It is a disaster to rely on others

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There are lines in the TV series "My First Half Life", which is impressive:

"You have to walk step by step, you have to eat it yourself, and the cramps can be reborn. In addition, there is no shortcut."

Walking in the world, we think that all the four seas of the five lakes are friends, and we only find out when it is difficult:

No matter how large the eaves of others are, they can't stop the rain on our heads.

Instead of expecting others, it is better to improve yourself.

As long as we have our own umbrella, whether it is stormy or scorching, we can be fearless.

It is a disaster to rely on others

Writer Liu Tong once said:

"Do not pin your hope on others. Whether it is emotional or working, otherwise the only result is to be surprised."

Anything depends on others, which is equivalent to putting itself in a crumbling attic. It may be temporarily bid farewell to the crisis, but behind it is the risk.

Mo Panga told such a story in "My Uncle Yu Le":

The Philip family lived in a constraint. He never dared to take leave. Daily necessities only bought promotions. They bought the cheapest clothes for the two daughters, and they had to pull with the vendor for a long time.

But this life of shrinking food was quickly broken by a letter.

The letter was written by Philip's brother Yu Le. He said that he had made a fortune in doing business overseas. In order to make up for the Philip family, he was willing to capital capital to improve their lives.

If the Philip family who received the letter received the treasure, and began to imagine that as long as Yu Le returned, he could become a rich man.

At this point, they are no longer as careful as before.

Philip no longer works hard, dresses out every day, wandering in the city, and showing off the letter.

Mrs. Philip no longer cares about her daughters, but she is obsessed with the wife's circle and falls in love with people.

Every weekend, the Philip family will go to the port equivalent to Le, every time Philip sighed: "If Yu Le is on this ship, it will be surprising."

Ten years have passed, and Philip is still immersed in the fantasy of the letter until he accidentally encountered Yu Le on a ship.

They were surprised to find that Yu Le was not a rich man, just an old man selling oysters!

At that moment, the dream of the Philip family was shattered.

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Japanese politician Tokuda said:

"Everyone wants to rely on the strong, but the real strong is actually yourself."

If the Philip family can eat it, rather than waiting for being relieved, it may have developed and prosperous.

But he was eager to rely on the funding of others to get rid of the status quo of poverty, and eventually found that it was just a joke of fate.

It is destined to rely on others to be a disaster.

Life is a cluster of dense forests. Grasping the corners of others and slowly groping, it is easy to lose the direction.

Only by relying on your own strength to find exports can we usher in the dawn of life.

No one can help, unless you are self -reliable

There is a saying in the family training of the university scholar of the Qing Dynasty: "Ask a person to swallow three feet, rely on people to go to the heavens."

Life is self -practice, confused and hardships, and sometimes the thorns are bumpy. Only when you are strong can you keep the clouds and see the moon.

High school classmates have told me such a thing.

After graduating from his roommate Xiaohu University, he entered the same company internship.

Bringing their Master F is the head of the department. Although they are in a high position, they are very modest.

At first he and Xiao Hu often asked F to ask F job questions. Later, in order to save time, he simply started to learn something related to work.

But Xiao Hu still chose to ask F.

Three months later, the probation period was over, and he was left, but Xiao Hu was fired. Xiao Hu went to ask why, F said:

"You can ask me if you have any questions now, but no one can answer questions for you for a lifetime. You are your strongest backing."

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Moderator Ni Ping once said:

"The mountains will fall, and everyone will be old. If you come and go, you will find that you will rely on yourself in the end."

No one is our eternal harbor. Only ourselves are our own side.

Everything always hopes to others, which is equivalent to giving up the right to the decision of life and making themselves lose the opportunity to grow.

Instead of heating on the shoulders of others, it is better to fly against the wind and stand on their own.

Expect others, it is better to improve yourself

as the saying goes:

"Don't take the map of others and find your own way. Only by yourself can you solve the dilemma of life."

Really clever people never expect others, but strive to improve themselves so that they are for their wish.

In the TV series "Ode to Joy", Fan Shengmei is a senior executive of a foreign company. If she can work well, she can easily live a wealthy life if she can be down -to -earth.

But she is eager to change her destiny by marrying rich people. As a result, the man's parents were abandoned and walked into the sad dead end.

It is Su Mingyu in "Every Both" to compare with Fan Shengmei.

It is also born in a family that is born in a male light and daughter. Su Mingyu never rely on the strength of others to climb up, but lives on his own efforts to become a winner in life.

The mother deprived her of the right to go to Tsinghua, and she retreated and asked for the second to go to the teacher;

If the family does not give the living expenses, she will work out of the leaflets by her own work;

Faced with the injury of the native family, she did not abandon himself, and hoped to appear in the savior.

In her own way, she stepped step by step from weak to strong, healed herself, and also ushered in rebirth.Image source: network

There is a saying good: "No matter how bright the co -pilot, it is better to hold the steering wheel tightly."

If you want to draw nutrition from others, prosper your own branches and leaves, you will only dry in the end.

Only by working hard and exposed to the sun and rain, can you leave the leaves and stood in the wind.

Life is really suffering. Only by getting rid of the dependence on others and continuously improving themselves can we resist the wind, frost, rain and snow.

French writer Yu Guo said:

"I would rather rely on my own strength to open my future, and I didn't want to find the strong."

Relying on others, it is equivalent to brewing an unknown disaster. When frustration comes, I find that I have long lost their ability to show their wings.

No one can be a shelter of your life and this life. Only yourself is your own asylum.

Remember at any time:

The biggest nobleman in life is not someone else, but even if you are in a mud, you do not forget to struggle yourself.

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