"Just him, I'm too lazy to change."

one.

"For so many years together, I have no feeling of heart."

"But I feel troublesome to know the new people again, so I'm too lazy to change it, just he."

On the dinner table, the girl told us. Lao Zhang was sitting next to him, and he still smiled when he heard it, but said nothing.

Lao Zhang is her boyfriend.

On the other side, Coke heard it, and there were a lot of points.

"Yes, the same is true of my girlfriend and I!"

I asked everyone why.

Coke said that after talking several times, he often got tired before he started.

Isn't it all?

From understanding, familiarity, quarrel, running -in, the last two is annoyed, and the process is repeated. It seems that no matter who is changed, it is the same.

I don't understand.

Is this a slackness of love?

Because of laziness, he is unwilling to meet new people. No matter what the person is now, he will pass it. After all, "the same is the same for everyone."

two.

But looking at the state of love, it is not "will" and "endure."

At the dinner table, Lao Zhang and his girlfriend were still very close, and his face was full of happiness in different places. Girlfriend would pretend to be angry with Lao Zhang, and not allowed to go to bed until so late. I want everyone to help you persuade.

And Lao Zhang came to Guangzhou to visit his girlfriend from Beijing. They have been together for four years, and have not broken up for a year. This year Lao Zhang also planned to take his girlfriend home.

Coca -Cola and his girlfriend are together for three years. When they mentioned their girlfriends, they like to vomit. Why are there so much hair for girls? He can't finish sweeping every day.

Cola girlfriend loves seafood. The kitchen is hot in summer. Even if she is steamed sauna every day, Coke is willing to work hard to deal with the ingredients.

These details and instanties about love are evidence they work hard to maintain the relationship.

He said, "I didn't feel my heart for a long time, but I was too lazy to change", but everyone seemed to pay cheerfully for each other.

I quietly asked my boyfriend, why do you have different hearts, which one is the real idea?

The boyfriend said, the meaning of "too lazy to change",

It may be "the other party is good enough", so I don't want to change it.

After work, it should be "mature", and you can't be like a university just in love. He shouted "I want to be with you for a lifetime".

Moreover, don't believe it when you say it.

The boyfriend also mentioned that the reason why Lao Zhang and his girlfriend were different because his girlfriend mentioned "I want to go to Beijing after graduation", so Lao Zhang resigned from the stability and drifted north. Girlfriend comes over.

For Cola, in order to end the different place with his girlfriend, he came from Shanghai to Guangzhou and never left.

If it will be lazy, there is no need to do it for love.

three.

After listening to my boyfriend's explanation, I seem to understand the mentality of "rotten and seriousness on the mouth".

Nowadays, you are no longer popular for love, and everyone prefer to use self -deprecating methods to express their love and cover up their seriousness.

But understand.

I asked my boyfriend, if I was with him for many years, one day everyone asked us what we were:

"He is good, I want to be with him," this funny kind of childish words, and "too lazy to change to him", which is a mature adult like he prefers to listen?

The boyfriend couldn't help laughing, and said, still choosing the first one, it sounds more comfortable.

Recalling that day, when Lao Zhang's girlfriend said "too lazy to change", everyone laughed at the dining table.

But Lao Zhang's face had a bitter smile, without reconciliation.

In the meal chat, Coke also said. Recently, his girlfriend often lost his temper for no reason, and asked the reason just to say "you don't love me anymore."

Then he will buy flowers and give gifts to make rituals to coax his girlfriend. The ending is the reconciliation of two people.

But after a while, my girlfriend would say "I don't love me anymore." Repeatedly.

He sighed that he was tired of falling in love.

Everyone advised him to be so tired than breaking up.

Cola immediately refuted, "It's troublesome, just coax, it's been so long, but too lazy to change it."

I asked Cola, then he still likes his girlfriend?

Coca -Cola replied, "Of course I like it, otherwise I will work hard to coax her."

So ah, "too lazy to change" is really a very bad speech. When the party is said to express love in a way of playing with a stalk, the party as a listening is actually very injured.

And the parties said too much, and even they would be deceived, thinking that they insisted on liked someone because they were lazy, but they were actually because of love.

Four.

When I was young, my parents often said to us, "The child you have, there is no way to raise it,"

The taste of being ridiculed by parents in front of many relatives, grievances and depression. I hope that parents can agree with themselves, and they can't wait to be born.

When we are in love, we will say to our partners again, "I'm too lazy to know new people, just he."

Then let the partner feel uneasy in speculation and self -doubt.

We are all looking forward to being loved, but expressing love.

This is a typical way of expressing love in Chinese -style. We always habitually degrade intimate relationships. Let your love look careless and make the other party feel "love unsatisfactory."

Obviously, getting along with each other, just refuse to talk about love.

We want to talk about:

"It doesn't matter if you don't have you."

"Leave away."

"Who is afraid of whom."

"I'm too lazy to change."

Therefore, if you want to express your love with the other party, don't use self -deprecation.No one will always like anyone because of laziness.

Long -term love is a romantic thing.

It is determined.

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