Touched the book of life of the Irish, a doctor's sincessor writing from the doctor's 30 years

"What’s wrong with you?"

This sentence is often the first sentence that we will hear when we find a doctor to see a doctor.

In the actual treatment, whether it is a doctor or a patient, you know that "what's wrong with you" is a very complicated process. For neurologists, this process is even more difficult.

Irish Neurdist Neil Tiberi, who has solved this problem every day in the process of 30 years of medical treatment.

In the 30 -year consultation experience, he has encountered various patients, and the "cause" of some cases laughs, and some cases of symptoms are incredible:

The chef who goes out every morning, suddenly lost four hours of memory;

I believe the left hand is his "Guardian Angel" young painter;

The elderly who lived alone saw the Santa Claus in the bedroom;

The prospective bride could not walk due to an over -weight loss that could not be worn overly losing weight;

A person who hicciates for thirty years, but has no impact on life;

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The well -known neurologist in Ireland wrote his 30 -year -old medical experience into a book of life -"What did you".

"What’s wrong with you"

A 30 -year diagnosis and treatment of a neurologist

The book of life that moves Irish people

Parkinson's disease, dementia, felmeal, and motor neuron disease. These medical nouns are actually very close to us. Regarding neurology, brain, disease, rehabilitation, diagnosis and treatment, and mentality, those things you have to know are You can find the answer.

"Ireland Times" commented: "Tabridi compares his heart and meticulous attitude to make him a convincing leader in the neuroma."

The well -known medical magazine "Liu Ye Dao" also praised this book "full of humanity."

This is not a manual that teaches us how to diagnose diseases, but to talk like friends to lead everyone to think: What should we do when facing the disease? How can we choose when we have a big change in life?

01

The closest medical predecessors

For Tabridi, there is a closest medical predecessor -his father who affects his doctor's career.

Tabridi's father is a doctor who has been engaged in mental illness for many years. His expertise is to help alcoholic patients quit alcohol.

Tabridi followed his father to visit major hospitals since he was a child, and witnessed his father's too busy situation.

When I was a child, patients with father often called in the middle of the night. The reasons for no exception was because of the unsuccessful quitting of alcohol.

The father who received these telephones was always hit, unhappy.

Although he was frustrated as a doctor, his father was kind, not anxious, and probably opened his heart with thousands of patients. He was also good at listening. He often taught Tabridi not to be so anxious to judge someone.

When the 17 -year -old Tabridi and his father said that he wanted to go to the medical school, his father did not have extra expressions as usual and also poured a pot of cold water.

"Are you sure you really want to learn this line?"

His father told him the process of studying medicine one by one. Six years of medical school, two to three years inpatients, five to ten years attended doctors, once promoted to the chief physician, he would be sent to all over the country. There is time to go home to visit relatives and friends.

This made the young Tabridi understand that there was a long way to go between the title of "doctor" and a doctor who became a name.

It wasn't until a long time that he later realized that his father should be very happy at that time.

After Tabridi became a medical student, his father rarely gave him guidance, but was like an older friend to chat with him.

When Tabriddi's eyebrows danced with "interior" and his father talked, his father laughed when he listened.

Occasionally, Toberti will inquire about which classmates are infected with drug addiction or alcoholic addiction at the father's clinic, but the father resolutely silently not mentioned the specific patients, only about some general cases -the father is taking the opportunity to taught himself this time often Son who does not keep rules.

For another example, when Tu Britadi talked about the feeling of cold sweat when I saw the corpse in the anatomical room for the first time, my father would not say "not that difficult". A positive side.

As a predecessor in the medical community, his father taught him the most important lesson is that not every patient could be rescued.

Father's patients have always been successful in quitting alcohol. When the father goes to the bar, he will choose carefully to avoid meeting with these patients, causing people to be unhappy, and lest they are uncomfortable.

This is the human relationship as a doctor, and the wisdom of dealing with the relationship between doctors and patients.

02

Every incredible case gave him a lesson

In Tabridi's 30 -year medical experience, he encountered many "strange" patients, and for him, almost every patient was on the way he became a better doctor, inspiring a lot.

The first lesson learned by Tabridi to enter the industry is to respect their patients.

At that time, Tabridi was 28 years old. He had to have a young 25 -year -old girl who was sentenced to his life in his life -a young 25 -year -old girl was suffering from multiple sclerosis.

After Jenny was admitted to the hospital for treatment, Tabridi learned of her when she was chatting that she was her marriage.

Tabridi asked her that he could tell him the condition when his fiance came, and Jenny was instantly angry: "You don't!"

In the end, Tabridi still promised that she would not violate her wishes, but she was still angry when she left the ward. Back in the duty room, he told the head of the nurse to hear the incident. The experienced predecessor immediately gave him a lesson.

"As a doctor, judging others' accusations that are not your accusations. How other people choose, regardless of whether right or wrong, it is their choice, not us. It may look unfair, but this is not what we can interfere."

Tabridi gradually understands that when taking care of the patients, we must learn to divide themselves with their lives and emotional experiences, because only in this way can they give them longer and strongly support. Mastering the moderate degree is a must -have for repair. homework.

Contemporary network information is developed. Almost everyone who goes to see a doctor will search for their own symptoms online, and then recognize the worst results from dozens of information.

Tabridi once visited a 85 -year -old grandmother, Ms. Emelida. Grandma felt dizzy from time to time and often vomited. Three children checked on the Internet. The two daughters thought her mother was a recurrence stroke. The son determined that his mother had Parkinson's disease, and the grandmother was so frightened that she didn't dare to move.

In the debate, Tabridi gave the diagnostic results. Ms. Emelida was only a chronic dizziness, because her inner ear vycene was uneven.

In the few years of the "Ice Brick Challenge", Tabridi's neurology department had countless young people who had no way to see the doctor, thinking that he had symptoms of "gradually frozen people".

Although the psychological psychology of the patient's suspicion is ridiculous, Tabridi understands that although the doctor does the nominal treatment of the disease and saving people, he often needs healthy people who have not even had any problems.

In the face of these healthy people, doctors should not rebuke or disgust. After all, saying "Nothing" to the patient is a pleasure at work.

In addition to worrying too much healthy people, there are some patients who like to not listen to the treatment plan given by the doctor after the diagnosis.

Once, Dr. Tabridi met a "strange" patient, a man who has been snoring for more than 30 years.

The patient's name is Ian. He started hiccups since his teens, and has not stopped at the age of 45.

Ian has found countless doctors for many years, but just did not find out where the disease was.

Tabridi did a nuclear magnetic resonance examination for Ian's brain. It turned out that the lower part of his brain stem had a slight scar. This wound has been for some years. If surgical resection, the risk of damage to brain tissue is greater.

So Dr. Tabridi decided to use the drug conservative treatment. After taking the medicine, Ian did not snoring, but the unexpectedly responded symptoms appeared, so the patient stopped the medication by himself and restored the snoring again.

In the past, Tabridi encountered such cases and would feel very frustrated. Now he has changed from an angle. Patients like Ien can only help him make a diagnosis. At least it is an explanation, letting them know What is your own illness, you don't have to worry about whether it is a serious illness like brain tumor.

As a doctor, the most likely, of course, the patient after healing returns to normal life.

However, when medicine is often helpless, occasionally, when Dr. Togei encounters patients who have not been cured in the supermarket, the patient limped to avoid it, only when he did not know him.

Although Dr. Neil's heart is not tasteful, he can also understand their difficulties: "My patient can successfully defeat the sick demon, and it is also my success; and when they fail in front of the disease, they will be injured in their minds and minds. It's also my failure. "

03

Being a doctor, you need to be persistent responsible

In this book, Tabridi is always too "honest", tells the patients he cannot be completely cured, and shared the story of his unreasonable patient.

But no matter what kind of patients, Tabridi has great respect and understanding. Because whether it is a patient or a doctor, anyone is an ordinary person.

He said that he also had "occupational diseases". If he usually exposed to any condition, he would worry about whether he would suffer from this disease.

For example, sometimes he feels fatigue or stressful, his eyes will tremble, and he will think about whether he has multiple sclerosis;

When the muscles on the calf twitched a little, he immediately thought of motor neuronia;

Another example is tired for a week, his hands suddenly trembled during the weekend, and a vulgar voice would definitely emerge in his mind, saying that you were Parkinson's sick criminal.

"So you see, even if it is a neurologist, he will be tossed for the illness." The doctor wrote humorously.

He told many patients in "What's wrong with you". He checked the stories on the Internet. He was not accusing these patients, but told people that the doctor himself also suffered their anxiety and helplessness.

It is precisely because of understanding this kind of "thought" that everyone has, and Tabridi will try his best to comfort the patient's psychological sorrow and nervousness in addition to treating pain.

"Since choosing to live as a doctor for a lifetime, it is natural to assume responsibility for others in addition to the feathers where you live. This is a sense of responsibility that needs to be persistent."

In the postscript of this book, Dr. Tabridi wrote a suggestion for everyone:

Patients with various colors are always reminding us that everything is impermanent, how small people are, and how fragile life we know.Each of us is the body of flesh and blood. If you are still living healthily today, I advise you to live with gratitude.

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