"Dream of Red Mansions" Poor relatives: All interesting, the background is kind

Jiang Xun wrote in "Dream of Red Mansions":

"Many people who look humble and the number of appearances are not many times, but they occupy a very important position in" Dream of Red Mansions "."

In Wang Xifeng's words, "The court still has three poor relatives", and it is natural to come to Jiafu to hit the autumn wind.

Compared to the wealthy and talented and talented ladies, each of the poor relatives who appear are like a demon mirror and a naked world.

Mr. Yang Yan once sighed in the ancient years:

"Being humble, the most chance to see the truth of the world's feelings, not the art performance of the audience."

It is not difficult for the world to be clear and the humanity. The difficulty is that in the face of the disappointment, you can wait for it.

The interesting person gives a step under the step. Jia Yun, who can be described as the most unlucky person in the nephew of Jiafu.

He lost his father in his childhood, and he had been swallowed by his family -owned fields.

Although he was called "Er Yun Er", Jia Yun had no family to support his family.

This year, Jiafu wanted to build a provincial villa, and Jia Yun moved his mind and wanted to ask Wang Xifeng to give a difference.

He went to the spice shop of Bu Shiren, and wanted to 赊 four or two boring musk, and he was so good.

Unexpectedly, he didn't finish his words, and Bu Shiren sneered:

"Agreement is arrears ... Where do you have a serious matter, but you are having noisy.

Your little man's house is very good. In the end, you have made a opinion, earn a few money, and you can wear it to wear. I also like it. "

Bo Shiren not only did not help, but also ridiculed Jia Yun for some of them. What's more abominable is that he knew that Jia Yun could not find a living, but also poked the pain and wounds salt.

Under the crowd, Jia Yun stomped his feet by these words and said busy:

"Qiao daughter -in -law can't make rice porridge, what about me?"

When he was anxious, Bu Shiren suddenly interrupted: "After eating, let's go", but he didn't want his aunt to shout again, "There is no rice at home, first go to Grandma Wang to borrow two or three ..."

The auntie stepped step by step, Jia Yun was ashamed and annoyed, so she had to leave in a hurry.

Later, thanks to the neighbors Ni Er's righteousness and wealth, Jia Yun bought the first spice into Jiafu.

In the place of Sister Feng, Jia Yun bowed his head and waist, Feng Chengba, explaining that he did not expect that Sister Feng was not embarrassing. The guest was angry and said a few words, then received the gift and sent a living.

Seeing Jia Yun's nervousness, Sister Feng also praised him a few words: "Looking at you like this, we blame your uncle often mentioning you, saying that you can understand, you have insight in your heart."

Compared to Bo Shiren's "Dog's Eyes Low", Sister Feng's business is more round, can push the boat smoothly, and solve the urgency.

I really agree with Li Jian's sentence: "When others encounter embarrassment, please give a step to help others solve the siege and reflect their own cultivation."

Smart people do not say everything and do things. They know how to leave the way for others to plant good fate for themselves.

When everyone is embarrassed, they can lead to a bridge for a while, and don't fall down to see the joke.

The interesting person, see through the break. In the colorful redness of the Grand View Garden, there is a "difficult phoenix", who is Xing Yanyan.

Her parents were the brother -in -law of Mrs. Xing. In the difficulties, they thought that Jia Fu could "control the house and help the market", and then sent her daughter.

However, Xing Yanyan's heart is clear and has a festival. Even if he is impoverished, he never shakes his tail and begged.

As a lady of the Jingjing skirt, Xing Yan's life is very difficult in Jiafu, full of wealthy eyes.

Fanhuang Pavilion needs to be in response, or there is no one, and no one cares about it. Everyone who beats people and entertains, she is always stretched.

Regarding her embarrassment, others either look down or ridicule in person. Only Xue Baozhen always secretly considers.

On this day, after a heavy snow, Xue Baozhen met Xing Yanyan in the garden and found that she had no snow -avoiding clothes, only wearing a clip.

After pulling Xing Yanyan to a stone wall, she whispered: "It's still cold that day, how did you change all the clips?"

Seeing that Xing Yanyan bowed his head and didn't answer, Baodi knew the reason, and said with a smile, "It must be the monthly money of this month.

Yan Yan was busy explaining: "Because the silver was not enough in January, I quietly told the clothes as a hanging money."

After listening, Baodi comforted: "If you are short, don't save the little family, just find me. You are afraid of gossip, you send the little girl quietly to tell me."

After that, Baodi also told her to send it to her ticket, but the yin was wrong, and the ticket was picked up by Shi Xiangyun, who had no intention of being attentive.

In the Wuwu Garden that day, Xiang Yun held a ticket. Everyone looked at each other, and Baodi said casually:

"It is useless to be dead. I don't know which year, and I will make everyone play."

Stepy, Baodi kept Xing Yanyan's secrets, so as not to let her face the floor, and fully became the decent of a daughter's house.

It is not difficult to see through the world. What is difficult is to do cautiously, knowing without saying.

It is a high -level kindness to see if you do n’t talk about it, do n’t judge people, and do n’t talk about it.

The interesting people have the same mind. In the Grand View Garden, Jia Baoyu is more confidante, and the same is the same sex playmate.

Qin Zhong is his rare classmate.

Compared to Xue Yan and Jia Rong, such as a group of nobles, Qin Zhong's family history is really shabby.

His father Qin Ye was humbled and was a small camp, and he gave birth to him above the fifth.

Qin Zhong was fortunate to be invited to Jiafu for a banquet because of his sister Qin Keqing, and met Baoyu.

On the day of the first meeting, Baoyu was attracted by Qin Zhong's temperament and thought about it:

"I hate me at the house of this Houmen Gongfu.

At that time, Sister Feng, Ke Qing, Youshi and other female relatives were beside him, talking and laughing, watching the show and eating alcohol, Baoyu looked at Qin Zhong a little uncomfortable, so he took the initiative to say:

"I do n’t eat alcohol, put the fruit on the small puppet, we sit there and save you."

Eating tea and chatting among the two. Baoyu learned that Qin Zhong's father was old, disabled, and the karma was just ill.

"We have a family, and those who cannot be extended in the co -clan can enter the school to study. There are also relatives who can read it in the children."

You can enter the Jiafu family. It is easy to talk about it. Qin Zhong knows that he has a humble identity and does not say anything.

Bao Yu said with a smile: "Don't worry, rest assured, you just need to make the respect, my grandmother, no matter how fast."

Since then, the two have come together, sitting together, getting closer.

When he was in the school, Baoyu maintained Qin Zhong everywhere, for fear of being bullied by others; after school, he also often told Xiao Xun to take care of it.

Even after Qin Keqing died, Qin Zhong had no reliance, Baoyu did not change half a point.

Baoyu grew up in Jinyi Yu food, gathering thousands of pets, but he can experience the situation of Qin Zhong, the child of Hanmen, cares about him, and plan for him everywhere.

All this comes from the emphasis on Jia Baoyu's nature.

Different from sympathy, empathy is to completely abandon self -standing, see through the eyes of others, and feel it with the hearts of others. It is a powerful "emotional ability".

Sometimes, we feel that others are smart, and we can always talk about the heart and do things.

In fact, behind the savvy interest is careful observation and consideration.

All interesting and background are kind. To say the poor relatives in "Dream of Red Mansions", Liu Ye can be regarded as the number one.

As soon as Liu Ye entered the Grand View Garden, through the eyes of her poor, let us see a hint of goodwill hidden in the corner of the human nature.

In order to enter Jiafu, she first went to Mrs. Wang's accompanying Fang Zhou Rui's family.

As soon as the Zhou Rui's family heard Liu Ye, Liu Xun asked his wife, guessing the intention, and gave the elderly a peaceful pill first:

"You can rest assured, the sincerity of Dayuan is here, how can there be someone who doesn't teach you to see a real Buddha?"

There was no perfunctory and no push, Mingli secretly said that he would help to the end.

When Zhou Rui's family really led Liu Ye to Sister Feng, Wang Xifeng's reception was also a textbook level.

Sister Feng first spoke a scene. Without waiting for Liu Ye to ask for money, she took the initiative to give 20 two silvers. I did not know the relief, and did not take the momentum.

Later, Liu Ye entered the Rongguo government. Mrs. Wang who did not love words was given to Liu Ye a hundred or two silver. This is her five -month month. "

When Liu Xun was leaving, Ping'er prepared half of the things for her, and it was all available.

Liu Ye was embarrassed to get it, Ping'er said, "You can rest assured, I still ask you something with you."

Ping'er was just the heart of Kuan Liu and his heart, and asked her to order the Gourd Pear Pearl, which was planted by the Zhuang households, and the seasonal vegetables.

Help everywhere, but do not forget to take care of others; obviously it is grace, but does not show traces, letting it let it go.

There is a saying good:

"EQ, not eight -sided smoothness, but virtue, tolerance, confidence, and pattern after morality."

The more you have seen the world, the more compassion in your heart, and the more you treat others.

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When I was young, I read the Red Mansion, and loved its wind and snow, and now I read the Red Mansion again, and I realized some wisdom of life.

In this world, most of them are exquisite and thoughtful people, but all interesting and emotional intelligences are essentially kind.

As there is a saying: "The true kindness is the banner of good deeds without rising the kindness;

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Author: Insight · Jinshan Moon

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