Never complain to anyone

Everyone's life will always go through a dark and helpless time.

Some people like to complain, the more they talk, the more bitter their hearts.

Considering complaints, but to quench thirst with seawater, the more you drink, the more thirsty.

Everyone who really understands it, and silently carrys all the motivation to digest the suffering into progress.

As there is a saying:

"There are no people in the world without injury, no matter what, you have to believe that only yourself can really cure yourself."

When people are in the trough, it is the most sensible choice to adjust themselves into a mute mode.

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Never complain to anyone

Dazai Zhi said in "Earth Lost":

"I think complaining to people is just futile. Instead, it is better to bear it silently."

The wound is not on others, others will never experience it, the taste of the cone.

A netizen failed twice in postgraduate entrance examination, and he repeatedly encountered walls when he was looking for a job.

He was disheartened and released a question on Zhihu: "Life is in a trough, how can I survive it?"

A few messages below are particularly worried.

Some people say, "What are your troughs! I thought it was a sudden business failure, or a major change, and the foreign debt was endless."

Some people say, "This small setback is a trough for you? Then I can only say that your life is really smooth."

It was already painful enough. I didn't expect to get courage to ask for help, but in exchange for ridicule.

In real life, many people have similar experience.

I long for someone to understand our pain, help us smooth the wrinkles of our hearts, and take us out of the dark.

But everyone is overwhelmed, and everyone has their own troubles.

Your difficulties, others can't solve it for you; your emotions, others cannot feel the same.

Rather than expecting others to light up a bouquet of light for you, it is better to raise the lights by yourself.

Writer Martin once said that every powerful person has gritted his teeth and spent a period of no one to help, no one supports, and no one boo the warmth.

People who are really mature have learned to have suffering and swallowing themselves, and to carry themselves tired.

When you cross the wind and rain alone and cross the thorns, you can usher in the sweetness of life gifts.

The sadness and joy in the world never communicate with each other

In the TV series "Who said I can't get married", Cheng Lu played by Tong Yao is a 35 -year -old single screenwriter.

Ten years ago, she just entered the industry and won the industry award with her debut.

In the first few years, Cheng Lu was invited to participate in countless celebrities and enjoyed the sought after by everyone. But after the scenery, the low tide soon came.

Although Cheng Lu wrote many new works, he never reached the height of the year.

The peers who have been sought after by her have been there, but at this time, there was no consolation.

There was a industry gathering, and she even heard the two friends laughed at her "Jiang Lang" behind her.

This made Cheng Lu, who had all thoughts, once wanted to withdraw from the screenwriter industry.

There is a saying good: "The sadness and joy in the world never communicate, and the heart of people can only know how to know it."

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In the past, we always thought that life would feel the same:

When you are criticized by the leader, when you are sad, you think you will get the comfort of others;

When your salary is low and you can't afford the rent, you will be understood by the landlord;

When you have difficulties in your family and need help, you think you will get the assistance of others.

Later, I realized that all the blows and pains must bear it silently.

Just as Xin Yiwu said in "Shanyue Unknown": "Our heart, our meat, grows on everyone, sweet and bitter, and tastes the taste.

When you survive the sea of ​​life, you will understand that you are the best harbor.

The world of adults: sadness and joy, others are difficult to realize

After hearing a word: "The silence of an adult is not because I don't want to say, but because I don't understand it because I said it."

How painful the injury to a person is the most clear about how painful it is.

In the variety show "I'm an actor", Zhang Songwen improvised a segment of the northern drifting youth audition and video calls with his family, which resonated with many audiences.

The words praised by the audience, one after the other: one after another:

"It is indeed an old drama bone."

"This is called true acting."

But behind this glory, he also experienced a sad life.

When Zhang Songwen performed at the beginning, because his appearance was not outstanding, he was suspected of being abandoned, which led to a long period of time.

He had ran seven or eight hundred crews in three years, but he could definitely get it with his fingers.

Even so, Zhang Songwen did not think about giving up for a moment, and kept cheering himself, and said to himself, "It will be fine tomorrow."

For this "will be fine tomorrow", Zhang Songwen waited for 20 years, and finally waited for the role of the male lead father of the drama "Hidden Corner".

In the play, he shaped the role of his father vividly, showing his style, and began to be well known.

These experiences, just like the Weibo he had posted: "The world of adults is not so aggressive. One hundred times, there should be a hundred self -healing."

There are no people in this world who can really cure us. It is their own courage and strength.

When you walk through the very hard time and jump over the mountains and rivers of destiny, you will find:

Even thorns on the way forward, as long as we keep pace, we will definitely usher in our own dawn.As Tagore said:

"Your suffering today, the loss of suffering, the responsibility, the pain of endurance, will become light in the end, illuminating your way."

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Behind many desirable life, there are little unknown hardships. Many of the bleak years, many people have walked alone.

After enduring wind and frost, you will meet your better self.

Writer Mumm said: "Each of us is the product of the planet lonely, because we are all experiencing, unique experience."

It is precisely because of this uniqueness that it determines that there is no rejoicing between people.

Therefore, some sorrows that are difficult to open up can only be digested by one person; some heartbreaking nights can only slowly boil alone.

When you accumulate strength in the mud, you can break through the siege in suffering.

Author: Xiang Cheng, a girl wandering in the writing world.Reader signed the author.

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