The higher the IQ, the more unsuccessful

Author: Insight · Annabe Su

Real loneliness is not a loneliness alone.

Psychologist Mihari Chickeste Mihayi has done an experiment.

It took 5 years to follow up and investigate outstanding figures active in art, science, business and political circles.

He found through sorting out their experience:

These high IQ people have experienced resistance to people or rejected by others in their adolescence.

Because of staying away from the crowd, they can do things more, and they have shown super logic and vigorous creativity in their respective fields.

In the end, he concluded:

The deeper a person's exploration of himself, the less demand for the outside world, so people with high IQ are inconsistent.

For them, the unreasonable group is not a lonely personality, but a spiritual independence.

01

Some people are not born lonely, they are just friends. In "Biography of Steve Jobs", there is a very IQ boy Wozniak.

He has been different from other children since he was a child.

When his peers were very enthusiastic about football and game newspapers, he often studied various electronic components behind his father and was addicted to new computers.

After adulthood, the people around him began to date, but he thought that "staring at a crystal tube is much easier to get better than a girl with eyebrows."

Because of this, he has been crowded out of the circle of his peers.

Until the autumn of 1970, he met Jobs, and the two were interested and soon quoted confidant.

They often talk about the latest electronic technology together, exchange the music they love, and also produce "blue boxes" for communication, and the first time they transform their creativity into wealth.

Jobs once said in the autobiography:

"If it wasn't for the blue box, there would be no Apple. Woz taught me to learn cooperation. We also got confidence, believed that we could solve technical problems, and really put some inventions into production."

There are many excellent people who seem to be uncomfortable. In fact, there is just a similar kind around.

Lu Xun was unhappy on weekdays, but he and Cai Yuanpei, Qu Qiubai, Song Qingling, Xiao Hong and others all intersect.

Mo Panga is arrogant, but he can talk to Fulou Bye, Torgenev, Zara, etc.

The mediocre guy is looking for belonging in the group, and smart people only intersect with people at the same level.

Only the magnetic field can be attracted to each other. People with the same energy can achieve each other.

02

The vulgar talents will never follow the waves. A study from a psychologist from the Singaporean University of Management and the London School of Political Economics found that:

Ordinary people will look happy when they get along with their companions, but high IQ people will not.

They are often keen to stay alone, explore inward, talk to themselves, and continue to expand the height of life.

Psychologist Eriksson wrote such a paragraph:

"When a person really puts in one thing, it is the key to achieved outstanding achievements. This process often needs to be carried out alone."

Kant has never left his birthplace in his life, and founded the classical philosophy system in the long years of living;

Sulor was far away from the hustle and bustle, and wrote the famous "Lake Valden" in the silent wilderness.

Therefore, never be afraid of loneliness, you will create and experience it when you are lonely.

With the perseverance of loneliness, you can have the strength of everyone.

Americans James Thorn, once described a kind of behavior in humorous language:

"Suddenly, he ran away alone, maybe he suddenly remembered a date with his lover. No matter what he thought, he ran away on the street anyway.

Another person also ran. For the third person, a gentleman who had an urgent matter also trotted, within ten minutes, everyone on the street ran up ... "

The individual in the group is like one of many sand grains, which can be blown anywhere by the wind.

People who are really wise are more sober. They would rather be lonely and unwilling to follow the flow.

In real society, we have been interfered with our choices more or less:

Do I want to take the postgraduate entrance examination? If others become a family, do I want to ...

We are like Wang Xiaobo's writing of those who are "settled in the setting of life", followed the stream, and lived a unhappy life.

But seeing music as life, and telling us with courage to fight the secular 1900: It is also a choice for not following the flow and bravery to persist in self.

I have read such a sentence: "The real loneliness is not a loneliness, but the loss of self in the endless noise."

There is only one time in life. Don't follow others blindly. You have to learn to find your own rhythm.

03

Those who can endure the group of separation are either a god or a beast. In the eyes of many people, Qian Zhongshu has always been a unreasonable weird.

When he was young, he was proud, disdainful to associate with others. He wrote in middle age when he closed his doors.

After the release of "Siege", Qian Zhongshu was famous. Many people and units wanted him to participate in ribbon -cutting and started activities.

But Qian Zhongshu ignored these invitations and essays.

He called these activities, "invites the idlers, talk about non -itchy non -itchy words, and spend unknown injustice, waste time that should not be wasted."

In his life, he devoted himself to writing and learning almost all of his time.

Because of this, he completed the heavyweight academic work such as "Pipe Puppet", and wrote "Siege City" known as the "History of the New Confucian Forest".Those who have clear goals often choose to be alone.

Nietzsche once said: "Those who can endure the group of separation are either a god or a beast."

The more people with extraordinary realms, the more highly have high quality.

When he stood under the spotlight, he looked at the road one day, and he remembered that he was not lonely and long, but the stars shining in the magnificent ocean and the sky.

Like a praise and encourage friends.

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