30 principles of interpersonal communication in life

Living in the crowd is inseparable from social. Social ability is some of the norms and methods of doing things in personal communication. In order to fully express their ideas, to communicate with each other and obtain information.

1. There are rules for doing things, and the basic etiquette and polite words are required to do things.

2. Finding others to help, others refuse to be the freedom of others. Don't take the affection of others as a division.

3. In the social etiquette of adults, there is no tone to propose, which means politely. No refreshing promise is the meaning of rejection.

4. When you are in trouble, you are willing to help your friends, remember to treat it well. I don't often cherish it.

5. When others speak, don't interrupt without urgent matter.

6. When talking to others, take off the headset. Similarly: others wear headphones, just show that they don't want to talk to you about this topic.

7. The topic that you take the initiative, don't talk to others halfway, walk away. I took the initiative to ask others questions. Don't go away without listening to the answer of others.

8. When you go out with others, go shopping, eat, watch movies, don't always stare at your mobile phone.

9. Do not trouble others to solve the problem yourself, first rely on yourself. If you can not owe it, you will not owe it.

10. As we all know, I will not meet again by me. If you have a chance to have a chance in the future, you are polite.

11. Do not judge people. If you can't feel the same body, don't judge arrogantly.

12. Don't be a good teacher, maybe you have this habit, but most of them think you are troublesome and don't want to listen.

13. Speaking of bad things and privacy of others must be prepared to be alienated afterwards.

14. Don't blame others to talk to you when talking. Yin and yang strange atmosphere is really destroying the atmosphere.

15. Complaint with people. Most people do not care, and a few people spread.

16. Less quarrel with others. It was just a hurry to win for a while, and the more you lost, the more angry. I realized it in person, I didn't say win, the more I thought, the more I felt that I didn't play well. Of course don't be afraid of suffering.

17. Less less jokes, the speaker is unintentional, the listener is intentional. And think about whether others can tell you if you can accept it. If you can't accept it, you will say less to others.

18. Don't accept anyone who draws you for you, either the request will not be satisfied at all, or give you a small request.

19. Pokeca. The compliment is a pass for interpersonal relationships. Sometimes, if you praise one or two points, you can open the situation and pull closer the distance.

20. Don't degrade the hobbies of others at will. This is basic literacy.

You don't like to eat coriander, but you can't say that people who eat coriander are unwise. You don't like reading history books, but you can't say that people who read history books are waste of time. You don't like listening to a song, but don't degrade it when others listen to songs.

21. Don't help people make decisions at will, nor of friends and relatives. You can give some suggestions for their reference, but willing to adopt the relationship between the other party.

22. Don't consume good relationships. For example, the circle of friends, voting, such as the link of fighting Xi Xi, such a small cheap consumption of your connections is not worth it.

23. There is often no news to reply to you. It is not necessarily busy, but not concerned.

24. When you go to other people's houses, remember not to point out in other people's houses, don't say that the furniture is not good -looking, where the house is not good.

25. When you go to others as a guest, as long as you still want to develop. Just a little thing, it is not necessary to be more precious, but it will make people feel comfortable when bringing things.

26. Lending money to others must be prepared for the other party.

27. Ask others to help you buy things. Remember to transfer money to the other party. Don't wait for the other party to urge.

28. There is no problem with small money generous, water money, drink money, small snack money. The money is a bit stupid. Just ask you to borrow money by alone, and you will come to you to borrow money alone.

29. Don't care about others at all times. The thoughts of others can't control it at all. It is better to look light and it will be much easier.

30. There is little psychology in comparison. The life you want to live has nothing to do with others. The happiness index rises because of less comparison.

31. The interpersonal relationship is important, and that is not important. The core is its own ability.

32. Want to easily and master the two principles: close my fart, close your fart, the world will be much quiet.

There are a lot of truths in interpersonal communication, but no matter how much the truth is understanding, it is better to experience it yourself.

Good social capabilities allow you to integrate into the crowd more smoothly and make you occasionally social cattle. It can also better establish your own image, better establish a relationship, and better obtain information.

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