What young people should have the four capabilities

The People's Daily reads at night: "People are at a certain age, and they are fighting these four abilities -to resist things, can turn it over, calm down, and look inward."

Relaxed but very real.

Life is long, everyone is seeking the optimal solution of their own lives,

But I do n’t know that the truth is hidden in life,

Only those who can carry things, can turn it over, calm down, and look inward can the answer be found.

1

Be able to carry things

The US newspaper tycoon once said: If your shoulders can bear one hundred pounds, you succeed in one hundred pounds. If your shoulder can bear 10,000 pounds, you can succeed in 10,000 pounds.

The secret of success is how many burdens can be carried on the shoulders.

There is such a story "Girl Washing toilet", which is about the deeds of Japanese post minister Noda Son.

When Noda Shengzi was young, he applied for a waiter at the Tokyo Empire Hotel,

She is not looking forward to her first copy of the world,

But I never expected that the manager would arrange her toilet in the hotel,

And the requirements of this work are particularly strict: the toilet must be cleaned as new!

"Accept? Or refuse?" The young Monadi was in contemplation.

Fortunately, a senior saw her hesitation and helplessness. He demonstrated himself that the toilet was cleaned as new.

After that, the action made by the predecessor changed the life of Noda Shengzi.

The predecessors were silently scooped a bowl of water from the toilet and drank it!

The meticulous expression of the predecessors deeply moved her,

The Son was no longer stunned, but realized because of the actions of the predecessors.

What is the responsibility at work.

Chen Jiru, a writer of the Ming Dynasty, once said: major things are difficult, depending on the responsibility.

The so -called responsibility is to resist.

Later, the Son of Noda drank the water in the toilet many times,

This work experience provided a lot of help for her to become the youngest cabinet in Japan in the future.

If you want to have great achievements in your career, how much can you achieve how much you can resist.

2

Be able to turn over

Zhuang Ziyun: "I know right and wrong, and the heart is suitable."

A person will experience big and small things in his life,

It is easy for people to be scarred and exhausted for memories.

If you do n’t sink to the old things, you can forget to lose your success or failure, which is the great wisdom of life.

There is such a line in the movie "Unknown":

"Don't be afraid, after crossing the bridge, you will turn over."

The success of Colonel Sanders, founder of KFC, proved that the unfortunateness of dare to turn over and not indulge in the past can change his destiny.

Many people have been teased by fate. Sanders is one of them.

Sanders was a very clever and very good salesperson,

The smart marketing strategy he came to bring huge benefits to many stores.

But the giant wheel of fate is not pitying people like Sanders who have excellent working ability,

When he was in his forties, due to the poor luck, his marketing road was on the end

He didn't expect that he would fall into a state of no dignity, and he was as poor.

Friends of the past and the connections when they worked at work,

No one was willing to give him a helping hand,

The world is the best portrayal of his life.

But fortunately Sanders has the courage to start again,

In order to get rid of the predicament, Sanders led the first social relief in his life.

After Qian got his hand, he opened a new chapter in his life.

Sanders has an exclusive special fried chicken secret recipe,

After getting rid of the pain in the past, Sanders passed this secret recipe,

Under the unremitting attempt, the second spring of his career was ushered in.

Until today, in addition to love to eat KFC,

The story of KFC founder Sanders also talked about,

After all, middle -aged people who dare to re -come back are worthy of respect.

In front of our unfortunate, people who kneeling begging for mercy and stretching are everywhere.

Except for the misfortune of fate, they did not have the courage to re -turn.

Regardless of career setbacks or emotional unsatisfactory,

As long as you dare to go forward, there is no hurdle.

As Zeng Guo Pan said: "Things come in response, the future is not welcome, it is not mixed at the time, and never love."

The most important thing in life is to live in the present, face past mistakes, no longer entangle and unsatisfactory; live a good present,

The beautiful future is in front of you.

Only by saying goodbye to the past can life go forward.

3

calm down

The writer Bai Luomei said: The real thorough understanding is not only to obtain tranquility in the impetuousness, but also from loneliness.

How many people can stay away from impetuous in this era of fast information? How many people can be alone with themselves?

Everyone is afraid of loneliness.

Only by being able to calm down can you get a real time.

The movie "Titanic" was nominated for 14 Oscar,

Cameron, who has achieved the director, has won countless honors for him,

But he did not lose himself in applause,

Instead, the movie "Avatar" was created under the settlement of 12 years.

This film has set off a huge scope of viewing the movie worldwide,

And he was also rated as "the world's most influential figure" by "Time Magazine"

The difference between successful people and ordinary people is whether they can calm down to focus on the present.

Only when you calm down to refuse your impetuousness can you be down -to -earth.

In the "Twelve Terms of Slim" that Zeng Guofan, Zeng Guofan is sitting in the second one.

He stipulated that he had to sit quietly for half an hour no matter how busy every day.

It can be seen that Jing can give birth to wisdom and wisdom to achieve yourself. Those who can truly calm down are easier to maintain a good mentality, so that they have the ability to see the path of life.

4

Look inward

Wang Yangming once said: My sex is self -sufficient.

What does it mean?

Only by learning to connect with himself can one have really strong power.

People have a variety of requirements for life,

Some people want to live an enviable life,

Some people long for power and prestige,

Some people want to get countless money.

If you want to realize your life's pursuit, you only know that looking out will only make people get more and more impetuous.

We will be accustomed to comparing with others, accustomed to complaining about life, and desire will only become bigger and bigger.

Swiss psychologist Jung said: "People who watch out to dream, people who watch inward wake up inward"

The greater the dream, the easier it is to be knocked down by reality.

Only when you keep awake at all times, your heart is indestructible.

Learning to look inward, increasing self -awareness is the truth of many masters.

There is such a small story:

A hard -working and clean wife maintains the cleanliness of her living environment every day.

But this also brought her a bad problem that likes to be picky of others.

One day, a friend came to this wife's house as a guest,

The wife opened her discerning mode again,

Pointing at the opposite yard and said, "This hostess is very sloppy, and there are always spots on the washing clothes. I really don’t know how the clothes can be washed like this."

After listening to the friend, when I walked to the window to observe for a while, I wiped the stains on the window with a wet rag and said: Do you just clean it? ""

It turned out that the wife did not clean the window.

This story shows that the easiest thing for people is to pick others' faults,

The most rare thing is to see yourself clearly.

Many people are accustomed to others, or complain about the outside environment.

In the old saying, there is no way to do it.

When a person is pursuing what he wants, he will inevitably encounter setbacks,

You have to learn to find out in your own as soon as possible,

Change it is often easier than changing others.

Learn to examine yourself to truly improve yourself.

5

To the end

People must learn to learn from others, and they will walk without life.

The experience of people who come here often contains the wisdom of life,

If young people can master it early, they will take a lot of detours.

The general talk of life's experience is:

Can resist the matter -Fang has the capital of life;

Can be turned over -to remove the heavy burden;

Quiet -stay away from the anxiety caused by impetuousness;

Look inward -find your true light.

Together with the monarch.

Source: Night Reading (ID: YEDU857)

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