Five cause and effects, tell the true meaning of life
Author:Internet message Shangqiu Time:2022.09.16
The fruits of life are created by themselves, causal cycles, and their own conclusion.
Life is like a reward Valley. Everything you have done and every word you have said will return to yourself.
What kind of attitude do you use to treat fate, destiny will give you back to you in the same way.
Tolerant of others = good at yourself
The sea can accommodate hundreds of rivers, lies in the amount of capacity; the broad life is the amount of capacity.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, in order to let the son -in -law ascend the throne, he intercepted the son Xiaobai halfway. As a result, the son Xiaobai not only did not die but also inherited the throne, that is, Qi Gonggong.
Regarding this "revenge of one arrow", Qi Xiong not only did not retaliate, but also reused Guan Zhong, and let him be the same. This tolerance deeply moved him.
Later, Guan Zhong was loyal to Qi Ji Gong, helping him to frustrate his heroes and achieved hegemony.
Roland has a saying:
"Forgive friends, when you can forgive other people's mistakes with open -mindedness, there are naturally more friends."
Sometimes, tolerant of others' faults is to give him a step, let him danger into danger, but also leave himself a way to accumulate himself for himself.
Give others a tolerance and pure land by yourself.
If you turn it right or wrong, you can see the clouds in life; reduce unnecessary troubles, and life can be more calm.
Resentment others = Torture yourself
The biggest pain in life is often not the misfortune of life, but the inner suffering.
There is no hurdle in the world, only self that can't be let go.
In the face of past damage, we could have chosen to let go, but because of his obsession, we caught ourselves deeper and deeper.
Imagine: When a person looks back and forth to look back at the old account, chews repeatedly, and struggle with pain in resentment every day. How can his life be happy?
Life is like a journey. The more things you carry, the harder the pace of progress.
There is no injuries to others, and there is no other use except to torture himself.
Many times, letting go of others is also relieved of themselves.
Those who hurt us, just forget, why bother?
If you encounter the troubles, just let go, why should you care about it?
Life has always been bitter, sad and happy, instead of being tortured by hatred, it is better to face it calmly, reconcile with the past, and let the past follow the wind.
Men let others = open -minded yourself
When we treat people and learn to be modest, we are a major criterion for our walking in the world.
There was such a story:
The Western Han literati Chen Hou and the villagers Ji Bo were neighbors. One night, Ji Bo secretly moved the fence into Chen Holdnia's land to increase his land.
After seeing Chen Qiang, not only did he not argue with him, but after Ji Bo left, he quietly pulled away the fence, moved to his land, and added the land to Ji Bo.
When Ji Bo knew, he was ashamed, automatically repaid the occupied land, and exited one foot to himself.
"Cai Gen Tan" has a saying: "The path is narrow, leave a step with people; when the taste is strong, reduce three points to make people eat."
If you are living, you might as well be modest and open -minded. Many problems will be solved, and Gan Ge will turn into jade.
Jealous of others = worrying yourself
Shakespeare once said, "Good jealousy will cause sorrow."
Jealousy is like a leaf barrier, covering both eyes, making people not see the distance, and eventually leads to the narrow and narrower until entering the desperate situation.
During the Warring States Period, the well -known militaryist Sun Yan and Pang Juan worshiped to study the military strategies under the gate of Guiguzi.
Pang Juan knows that Sun Yan can be far better than himself, and jealousy makes him full of resentment, so he designed to framed Sun Yan's private through Qi Kingdom, broken his feet and tingling on his face, making him physically and mentally humiliated.
Later, Sun Yan went to Qi Kingdom and was appointed by King Qi Wei as a military division. He assisted Qi Guojie Tian Ji to defeat Pang Juan twice. Pang Juan Zhi was poor.
The flowers are glory and people have undulating. Everyone has their own highlights and their respective troughs.
This era will not stop you from shining, but you can't cover anyone's glory.
Jealous people never face themselves. Not only can they get rid of the dilemma of life, but they also increase their internal consumption and make themselves suffer.
Instead of jealous of the brilliant achievements of others, it is better to practice their own abilities silently and strive to take root down, and they will be flowing all the way in the future.
Appreciate others = improve yourself
Appreciation like a mirror, you can know others and clear yourself.
Bacon once said:
"The admirers are in the hearts of Chaoxia, dew, and flowers that are blooming all year round; those who disregard those who are disregarded with ice, depleted in all seas, and barren."
Learn the strengths of others, you can make up for your own shortcomings;
Give applause to get the motivation to move forward.
Only by seeing the advantages of others can we look at their own shortcomings, and then learn from humbly, so as to become more perfect.
Try to look at others with appreciation, every sugar you send will finally return to your own hands.
For a person's life, no matter where you are, you can know how to appreciate others.
Source of data | There are books, rich books; pictures come from the Internet
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