"Centennial Loneliness": A person's strength starts from enjoying loneliness

Author: insight · Xu Mu Mu

Life has never left lonely and exists independently.

The Mai family once said: "In the second half of the twentieth century, if there is only one writer in the world, it is Malx; if there is only one book, it is" Centennial Solitude "."

Garcia Marquez is a world -class master and is known as the "most controversial" Nobel Prize winner in history.

His masterpiece "Hundred Years of Solitude" is one of the most important classic literary works in the 20th century. At present, global sales have reached 50 million copies.

The book tells the legendary story of the seven generations of the Banedia family. The ups and downs of the ups and downs, the magnificent magic journey, all make readers want to stop.

But at the same time, it is also a very obscure novel. The name is lengthy and complicated, the plot is bizarre and dazzling.

Among the many characters who took turns, Colonel Oreriano Bondia was undoubtedly the richest legendary, but the most lonely person.

He will cry in his mother's fetus. He has the ability to predict things from an early age. He has been a superb gold and silvermaker, and he has also been a commander with a high weight.

However, he seemed to be unlimited, looking for searches in despairing and confused autism, trying to fill his inner emptiness with family, love, and even war.

There are many people who are like him, but they are lonely.

They did not hesitate to exhaust their light and hope, and they must also decipher the lonely password and escape from the quiet cage.

No one is willing to be alone in the infinity wasteland, but in a century of life, who is not a barefish, goes on the road, and a person is on the road lonely?

01

Life is alive, no one can escape the lonely swamp. Orariano Bonidia was born in Madong Duo, a small village with more than 20 households.

Before he fell to the ground, his parents were surprised to find that he seemed to have some kind of divine power.

When he was in his mother's belly, he would make a crying sound; from a young age, he could occasionally unsitps the prophet.

But this uniqueness is like a curse that makes him lonely and silent, as if a trapped beast that cannot be found.

In his childhood, a group of Gypusians often shipped strange things to Macong for sale.

After a certain afternoon, his father would take him to see "the biggest diamond in the world". After experiencing a wonderful touch, he learned that this thing was called "ice cubes".

The impact of fresh things finally showed him the curiosity and enthusiasm of children.

He began to learn reading and writing and arithmetic with his father, and loved the alchemy device purchased by his father, and studied day and night.

However, the alchemy did not let him get rid of loneliness, and he needed to get emotional comfort from his brother Jose Alcatio.

In countless nights, the brothers talked about the sky without sleep, and shared their pain and joy.

But one day, the elder brother who was in love suddenly eloped with a Gilip Sai girl, and his whereabouts were unknown for many years.

After losing the only person who could be interested, Oreriano felt more and more lonely and could not find the meaning of his existence.

In order to resolve the distress, he is fully focused on the gold and silver art experiments, and especially likes to make small goldfish. He is busy from morning to night in the workshop every day.

After this year, he became an excellent gold and silvermaker, but insisted on immersing in his world, unwilling to make opposite sex, talk about marriage and marriage.

Until the beautiful girl Lei Meidis, who was only 9 years old, the gap in his heart was filled all at once, and the deadly soul survived instantly.

So he insisted on marrying a little girl who was enough to be his daughter.

After marriage, he often went to a friend's house with Le Meimei to play cards at his father -in -law's house. He also met many peers.

With the moisturizing of love, he was like a person, talk, hearty, and enthusiastic about socializing, and the gloom on his face was swept away.

But the good times did not last long. Leme Daise died of accidental eating poison coffee, and he became a lonely person.

Faced with the cloud of fate, Oreriano was resentful, but he was powerless.

He can only put away the beautiful fragments of the past to bear deeper loneliness.

Like Oreriano, we are looking for warm comfort in the world.

But family, love and friendship can only soothe the loneliness for a while, and after all, they cannot fill the emptiness of their lives.

In the seemingly hustle and bustle of vulgar world, who is not often caught in a lonely swamp?

As Lincoln said:

"People are alive, behind the shadow of loneliness, and the steps leading to the grave. Life is lonely."

Loneliness is a kind of destiny. You and I have come to this world. In the end, you have to leave the world with both hands.

No matter how grand banquet, it is inevitable to go to the field; no matter how warm laughter, it will be silent sooner or later.

Everyone can only bear the thousands of lights of the circulation, taste changing bitter and happy, and live alone in the days without anyone.

02

The more you want to escape the loneliness, the easier it is to be swallowed by loneliness. After the death of Lemedels, Oreriano's original heart became empty -like.

He burned the poems written for his wife and continued to immerse themselves in his work, trying to escape the loneliness that came day and night.

At this time, the sound of the war sounded above the Madon, and the bloody young people joined the revolution.

Oreriano, who was eager to get rid of the shadow, was also infected with their infection and regarded the battle as a life -saving straw.

At first, he was unclear, and he led a group of fellow villagers a few months later to open up his career in the Southern Expedition and North War. In the past two decades, he launched 32 armed uprisings and escaped fourteen assassinations, 73 ambush, and a shot decision.

His officer to the commander -in -chief of the Revolutionary Army, from south to north, from west to east, was under his jurisdiction.

He is not short of the world of vulgarity. Seventeen women tried to get into his tent and gave birth to seventeen sons for him.

However, standing on the top of power, he seemed to call the wind and rain, but he could not get rid of the empty emptiness.

Without any lover to open his atrium, he didn't even remember their faces and names at all.

When the seventeen sons grew up, they went to Magong to find her father, but they encountered assassination inexplicably, and eventually they were spared.

Even, his lover who had the same bed with him, and the service soldiers who got along with each other directly or indirectly calculated him.

After being poisoned by a cup of coffee, Oreriano was unbearable and uneasy, and became a cold -blooded sister -in -law.

Regardless of his mother's obstruction, he executed the general who took care of his father in his early years, and killed the other party's family.

In order to consolidate the regime, he killed the captain who was born with himself, and claimed: "The best friend is a friend who has just died."

Over time, his loved ones and comrades were drifting away with him. He felt like a breeze in his body, making him cold every night.

Love, power, and killing can only bring him a brief intoxication and cannot resist the chill of deep bone marrow.

And this chill is exactly the dullness and loneliness he always accompanied by at all times.

Loneliness is ubiquitous, it will be tightly wrapped behind everyone until everything belongs to nothingness.

Avoid the inner depression again and again, and the panic is facing the lonely sword, and in the end, it will only make yourself bruised all over the body.

Jiang Xun said in "Six Lonely Lectures":

"To quickly break the loneliness is the reason for the huge loneliness."

In the darkness, he fled blindly, but he put himself in a more terrible unknown and silent.

Loneliness is the normal state of life. The more you want to avoid loneliness, the more you will be trapped in the quagmire.

When it is shrouded in the silent shadow, you don't have to open your teeth and dance your claws. When you calm down, talk to the soul, and eventually go out of this fog.

03

A person is really powerful to enjoy loneliness. Oreriano woke up from infinite sinking to a sharp process, and experienced a very long process.

After he took over the power, the army was often surrounded by his enthusiasm, and the ordinary people looked up at him with fear.

But only he understood how terrible was being lonely and empty.

He suspected that he compared himself to a pig, rolling in the pig's pork pork, but he could not get real satisfaction and joy.

He became more and more confused, and he didn't understand why he fought in the end. He was lost in loneliness.

For a while, Oreriano was tired of the endless war, no longer read the war, and lay in a tent every day to sleep.

But he couldn't drive away the pain, but made his heart more restless.

He had to return to the battlefield, and separated himself with other people with a three -meter -free line, and he couldn't even approach his mother.

Who knows not long after he was confused and embarrassed, he decided to surrender to the enemy.

Colonel Herneldo Malx, who has been fighting side by side with him, attempts to stop his betrayal.

Not only did he not listen to advice, he ordered him to execute.

On the day he executed the death penalty, his mother went to stop his atrocities and persuaded him to get lost.

Under the accusations of his mother, he fell into a struggle again and decided to reflect on himself behind closed doors.

In just a few hours of tranquility, he finally reminded him of his father's experience of taking himself to see the ice cubes and teaching himself for forging gold wares.

Today, he has gained supreme glory, wearing a legendary aura, but it is far better to build a small goldfish in the workshop.

Loneliness can never be filled, and everyone can only find their own momentum in its gap.

Oreriano decided to reconcile with this cage that restrained himself for most of his life and went to life he really liked.

He released Hernelido, ending the war in nearly two years, and then took off his costume and returned to his family.

He stayed in the workshop every day without leaving home, making small goldfish day after day, and obtained unprecedented peace in the concentration of concentration.

After walking around, Oreriano returned to his original point.

But this time, he calmly accepted nothing and loneliness, and learned to be alone with himself.

He enjoyed the peace that was not disturbed, and the cold of his heart gradually dissipated, and finally spent the rest of his life.

There is a saying: loneliness is the darkness in life, it cannot cross. The only thing we can do is to coexist peacefully.

Whether it is a fierce confrontation with loneliness, or to surrender to loneliness negatively, it will go to the desperate state of self -destruction.

Seeing loneliness as a flood beast, accompanied by it is bipolar and panic; treating loneliness as pure land outside the world, you are full of tranquility and leisurely.

When you learn to pull out from the hustle and bustle and enjoy a person's clearing, you will provide space and nutrients for the growth of the soul.

In a lonely person, precipitating his heart, finding your own rhythm, and eventually experience the prosperity and peace of life.

04

There is a very classic words in "Centennial Loneliness": "Life has never left loneliness and exists independently. Whether we are born, we grow up, we love each other or we fail, until the end, loneliness is like a shadow in life.","

Oreriano stumbled for most of his life, and finally realized that loneliness was part of everyone's body.

Even though the world is prosperous and full of laughter, we can't keep the lustfulness, and we can't catch the heavy loneliness.

Since it is destined to blend and entangle your life with loneliness, it is better to try to shake hands with it.

Deeply rooted in the elusive nothingness, and the courage to face the sadness of un Assisting assistance, loneliness can become a nutrient that makes you mature.

Perhaps there is always such a journey in life, you need to do it alone in the empty desert.

You don't have to hesitate, and you don't need to be afraid. After bite your teeth, you can find a self -sufficient spiritual paradise of self -sufficiency.

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