people passing by, one after another, scrambled to help him.

But at a glance, "Sai Shangyang" said disdain: "This is to collect money by borrowing corpses. This corpse may not be his mother, who is it? I want to change money by this pretend? Can I lie to others, but I can't lie to me."

Another time, "Sai Shang Yang" passed a chastity archway that awarded the award -winning woman.

He looked up at his face and sneered, saying, "This is a wealthy family. How can their servants be as good as a bull, can they be more romantic? I have to verify it. Not a festival woman, but I dare not say that this person is a festival. "

"Sai Shang Yang" is like this for a lifetime: there are no good things in my eyes, and there are no good people in their mouths.

This caused everyone to be afraid of him, hiding from him, and no one dared to ask him to teach at home, lest he "mean" by him.

In the end, he could only poverty and died miserable. After his death, his wife and children also flowed around, extremely miserable.

In real life, there are actually many people like "Sai Shang Yang", with sharp teeth, like to blame, aggressive words, and even full of anger.

But such people are often not treated by others.

Because sometimes, a word of injury is enough to push others into the abyss.

And the actions of hurting people again and again will have an invisible wall between people, and isolated themselves from others and the beauty of the world.

"Continuing Children's Words" said: "Cruel and mean, causing people."

The mean people are not only tore the decentness of others, but also overdraw their luck.

Without the support of the people around him, no matter how powerful people are, they will be crushed by disgust and resentment.

Even if you are desperate, you will not have a good life after all.

02 is kind to be able to last long.

There is a saying in the old saying: "Little victory depends on wisdom, and great victory."

The kind people are more likely to be close by others.

In the long run, the connections are getting wider and wider, and the reputation is getting better and better.

Among the literati of the Republic of China, Hu Shi's kindness is famous.

Roregang said Hu Shi: "I have never seen such a gentleman's style."

This is because Hu Shi is kind -hearted, sincere, affectionate, and generous.

It can be seen from the description of the people around him that Hu Shi is kind and speaks throughout his life. He almost never hurts people. Even if others say that he speaks to him, he will not complain.

After the University of Beishi University, Hu Shi's public speech met Lu Xun's opinion.

Lu Xun blatantly ridiculed Hu Shi, saying that he betrayed his soul, and every time he talked, he sneered.

But in the face of these, Hu Shi laughed.

It is said that he even said goodbye to Lu Xun's letter to Lu Xun, saying "he is just anxious, but there is no maliciousness." Between words, he was full of generosity.

Later, Hu Shi even reflected his kindness to the extreme.

Because of the time disadvantages, the article is sharp, Lu Xun after his death was retaliated by many enemies, his literary achievements were denied, and his personality image was also trampled on.

I didn't want to at this time, Hu Shi stood out. Although Lu Xun had been evil with himself, Hu Shi still had a hard time and argued for him.

Later, Hu Shi was even more suspicious, and repeatedly dredged with the Business Press, and finally helped the "Complete Works of Lu Xun" to publish smoothly.

It is such a kind that attracted many people and Hu Shi to make the initiative.

His friends are all around, and his reputation is well -known, so that "my friend Hu Shizhi" is popular in Beijing.

The old saying goes: "

The kind virtue can dispel bad, gather peace, bring good luck to himself, and bring Fuze.

The reason is also very simple:

The kind people will win the respect and trust of others from the heart.

When the heart gathered, the energy gathered, and the energy was naturally greater.

In this way, life can obtain continuous motivation, and the path of life can go further.

03 Cultivation of the mind and being a kind person. The old saying is good: "People are kind, not bullying."

The boundary of life is not the size of the ability, but the morality.

Cultivate your mind and be a kind person. The width of life will be expanded infinitely.

First of all, do things and do things.

People who are kind should be sincere and tolerant.

Yu Minhong talked about such a period of experience in the book "I was on the edge of the collapse":

During the expansion period, New Oriental had been resentful by many competitors.

Once, a training institution sent employees to New Oriental Classroom to advertise to students.

In addition, these people always leave in class before leaving, bringing him a lot of trouble.

But I did not expect that after a while, this training institution had something to do:

All the four teachers were striking, and more than 400 students also made a refund when they saw this.

Under the way, the founder apologized to Yu Minhong for help, hoping that New Oriental could help pick up the students and teach all the courses.

Great Yu Minhong agreed to the other party's request. He was worried about the other party's life in the future. He also supported his continued enrollment and promised to solve class problems by New Oriental.

Yu Minhong's kindness moved the other party. Not only did they no longer make trouble, they also spontaneously bombarded everyone who went to advertising in New Oriental.

After the other competitors learned the news, they also gave their thumbs up, emotion: "Yu Minhong is quite atmospheric" and stops secretly chanting.

New Oriental, which has been helped, has ushered in rapid development. In just two years, New Oriental has become a nearly monopoly existence in the industry.

In life, we will inevitably encounter some frictions.

But those who are kind can always be frank and do not care about it.

This is the cause of the cause.

Even if they suffer for a while, they will not be disappointed.

Secondly, in the face of temptation, you must be positive.

The kind people must be frank and bright.

The "kindness" of collector Ma Weidu is well -known. For many years, he never greedy for "small cheap", and he did not "bully".

Sometimes he "take advantage" without knowing it, and he has to try to return afterwards.

Once Ma Weidu and his friends lived in a farmer's house. When eating, Ma Wei noticed a small table from the farmer's house and bought it.

As a result, the value of this small table was far exceeded that the value of this small table was far exceeded that the price purchased at the time.

Ma Weidu did not make a secret, but instead gave people a sum of money to farmers as compensation.

Because of Ma Weidu's "kindness", everyone likes to cooperate with him, so any collection always thinks about him first.

And with the support of everyone, the business is getting more and more popular, bigger and bigger, and becoming a well -known collection everyone.

There is a saying in the old saying: "Light wealth is enough to gather people, and the amount is wide enough to get people."

The kind people will never be flooded by selfishness.

In the face of interests, not greedy. Faced with temptation, do not lose soberness.

Change your heart with your heart and change virtue with virtue.

04

Someone asked Zhang Zhishun, "Land Fairy": "What is the secret of health?"

Zhang Daochang answered eight words: "There is good intentions, treat others with kindness."

Killing is the best feng shui of a person.

In this life, wealth will be more or less, and power will be high or low.

Only virtue will accompany our lives to provide rich and long -term nourishment for our lives.

Therefore, the rest of your life is long, you may wish to be kind, be a kind person, and let the kind virtue engraved into life and integrate into bone blood.

May you and me be able to use their kindness to change like a future.

Source: Guoxue Culture (ID: gxwh001)

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