Night Reading 丨 The longest relationship between people: trouble with each other

Author:Minsheng Weekly Time:2022.09.11

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Some people say: "The relationship between people starts with face value, respects talents, and has been in character for a long time."

Quite sense.

Life is long, after several winds and rain, after seeing the world, only after the world, only the good skin is not as good as sincere trust, and the talented talent is not as good as the reliable character.

It is time to trust each other for a long time, and it is to trust each other and not be afraid of trouble; know how to be grateful and return in time.

Dare to trouble, it is a trust

"Zhuangzi · Shanmu" said: "The friendship of the sages is as dull as water, and it is not virtual."

As usual, it is like water.

People who are wise and clear often do not have too lively relationships. They are too virtual, and their friends will gather occasionally when they are free. When you encounter difficulties, you dare to trouble each other and seek help, so your heart go closer and more trust.

This is the friendship between Lu Xun and Qu Qiubai.

At first sight, the two met and hated each other.

Just in the turbulent era, they were very busy with each other, and there were very few opportunities to meet. Occasionally, they went through letters.

Later, when Qu Qiubai fled, he often fled to Lu Xun's house to hide. Lu Xun was never afraid of trouble. Instead, he was enthusiastic about hospitality.

The real good relationship is just like Lu Xun and Qu Qiubai. One party dares to trouble. One party is not afraid of trouble, trusts each other, and understands each other to last long.

The old saying often says: "If you are difficult to know people, you know the horses." The world is flashy. Only when you are in a trough can you have the opportunity to see the human nature and have the opportunity to recognize others.

The best friendship, maybe there is no extra language, no excessive enthusiasm, but can stand the test of time and be worthy of the changes in the world.

It is the greatest blessing to meet people who can trouble and trust.

Knowing gratitude is a kind of wisdom

There is a saying in the Tao Te Ching: "Not expensive, don't love their capital, although they are wise." If a person does not know the teacher who respects him, he does not know how to thank others for funding, even if he is talented, it is confused. Lack of wisdom.

In life, to do things, the most important thing is to have gratitude.

Knowing gratitude is also the secret of the lasting relationship between people.

During the Ming Dynasty, an official was Zhang Shou.

In his childhood, his family was poor. Fortunately, he was instructed by Mr. a master in the village. Every time I go back to the village, Zhang Shou went to visit and gave some food clothes. Even if the official duties were busy, they never forgotten.

The servant of his peers said: "If you have something to do, you can order others to go, why always go in person."

Zhang Shou laughed and said, "Mr. is gratitude to me, but he doesn't think it. The clothing is just the second. The important thing is my heart."

Since then, Zhang Shou and the old gentleman have become Mo Ningzhi's intersection. His behavior has been raised and he has become a clear official, praised by future generations.

The ancients said: "The person who knows the grace is also the sage." On the road of life, everyone has a hurry to passeen, and they have their own homework and mission. Those who are willing to give us help and not to mention some of them are noble people in our lives.

Only with gratefulness and reporting in time can this kind of kindness flow for a long time and make the road of life wider.

The most long -term relationship: trouble with each other, gratitude to each other

"Zhuangzi · Fisherman" said: "True, sincere, uncomfortable, not moving."

Deep feeling.

When people reach middle age, they also slowly understand that only sincerity is the most moving, only sincerity is the most valuable.

When you encounter difficulties, you will be frank and not afraid of trouble; you will be grateful and return in a timely manner. Simple and sincere, don't think much, don't tangle, don't ask well, is the best way to get along.

During the Spring and Autumn Period, a hermit was called Yu Yongzi, and his life was relatively difficult, and his brother and his life were quite rich. The two lived on the side of the river. When relatives and friends visited, Yu Yizi came to his brother's house to temporarily borrow some food to entertain. Afterwards, you must go back more.

After everyone knows, everyone said, "You have difficulties in your life, and your brother is not bad. You don't have to do so." Yu Yizi did not speak after hearing, and still acted as usual. As a result, the relationship between the two relationships is getting closer, and he treats him as kind as his younger brother.

"The Book of Rites · Qu Li" said: "The gift is still coming and going. Keeping vitality and long history.

Really long -lasting relationships, dare to trouble, and know the size; understand gratitude, and have no burden.

Easy and natural, frank inner heart, and trusting each other is the most comfortable state.

A philosopher said: "What kind of person are you, what kind of person and energy will be attracted." Don't be afraid of trouble, believe that others will also gain the trust of others; sincerity, gratitude to others, and also get the goodwill of others Essence

Life is a mirror, there are echoes everywhere in life, no suspicion, no delusion, not much heart, doing yourself well, and treating them frankly, and time will leave the most true person.

For the rest of our lives, I hope that we can meet people who dare to trouble, and we can always have gratitude, have a long -term comfort, relax and relax, and live success.

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