I have seen the smartest person, all of which are "cut"

Ba Jin once said: "The more unpleasant people are, the more generous, the more rich people are getting clever."

In life, the more generous people, the easier it is to attract unnecessary trouble.

It is also a wisdom to maintain the "digging" appropriately.

"Draw" is not reluctant to help others, not to be reluctant to work hard, but to use all energy on things worthwhile.

The smart people in this world are people who "cut the door" in these four things.

Time "pull the door"

Time is the same as you and me. What kind of person wants to be, it depends on how you use time.

Ji Xianlin, a master of Chinese studies, a poor rural child, and finally became a world -renowned university.

Mainly because he cherish the time, he is diligent.

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As we all know, he cherishes the time of crazy time, and he will use the "corner material" of all time.

Whether it is a plane or a train, or a walking or a bicycle, he will use all the time available to conceive articles.

After being famous, he was often disturbed by meetings that had nothing to do with academic academics, so he created his own ear listening to the law and concentrated on thinking while listening.

Later, during his later years of hospitalization, sometimes one hand infusion, and the other hand was used to write articles.

Ji Lao's life cherishes time, never waste a minute and a second.

Some people say: "This is time. When you abandon your performance, you will splurge at you.

Those who have spent time for a long time will be splurked sooner or later.

Time is like an arrow, and it is gone. When you want to cherish it, it has already left you.

Discarding time, doing nothing to yourself, it makes you a good dream; cherish time, and do things that are good for yourself, it will fulfill your dream.

Life is just the reincarnation of the four seasons, but the past will not come back. Only by working hard in spring can we receive the results in autumn.

It is very short for a lifetime, cherish time, strive to improve yourself, make yourself excellent, and you can meet more possibilities.

Healthy "pull the door"

Bacon said: "The healthy body is the living room of the soul, and the sick body is the closed room of the soul."

A person's health is far more than all external benefits, like a healthy beggar, which is far more lucky than the sick king.

CCTV host Yu Ting has been an unconvinced personality since he was a child, and he must do everything in everything.

From small to large, learning has always been among the best, and as expected to be admitted to the ideal university, he has learned various skills during college.

After graduating, I entered the dream of CCTV.

After work, she often reversed day and night, and she wished to work 24 hours a day.

Whenever I feel tired and want to rest, I will see that they are better than those who are better than themselves, so I never dare to rest.

Finally under the long -term pressure of the body, the red light was turned on.

In 2013, she was the first mother, and she was found to be breast cancer, and she cried alone in the hospital.

Later, after difficult treatment, the new life was finally re -re -developed. After the rest of her life, she finally understood the importance of physical health.

In a speech, she said: "If anyone said at that time, 1 million could make you not hurt, I would definitely give him all the money, money, rights, honor, status, everything could not be replaced and shared the disease."

Zhou Guoping once said: "There is a healthy body, a quiet soul, you are a happy person."

When he was young, he overeating, staying up late for a long time, leaving his body wantonly.

After I really experienced the torture of the disease, I realized that there was no healthy body in my life, and everything was empty.

Smart people know that nothing is more important than health.

Eat on time, work and rest, and persist in exercise.

Take care of your body, you will find that there are surprises everywhere.

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Emotionally "cut the door"

There is a saying in "Jane Ai": "To love yourself, don't give your whole body and mind love, soul, and strength as a gift generously, and even waste in places where there is no need and despise."

True is precious, don't waste it on people who are not worth it.

Yue Yunpeng's hair was small. After he became famous, he often found him with various excuses.

The child's tuition is not enough to go to school, borrow 10,000; his wife has undergone surgery, has no money, and borrows 20,000.

Every time Yue Yunpeng transferred the money directly to him, and the little child would occasionally pay a little bit, which made Yue Yunpeng feel that this friend was pretty good. He obviously had a economic constraint and thought of paying money.

But each time I borrow 10,000, 5,000, and then borrow 20,000, and 8,000.

In the increasing number of such times, Yue Yunpeng began to feel wrong, so when a friend borrowed 50,000 when his mother was ill again, Yue Yunpeng called his hometown to ask his friends to ask the small situation.

It turned out that all the reasons were fake, and all excuses were just to find him to borrow money.

Yue Yunpeng finally saw the true face of his friend, but he still paid 10,000 yuan to his friends, and told the other party that the relationship between friends was here.

A writer said: "The most terrible idea of ​​a person is to be friends with everyone. This is neither realistic nor necessary."

It is expected that people who are friends with everyone will often be defeated by reality.

Sometimes you really treat others, but others may not really treat you.

Sincere friendship, you need to be sincere. If the other person does not know how to cherish, you should abandon and protect yourself in time.

In life, some people are walking away, but some people are hidden in your heart. Those who are in the same frequency can be with them, and those who consume you blindly should stay away in time.

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Emotionally "cutting the door"

Frankel said in the meaning of living life:

"You can't control what will happen during your life, but you can control your emotions and actions when facing these things."

Occasionally, the emotions are "digging the door" and not venting casually. Not only can it maintain interpersonal relationships, but also unnecessary trouble.

See such a story online.

A boss who had just started entrepreneurship and assistant took a bus to talk about a business.

On the way, the bus driver suddenly came up with a sudden brake, and a big man accidentally stepped on the boss.

The boss looked at Da Han and had no time to speak, but was scared by the phrase "What are you staring at me".

The boss said he didn't stare at him.

But Dahan was a bit disappointing, holding his fist tightly and asking the boss to apologize.

At this time, the assistant next to him couldn't bear it, raised his hand to block, but was stopped by the boss.

The boss said to Dahan, "I'm sorry, I apologize to you."

When Dahan heard the boss apologize, he was surprised. He didn't speak anymore, and went directly to the back door of the bus.

On the way back to the business, the assistant asked the boss: "Obviously he stepped on you, why do you apologize to him?"

The boss said: "Excluding people who are unreasonable will only affect my emotions, destroy the state of seeing customers later, and even cause me to be late, not worth it."

Many times, the communication between people is nothing more than recognition or disagree with each other.

When recognizing each other, you do n’t have to move to do it when you do n’t recognize it.

Try to understand each other, don't let yourself be caught in bad moods.

Always know how to converge your emotions and learn to digest your negative emotions.

The best mentality of smart people is to act without bad emotions.

Because of a person's emotions, it determines his state.

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I have heard such a sentence: "The so -called more live and more‘ stingy ’, but in the experience of life, I learned weighing and choice.”

Time is precious, instead of wasting time, it is better to improve yourself;

Pay attention to health, go to bed early and get up; streamline socialization, improve alone; manage emotions, control your life.

For the rest of my life, I hope you and I will be able to "sting" generously, cherish what is worth cherishing, and no longer live up to yourself.

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