The three people who are the most straightforward in the dream of the Red Mansion, have no good mouth to harm others and harm themselves, and have no good results.

In our language, "fast heart" is usually expressed as a righteous word. However, in actual life, some things are not so simple.

"Heart", first analyze different situations. If it is said that a person's heart is pure and not so many bending around, this is of course good. As long as you do not forget the bottom line of "preventing people's hearts", there is no harm with others, and it is very very very very harmful, and it is also very very very very. It is easy to create Lotte's knowledge of life, free and easy, less troubles and more innocence, which is quite conducive to the effect of healthy and longevity.

However, some "minds" are not this, but extremely sensitive and concerned about everything. Any clues will not be ignored, and any dynamic signs will not be let go -of course "Your every move, but I pay more attention" "Some casual speaking, unlock me in doubt" -Black for ordinary people in daily life, there is a problem with this, it is easy to cause depression regardless of the situation. The blocks in the heart are increasing, and the negative factors are constantly accumulated, and they are uncomfortable with others. "There is no fish to clear the water, and there is no apprentice to the inspection" ("Hanshu" Dongfang Shuo biography) is about this reason.

Daiyu has this problem, so that she hurts her body- "Six pulses are all stringed, due to the dysfunction of the daily depression" (83 times). Everyone can say the specific situation, so I won't go into details here.

However, Daiyu has a benefit, "straight heart" but "fast mouth" -s -her oral attack power basically focuses on Baoyu directly or indirectly. And Brother Shi is durable in this regard, even if there are several storms, there is no big wave- "the storm in the teapot".

However, some people can't do it. There are both "minds" and "fast mouth" that are uncertain -this is a bit troublesome. We mainly discuss this issue.

There is also a distinction, divided into three cases. We classify an example.

The first kind of person is emotional dominance. In fact, there is no actual purpose, that is, it is a happy mouth. Typical character: Qingwen. It can be said that it is a person who has a four -sided attack, and there are almost no one who does not stab:

Few people said that the grandma Li Yan, who was not (except for the income of the income), let her get sick for a few days. She complained that "I leave here and see if you don't have a headache and brain heat in your life" (Fifth Eleven times)!

The nobles in the house+potential Grandma Baojie chose Baodi to go to the door. She complained that "we must not sleep in the middle of the night" (26th)!

The old ancestor's palm of the pearl+almost the vice grandmother of Bao Er who was almost eager to come out to knock on the door. She returned to "Who are you! The second master ordered, and it was not allowed to let people come in" (26th)!

Mrs. Wang appreciated a few money for others. She mocked "the person in this house, who is more noble than anyone" (37th)?

Someists say that these descriptions of Qingwen are rich in resistance. But after reading the following words, I am afraid that this conclusion is difficult to establish:

"Those things that are sneaky and sneaky can't hide me" (31st)! Muyue "Play a cup of cups, and goes on" (20th)! Bi Na "has two or three hours of bathing" (31st)!

In the past few times, her blades see bones and bleeds, so that if the other party does not come down to Taiwan, they are all taboo at the terrible of colleagues. This cannot be said to be full of resistance?

But for a long time, did she have any practical purpose? I am afraid that except for the attacking person who threatens her status, others are to show their prestige and the "special pet" of Baoyu -Sadly, Baoyu except for Daiyu's true love, other "pets" who sees Jing's feelings, It is really a flag fluttering and fraternity, and there is no "special" at all. For example, a few words of Xiao Xiao, completely Hu Tianhu, no target, as a result, he offended Lin Zhixiao for nothing. As for the above, there are more people who are criminals (Li Yan has the entire "defensive" decent of Jiafu behind, and behind the Baodi has Mrs. Wang and Aunt Xue, there is a mother behind Daiyu), and she is the slightest. No notice.

The second kind of person is with the heart, "the truth to say", and there is no obscurity and no scruples, and there is no foreseeing and judgment of such a "fast mouth" consequences.

Typical character: Baoyu. Baoyu Jiao Passion Qingwen, well known. But I do n’t know who the two are infected. Brother Shi also has this “fast” problem, and the consequences are extremely serious.

In the falling incident, the ending point was in Qingwen, but the key figure who messed up was Brother Shi. While Ping'er, Ping'er, who took the most secure disposal plan, keenly proposed that "Qingwen's hoof was burst of charcoal, he wanted to tell him, he couldn't help it, he couldn't help it. Still not good to come out "-This really mentioned the idea.

Brother Shi, who "listened to the window", although "Ping'er can be considerate of himself" and knows that the Ping'er plan is correct, but still "tell the truth" and can't control his mouth. The words of Ping'er, one long and short, told Qingwen "— Xiu Yan, the situation was out of control at once! Although Baoyu later persuaded "you shouted, would you like to live up to Ping'er's heart", but everything is merging. Baoyu's most serious consequences this time just smashed on his favorite Qingwen's head -although it was the last word. (Fifty -two times)

Besides, Liu Xianglian set up Sister You, who had "where he lacked the characters, how did you think of me", "If you are busy on the road, you must decide like that. And when he "told Baoyu on the road, tell Baoyu", Brother Shi, who has always maintained pity and cherish the jade, did not know what he had eaten wrong. In addition to the normal words of "great joy, great joy", it added "rare rare rare This Peugeot is really an ancient and modern color ", and then the words" I have mixed them with them for a month "and" real pair of stunners ", and then attributed You Sisan to" except those two stone lions Clean, I'm afraid even the cats and dogs are not clean. " And when Liu Xianglian asked, "You tell me how to tell me, how do she do it" -this was originally a great chance to make up for the loss of previous loss -Baoyu still did not take this matter as serious, "you are deep Knowing, ask me what to do? Even I may not be clean. "It completely sat down the image of You San's" unclean "(66th).

Perhaps Brother Shi believes that this is "the truth," -Ning Guofu is not very good. But he did not expect how miserable tragedies would cause these two sentences without specific analysis and "killing a group of people". As a "wealthy idle", the heart of "nothing to do" (37th), he would not understand Liu Xianglian's solemnity of marriage, and Sister You cherished the famous festival!

The criticism of Baoyu is completely correct- "You have very taboos, and you are happy for a while, you will no matter if anyone is no longer" (seventy -seventh)!

The third kind of "fast mouth" is purposeful and thoughtful, and the consequences of "fast mouth" have some visions from subjectively. However, due to the insufficient analysis ability, there is no grasp of the occasions, objects, and rhythms.

Typical character: Sister Feng. Sister Feng has a small clever and lacks wisdom. We have analyzed many times before. Even follow the trend, sometimes the painting tiger is not a anti -dog.

The old lady promoted a new article and asked her to have a birthday for Sister Feng. What is the purpose of her planning? "Nothing to be born and can be used" is definitely one of the goals, which is also in line with the consistent practice of this lady old lady. But the purpose must be more than this, or the main purpose is not this.

The old lady took the lead in twenty -two members, so that we had a sense of acquaintance. After the first birthday of Baodi, Mother Jia also had twenty -two, saying that she wanted to "set wine drama". In fact, "this mildew twenty -two silver" "enough wine?" Twelve times) At that time, Mother Jia did not propose this method of "not being born, and can be enjoyed" -the comparison is really strong!

Think about it again: Give an current Sun daughter -in -law's birthday, show off the "together"; give a potential Sun daughter -in -law competitor to celebrate his birthday, but he is so tiger (at least in terms of capital); The birthday of the candidate of Sun Daughter -in -law (well -known), has never been a manifestation of Zhang Zhaoming's "twenty -two" performance, deemed the family, is not shocked -there is a contrast and distinction. The thought of Rahz "Jin Yu".

But the old lady obviously does not want to use a straightforward way, just click it -this is called the integrity of advanced and retreating, full of wisdom.

Aunt Xue, who is also a smart man, immediately understood it -after Mother Jia first "out of the twenty -two", "as the old lady is also twenty -two", it is obviously in the guest position. The intention of the old lady has taken the initiative to show weakness and avoid key issues.

When the matter is here, it is really complete: the old lady's prestige is not revealed, and when the point is, Aunt Xue is sought to find out and finds another way.

But at this time, Sister Feng crackled a series of words to put the extreme sensitive issues in Jiafu's life in the big court- "Older, upper and lower, and the black pressure squeezed a house" — stab He came out: "The old ancestors themselves were twenty -two, and there were two elements of sister Lin's brothers; my aunt himself was twenty -two, and there was a member of the sister of the treasure" — how clear it is! (43rd)

Why is this so? The reason is simple. The incident is getting clearer: The mother and daughter of the Xue family entered the house, but they were a permanent posture, but not only the big characters "Mrs. Wang and Aunt Xue said with a long set of housework and other words" (seventh time), and The little man's golden warbler also said "these two sentences, the two sentences on the collar of the girl" (eighth round), the public opinion of "Jin Yu Liang Yuan" was very loud, Wu Wuwu. Once Baodi becomes Grandma Bao Er, with ability, with blood (with Mrs. Wang), and the body, he takes care of his housekeeping water to complete -and the strong personality, ability, and already full sleeve oil. of.

Daiyu, who supports "Montels" and makes the body weak, becomes the second grandma of Bao, the best choice for Sister Feng to protect the throne and keep the water. But her identity is really difficult to put forward the opinions on this issue solemnly.

I finally had a chance this time. The old ancestor spoke, and Sister Feng also understood it -in fact, everyone understands that there is no need to add another, but how can Sister Feng's sense of crisis? What about opportunities?

It's okay to talk about the trend.However, Sister Feng does not have the old lady's wisdom as deep as thousands of pools of water, and her words are not shocked -her method is too straightforward, not only the spoken effect is very poor, but also invisibly pull the old lady’s words.With a grade low, the effect has a big discount.At that time, the taste of Mother Jia, Mrs. Wang, and Aunt Xue was really difficult to describe!If it wasn't for the dazzling and old conspiracy, Lai Yan came to a few words in time to mix the matter, and I am afraid that this "car accident scene" would not be easy to clean up.

Nature has given us the organs of the mouth. In addition to breathing and diet, how to make good use of its language function is a topic that has been discussing for thousands of years.These scenes in Cao's writing should be called an important material for this discussion. It is worth thinking about it and think about it.

Author: wind and rain autumn window, this article is the original work of the Red Mansion less.

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