"I just don't have a relaxation, what's so shameful?"

Our pursuit of "decent" seems to never stop.

In the workplace, the first priority is to do a good job of "emotional management"; return to his hometown, and the entire network began to quit "emotional internal consumption"; it was easy to go out of the far away and began to reflect on why he did not have a "relaxation".

The latest wave of self -provoking originated from the blogger@black cat white socks.

When the family's luggage was returned due to the omissions of the procedures, none of the parties were fell into a furiousness, or complained with the family members of the peers. Instead, they calmly arranged the luggage to contact. They also easily discussed what to buy after landing.

The comment area is full of tacit understanding. Moms that are easy to crazy, dad who jumps like thunder, and children who roll on the ground with a word ... Even if they do n’t have home, they can always see on the street.

A little bit, it has begun to be uncomfortable.

So far, everything is still in a reasonable category. It is a pity that once a topic is discussed by the entire network, it is easy to transform into a practical anxiety.

Everyone starts thinking: Since the native family cannot choose, can we start from ourselves and become a "relaxation" person?

As a result, a large wave of poisonous chicken soup was replicated in batches and put on social platforms- "too hard people go far", "improve the blunt force, reduce the expected value, return to the natural force, keep the relaxation", "not to twist, not to the end, not to the end Only by being able to live beautifully "...

A observation: It seems that only girls are forced to "attach" to "relaxation"

How does "relaxation" change the taste?

Where does "relaxation" come from?

Before this year, the "relaxation" basically existed in the manuscript of female stars. For example, Shu Qi, who attended the dinner a few days ago, seemed to be bound to this word.

"Steak sense" and "relaxation", see how to write public opinion

However, starting this year, the "relaxation" is no longer just an actress's beauty limited word. Who can guess that the first male public figure to be used to "relax" is Xu Zhiyuan.

In the middle of the year, he went to a variety show "The Life I wanted". Contrary to other guests, he did not follow the routine of the show group at all.

What he cares about most before entering the village is "Can you swim and do it?" Do not put the family in your heart, and explore it out as soon as he has the opportunity. He is busy looking for someone in the village every day. he.

It may be scolded by others to be scolded. But in Xu Zhiyuan, this kind of behavior trajectory is called "jungle".

In fact, he is not completely "inaction". He interviews the rescue team, takes the newcomer to visit the village, picks up garbage, sells crabs ... The rules of the show are not important. He only does something that makes sense.

Under the hot gaze of everyone, Xu Zhiyuan Shi Shi Ran left the seat /"The Life I Longing"

With him a demonstration, everyone's ideas seemed to be opened at once.

I have to say that people with a "relaxation" are indeed very easy to substitute. In exchange for yourself, only two points of strength, you can get appreciation without fighting, who is unwilling?

In this way, the "king" seemed to be "abominable". They were waiting for everything, and the people around them were also nervous, for fear of being thrown away from Bali Road. As a result, he returned home with his exhaustion. Midnight dreams were scolded to be scolded.

Later, even hard work and tangled could not hang around. As if born as a person, you have to know that all the advantages and disadvantages can be made. If you have a little hard work or emotional unstable, you may be ridiculed "big fuss" and "small questions."

Synthesis is the synonym of lying flat?

But not everyone applauds "relaxation".

Throughout the recent film and television dramas, the least "relaxation" is also the most scolded role, Jiang Xiaoguo in "Twenty Never Confusion 2".

In the second season, she still does not change her nature. He got off work with his colleagues in front of him, and also spoken with his roommate to imagine happy amateur arrangements. Seeing her colleague crossing the road, she rushed back to the office to write planning at the door of the company.

She asked for leaders to drink coffee and play with badminton, but when she visited customers, she could only be responsible for ordering dishes. The audience couldn't stand by the leadership PUA and my colleagues, and she didn't resign with her neck.

She said that her dream was "back loan", which sounded vulgar. But don't forget that her four roommates, one is a big anchor, the other is the second generation, the other can go abroad at any time, and the other is the daughter of the landlord.

In contrast, Jiang Xiaoguo's sense of security is too little.

Jiang Xiaoguo is the epitome of most of us.

We are forced to fall into the strange circle of anxiety. We may not be in a wrong way in study and work.

If it was not for the excellent family situation, it would be difficult to get things from all people. We are like this, and our parents are here. Although unwilling, we can also understand -this is a subject that we can't avoid.

Therefore, in the eyes of "Jiang Xiaoguo", the "relaxation" is not only luxurious, but also a bit suspicious. Some people even feel that "relaxation" is just a new story of beautifying "swinging" and "lying flat".

Interestingly, in this scenario, "emotional management" and "relaxation" seem to be unable to draw equivalent /"Twenty Nothing 2"

Moreover, once the word "creation" is added in front of the "relaxation", it looks even more unstoppable: since it is not natural, who do you pretend to see?

It's like those who seem to "win effortlessly" often have countless hard work behind them. Honestly admitting that you have worked, you can also respect you frankly; pretending that you are not working hard, you are making anxiety. As for those who are not "winners" and "relaxed", will it really be seen?

If you have to choose, everyone will be relaxed

You may have discovered that the "blunt power" sold yesterday, and today advocating "relaxation", is something that ordinary people can't ask for.

Speaking of "bluntness", I believe most people have heard it for the first time because Ma Dong's recommendation in "The Story of Qi".

The cleverness of Watanabechi is that even if you don't read this book, it does not affect the weight of the three words "blunt power".

If you want to give all the answers to all questions in a book, there is only one way to "talk about soup". Watanabe Church contemporary people, throw all the problems behind, use the phrase "I am too sensitive", "Don't twist it so" to dispel concerns.

But will this be another kind of covering the ears?

To put it plainly, I still care what I look like in the eyes of others, not the whole disk accepting their original appearance.

Yang Tianzhen does not bless everyone to get the so -called "powerful" heart, because the price is too high /"I don’t know"

An obvious trend is that people are more and more enthusiastic about creating new doctrines for "reconciliation".

For a long time, we have been convinced that "efforts will be returned."

In order to overtake the curve and live a better life, we have been riveting since childhood.

The best birthday is best in the first half of the year, otherwise it will be more than a child of the same age; you can squeeze into the best school, and it is nothing to spend money at all, even if you line up overnight; , I will start to brush the internship; I am tired for a few years, even if I am in Gap Year, I have to find ways to "charge" myself.

As for the "relaxation", many people don't dare to think about it.

After 6 years of the company, I have been in contact with countless unreliable people, so I dare to claim that I can do "100 days without angry" /"I don’t know"

Therefore, we will search for the secrets of "emotional management", exchange the experience of "overcoming emotional internal consumption" of each other, meditate before going to bed every day to take a deep breath, persuade ourselves to let go of anxiety, and strive to approach the "relaxation".

Yes, even if you feel ridiculous, even if you don't know how to "relax", they are still "hard work."

Isn't such people more admirable than those who enjoy the "relaxation"?

Even if "relaxation" can't come down, you deserve a better life. This may be what I can think of, the best wish.

Reference materials:

[1] "Xu Zhiyuan rescued the entertainment industry", Bu Bi, Beidaihe Taoist Factory Film Monkey Association, 2022-07-04

[2] "Young Man who wants to memorize mortgages in dreams", Dalu Lu, Meng Da understands, 2022-08-30

[3] "Who is the lazy man in the entertainment industry? 》, Qin Mao, Luobebe, Luo serious, 2018-05-07

[4] "" "The" Bad "male star met a good time", Lin Ma sauce, Vista watched the world, 2022-08-25

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