Yu Minhong: Be a person who is accustomed to the trough

The greatest glory of life is not never falling,

But after falling, it was able to rise again.

Author: LEYLA

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Two days ago, when I saw such a video, I was so emotional.

On a variety show, Zhang Chaoyang sighed at Yu Minhong: "I think the trough coming out is difficult, it is really difficult."

Yu Minhong's words gently said: "I don't think it is difficult, because I am used to the trough. I compare with normal people, maybe I am more accustomed to nothing."

In simple words, how much bitterness has been said.

Looking at the first half of Yu Minhong's life, every step under his feet is in front of the quagmire.

After the college entrance examination three times, I was admitted to Peking University.

Just when he entered the university, other students spoke fluent Mandarin. Only "Rural People" Yu Minhong was often crowded out and laughed at by classmates.

Near graduation, students surrounded by or going abroad, or work abroad, only Yu Minhong stayed in China because he had no money.

In order to save money, he took up the training class, but was abducted twice or even killed.

In order to pull the business, he accompanied someone to drink, drank himself directly into the ICU, and rescued for 5 hours.

Finally, the company managed to go on track, a double decrease, which made the high -rise buildings built for decades collapsed again.

Yu Minhong's life experience just verified the words that actor Yao Chen said in "Starry Speaking":

To live at this year, I understand a little bit. Success is only occasional incident, and failure is the norm in life.

When I was young, who was not at a time, and said, "I can't help me?"

It wasn't until the society was beaten and injured that I found that those ideals and goals were in the face of the most realistic life, but it was the vulnerable end.

Flowers and applause are just luck; bumps and low tide are the essence of life.

In this changing world, being a habitual person will not be afraid of any difficulties in life.

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Have you ever experienced such an experience in life?

You work hard and work overtime without day and night.

In order to take the post entrance examination at home for two years, you have failed in the World War I and again in World War II;

You worked hard, saved tens of thousands of dollars, and had a few years of savings when he was sick and an accident ...

We often hope that fate can drive according to the orbit we expect.

But life is so cruel. It often turns down like a roller coaster, which makes people caught off guard and unexpected.

Writer Zhang Defen said: "When the safety blanket under your feet was suddenly removed, this is the critical moment of life. Your reaction has repeatedly controlled your life pattern and layout."

In the face of the trough, some people are still confident throughout, and some people are complaining about it when they fall.

The latter often puts his life into a desperate situation.

In Rao Xueman's novel "Li Song", a boy named Mao Bei has always been very good.

He has excellent grades. His classmates envy, his parents love, and there are almost no setbacks along the way.

Before the college entrance examination, he vowed to vow in front of a friend: "I must enter Peking University in the future!"

But on the day of the college entrance examination, he forgot to bring a admission ticket.

He hurried back to get back, and when he arrived, he couldn't enter the venue late.

In the next few exams, Mao Bei did not go.

He locked himself in the room and shouted at the parents outside the door: "I lost a whole door, what are the exams!"

On the night of the college entrance examination, Mao Bei opened the window and jumped, and he ended his life.

The writer Taleb said: "Many people encounter something unsatisfactory, and they become like glass balls. Once they fall to the ground, they will be broken into one ground."

The reality is that it is not satisfactory.

Those who cannot accept the trough of life calmly will only fall into a state of defeat in the torrential torrent of destiny.

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A few years ago, "Kangxi is here" announced the suspension of broadcast, and Cai Kangyong's workload suddenly decreased.

Over the week, I appeared in their own exclusive shows every week, and could only be forced to transform and play guests in other people's shows.

Facing the impermanence of encounter, Cai Kangyong said:

In the past, every time the publisher came to me, I wanted to use my face as the cover of the book to attract readers' attention. But now I will say to myself that one day, the publisher will no longer use your face as a cover. When your face has no appeal again, the influence will naturally disappear. I will accept it calmly. So now, I have been fully prepared.

Once upon a time, we imagined that we lived a life of sentient beings and glorious, and in fact, in more time, we were in a low -lying place.

The most important subject of life is not to eager to enjoy success, but to learn to accept the trough.

Thinking of an interview with the actor Wu Yue, the impression was particularly impressed.

She said, "I have heard a very powerful thing, calling everything that allows everything.

Everything happens, you can't stop it in itself.

You are afraid of the same, and the same is true, so I choose to let it pass.

When you choose to make everything happen, you will become a softer and relaxed person. "

The so -called growth is to allow everything to happen.

Allowing the world is impermanent, allows parting ways, allows unable to defeat, and allows sudden.

When you experience more, the more you understand:

Life is good or bad, both of which are the experience of life; the situation is high or low, and it is the arrangement of fate. You can keep Rongguang and be able to stand bland.

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Former South African President Mandela once said:

"The greatest glory of life is not that it never falls, but it can rise after falling."

In the face of the trough, the weak always likes to complain and give up on themselves; the strong accepts it frankly, and will cultivate themselves in the trough and continuously break through themselves.

Cai Lan once shared one thing in the book.

Once, he drank tea at the restaurant and saw a clown dressed by a young man at the door.

As young people cheer up the balloon, they fold the balloon into cute little animals and give it to the children passing by.

His movements are very skilled, not like this age.

Out of curiosity, Cai Lan stepped forward to talk to the other.

I learned from the chat that the young man was a letter sender of an office building.

He is dedicated, but the meager salary is still not enough to support the family life.

In order to feed himself and to support his family, he must come out to dress up.

Cai Lan was very strange. A sentient employee was going on the balloon, so he asked:

"Who taught you the craftsmanship of balloons into small animals?"

The young man said that no one taught him, and he took the book slowly.

Although you will not learn for a while, you can learn from it again.

French writer Camus said: "I don't expect life to live well, but I hope that when I encounter difficulties in life, I can be its opponent."

It is not terrible to be in the trough. The terrible thing is to admit defeat.

Only then can you have the opportunity to realize the turning over the wind.

After New Oriental's stock price plummeted, some people advised Yu Minhong to turn off New Oriental.

Yu Minhong said, "The shadow of retreating has never appeared in my heart."

Later, Yu Minhong turned to live broadcast.

Sell ​​corn, apple, peanut oil ...

He is not afraid of losing his face, nor the ridicule of others.

I always talk to netizens while talking and sowing.

In a few months, his live broadcast room "Eastern selection" sucks more than 20 million fans, and every time he broadcasts, there are more than 100,000 online fans.

Together with the stock price of New Oriental, they all soared.

Feng Zikai said: "As long as the life is immortal, even if it is seriously affected by natural disasters and human disasters, it is temporarily suppressed.

Along the way, ups and downs are unusual.

Fortunately, it is fortunate.

Because only in the process of falling, you can force yourself to know the limit of your ability.

Only in the process of falling can you try, break through different lives, and pursue the life you want again.

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At the 37th Hong Kong Film Awards Awards Ceremony, director Chu Yuan said such a paragraph:

These two words in life are made of four words and tears. No matter how beautiful you yesterday, no matter how frustrated you yesterday, when you are dazzling tomorrow, you have to return to your individual and continue to live. Because tomorrow is better than yesterday, this is life.

Life is alive, no one is always at the peak, and no one will always be shining.

In the face of the sudden low tide, what we have to do is habit, acceptance; hug, and resistance.

When you survive the critical strikes in front of you, you can usher in an update and better tomorrow.

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