Don't believe in people, you must believe in human nature

Author: Hard See Muye

People should not be good, dogs should not be full; people must not be fully rounded.

It is said that in the past, the grave robbers generally needed two people to hit a hole. One of them tied the waist tied to pick up jewelry and jade, and the other pulled the rope on it.

However, the rope rope people often occur to see wealth and abandon the following partners.

As a result, the grave robbers are mostly father and son, but the son will still throw away his father.

Finally, the rules are formed: the son goes down to pick up the goods, and the father pulls the rope on it.

Higashino Keigo once said that there are two things in the world that are not straightforward. One is the sun and the other is human heart.

Don't believe it too much, you must believe in human nature.

01

Under the interests, the most popular. Rockefeller said to his son in the book:

"Interests are the shadow of light humanity. In front of it, all the essence of morality and ethics will be in shape, and it is unobstructed."

Human nature is often not tested, especially in the face of interests.

Some time ago, on a certain emotional radio, I accidentally heard a story.

A girl said that she had died since her childhood, and she was dependent on each other with her brother.

Later, her brother wanted to do business, and she said nothing and took out all her savings.

As a result, the younger brother's business failed, and the person hid, let alone the money.

Not long ago, the girl accidentally broke her legs by bicycle, and she needed money in urgent money. She finally learned that her brother's whereabouts were finally learned.

In the past, the younger brother repeatedly perfunctory her, didn't care about her, and even said that she was justified to help her brother, and she never thought of paying money.

There is a saying: "Don't betray, just because the betting chip of betrayal is not large enough. This kind of temptation is so large that the dark side of human nature will be induced."

Once people are involved in interests, no matter how good the relationship is, it will deteriorate.

02

There is a kind of bad. There is such a sentence in "You from the Stars":

"Human nature is like this. Seeing that others climb higher than you, not to say that I want to go there, but to say to others, let's come down, and come in this quagmire."

There is a kind of evil, so I can't see others, especially those around them.

Netizen@网 网 网, has left the hometown for many years, returned to his hometown in his 50s, and contracted more than 50 acres of river embankments.

Her father spent a lot of effort, invested a lot of money, and saw that the income of the river embankment was getting better and better. At this time, the people in the village couldn't sit still.

Several villagers took the lead and asked an old man to go to the ground.

After mediation, the two parties signed an agreement and gave 4,000 yuan. They promised that the contract was not allowed to make trouble again.

However, the villagers who tasted the sweetness soon came again, but this time Qing Yang's father didn't give a penny.

The shameful villagers called a group of people to wave their hoe and cut off all 20 acres of sweet potato seedlings.

The villagers also sued the wicked first and ran to the town government police station to make trouble.

In fact, this river dam has been abandoned for two years. No villagers were willing to contracted before, but when they saw someone making money, they started to be jealous.

There is a saying: "Deep in human nature, there are some unbearable things hidden. Once there is a suitable soil, it will spread."

Beggars will not be jealous of millionaires, but he will definitely be jealous of beggars with higher income.

People can allow a stranger to start, but they cannot tolerate the promotion of a person around them.

There may be a few friends around you who want you to live well, but the prerequisite is that you can't live better than him.

03

It is taken for granted to treat you well. There is a word in psychology called "Bembo Law":

If you are too good to a person, not only do you not get the other person's gratitude, but also make him accustomed to it, and even intensify the dedication.

During the May 1st last year, 18 donkeys lost their directions when they went to Qinling in Shaanxi, and they sent a help to the Blue Sky Rescue Team.

The 37 members of the Lan Sky Rescue team rushed to the mountains overnight and experienced countless hardships before rescued 18 donkey friends out of the mountains.

During the rescue process, when the blue sky rescue team arrived, the donkey friends said that the thirst was broken, and the rescue team sent the water they brought to the donkey friends.

The rescue team broke the water and searched for a whole night in the mountains and mountains.

But when the donkey friends came out of the mountains, a donkey friend took out two bottles of water from his bag and blew the tea.

The rescue team asked him, "Why do you have water?"

The donkey friend said straightforwardly, "Being a person requires one hand."

You think you are good for others, and you will be grateful.

But your goodwill, in front of the person who forgets the righteousness, will only become a weapon that hurts you.

Two days ago, a video, a restaurant owner in Chengdu, provided free employee meals for the tramp for a long time.

Because of the epidemic, the revenue of the restaurant decreased. The meals provided by the boss for the tramp from employees to kimchi rice.

As a result, the stray man was abandoned, throwing the food back, and blocked at the door and did not leave.

There is an old saying in China that people should not be good, dogs should not be full; people must not be fully rounded.

Your cognition must be worthy of your kindness, otherwise the kindness is not good.

04

People are in the trough, no one will reach out and pull you. Entrepreneur Feng Lun was very downturn in the early days of entrepreneurship, and he couldn't even buy a ticket to go home.

So he went to find a few friends to borrow money. These friends were people he trusted, but he did not expect that everyone did not borrow money to give him, but both hid him. When you are beautiful, there are people around you, everyone is kind and good, say good words.

But when you are down, no one is willing to help you. This is true humanity.

A businessman, when he was successful, no matter where he went, someone would always meet with a smiley face.

Until later, because of a decision error, he not only went bankrupt overnight, but also owed 5 million debts.

For this reason, his wife proposed a divorce. In desperation, he could only borrow money from relatives and friends, but no one was willing to reach out to help him.

At the beginning, the merchants were angry and scolded their consciences to be eaten by the dog. When they flew Huang Tengda, they did not give the relatives at home. Now they are down. There is no one who knows the grace.

He was decadent for three days and three nights, but no one cared about him except his parents.

Later, he wanted to understand that human nature was very selfish. When you were worthless, no one loved you at all.

Time knows people, and it is hard to know.

When you are down, no one will reach out and pull you.

If you want to come out of the mud, the only person you can rely on is yourself.

Psychologist Adler said that maturity is not understanding, but understanding human nature.

The real strong in the world will never think of people, but to respect humanity and conform to human nature.

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