How much do Xue Baodi understand the world?
Author:Read the Red Mansion Time:2022.09.20
Xue Baodi is a lady with excellent reputation in the Dream of the Red Mansion. She went from Mother Jia to the slave girl to Jiafu.
Mother Jia said that several girls in their house were not as good as Bao girls. This contains Daiyu. After she entered the house, Jiafu's subordinates also compared it with Lin Daiyu. The conclusion was that Daiyu was less than that of Baodi, and the girl below also played with Baodi.
I have to say that Baodi from the emperor's business is precocious and early wisdom than her peers. She knows how to hide it and be clumsy. Essence
We might as well list several examples in the original text to see how people Baodi can be human and how much they know how to be human.
Once Baodi had a birthday, I mentioned the trivial matter of everyone. Since it was Baodi's birthday, of course, Baodi had to come first, and Baodi was known. Folding "Journey to the West", Mother Jia was very happy.
Regardless of whether Baodi likes it, it is not important. The important thing is to make Jia mother like it, because Jia's mother is the old ancestor of Jiafu. Only she is happy, and everyone will follow the joy, and the atmosphere will be lively and harmonious.
Therefore, Zhi Yanzhai's criticism also said that Baodi played "it is the heart of Jun Jia's mother." Later, Jia mother asked Baodi to order, and Baodi ordered another "Lu Zhi to Drunk Wutai Mountain". This is also the mother Jia's mother. Favorite drama.
Moreover, before, Wang Xifeng also joked with Jia's mother and said: In the future, only the Bao brothers have pushed your old man to the Wutai Mountain? Mother Jia must feel very touched by listening to this drama? This is the intention of Baodi.
At this time, Baodi was just a fourteenth or five -year -old girl who replaced others. Maybe I only ordered their favorite drama. This is not wrong. The elders are naturally more happy.
Then there is one of the most criticized things that Baodi was criticized -Jin Yaner jumping well. After learning that Jin Yier died, Baodi rushed to Mrs. Wang's room for the first time to comfort her aunt.
Jin Yier was obviously unable to stand the grievances and died, and then died. However, Baodi only listened to Mrs. Wang's one -sided word, and said that Jin Yier may have lost her feet. She also said that she was confused. It's a pity.
If we look at this incident from the perspective of Jin Yier, Baodi's words are cold. Why is she so indifferent and so indifferent to life?
But if we look at Mrs. Wang's position, our niece said this, of course, from good intentions to comfort ourselves. She will not feel that Baodi is indifferent, but she will be grateful to the niece's understanding and consideration in her heart.
Whether it is Jin Yier or Baodi, there is actually no right or wrong, but the positions are different and the opinions are naturally different. Moreover, Baodi's class attributes are also determined, and she can only consider the problem from Mrs. Wang's standpoint.
Another thing also reflects this position of Baodi, that is, Jia Huan and Ying'er play cards.
In Dazhengyue, everyone was on vacation. Jia Huan went to Baodi room to play. He played the dice with Ying'er and lost several disks. He was a little anxious. Win, I grabbed the money.
This incident was obviously a fault of Jia Huan. Yinger was a fast -hearted girl. Naturally, it would not let him, but Baodi saw Jia Huan anxious, immediately stopped Ying'er, and also rejected Ying'er's bigger and no rules.
Ying'er was aggrieved in his heart, and compared Jia Huan and Baoyu, and said that if there was a bad thing about Jayu, Jia Huan had this heart disease, and now he was said, so he cried and said that he was bullying that he was not a wife. If it is raised, Baodi quickly persuaded Jia Huan, and then scolded Ying'er again.
This little thing should be said that Baodi's handling is still very decent. Although it is indeed Jia Huan's fault, she cannot reprimand Jia Huan. She is a guest in Jiafu, and Jiahuan is a master. That's right, she also had to reprimand Yinger.
From this little thing, we can also see the sensibility of Baodi. She is clear at any time. She knows how to make a profit and avoid harm. This is a mature manifestation.
Imagine that if Baodi did not reprimand Ying'er, but helped Ying Er to say Jia Huan's fault, then Jia Huan told Aunt Zhao truthfully after returning home, how would Aunt Zhao evaluate Baodi? How should Baodi stand in Jiafu in the future?
As the saying goes, the king is better, and the little ghost is hard to entangle. Aunt Zhao, Jia Huan, was extremely incompetent in Jiafu. Everyone was disgusted. Her Baodi would be human. Of course, she would not step on her foot with everyone. That was not her.
In fact, Baodi did not know that it was actually protecting her. Otherwise, the object of the resentment of Aunt Zhao was not necessarily Baoyu and may be her Baodi.
It can not only be side by side with the king, but also get along with the villain. Whether in the family or at work, this is the manifestation of the humanity and maturity. You go further.
Baodi not only guarded Jia Huan on the love, she also gave Aunt Zhao's actual benefits. It was Xue Yan's return to the arts and brought a lot of good things. Baodi would be a human being. Except for the sisters who got along with each other, she had not forgotten to send a copy of Aunt Zhao.
Aunt Zhao's mother and son in Jiafu have always been suspected of being abandoned. Good things never turn on their heads, and this little grace of Baodi will naturally move Aunt Zhao, and even hold a gift to Mrs. Wang Follow up, thumbs up to Baodi.
It is said that Baodi is false, cold, and outfit, but the adult world is full of humanity everywhere, and people who are too straightforward and too good and kind, often do not know how to die, but only know how to live in the world.Clean and neat can we have a place in this human world to go further.Author: Xi Si Shao, this article is the original works of the Red Mansion.
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