In the era of excess cleverness, reliable is the biggest capital of a person
Author:reader Time:2022.09.09
Chatting with friends a while ago, talking about the topic of a person's most precious quality.
I thought that everyone would think it was smart, kind, and visionary. I did not expect that the consensus answer was reliable.
One person is exquisite, can speak for a while, and come to a special way, not the high emotional quotient.
The real high emotional quotient is the unlimited trust of everyone.
The world of adults is more clever and rare.
Smart may be able to get over the heart, but reliable people often get extra luck.
Reliable people will always put integrity in the first place
I have seen a case shared by a company.
The boss had a subordinate who won his trust. The young man was good to learn and clever.
But later because of the two things, the boss changed his view of him.
One thing is that when dealing with a violation of disciplines, the young man was unwilling to offend people, so he played a means to make him a good person and pushed the offenders to the company's head.
Another thing is that the young man said on the surface that he would follow the boss for a long time, but he found another company behind him, and then suddenly resigned and left. He was caught off guard by the boss, causing a lot of losses to the company's business.
The boss said that since then, his company's evaluation standards have been attracted by people, good character and integrity have been put first.
A philosopher once said: The mortals stand in the heavens and the earth, and they must be "sincere" in the event of an incident, and later generations believe that it is a human value.
Reliable people always put their integrity first.
In the early years, Luo Yonghao was very lacking in money when he founded an English training school.
After a long -not -seeing little knowing about it for many years, he didn't say it to him 3 million.
Luo Yonghao asked: "This money is not a decimal. We have not contacted for so many years. Why do you believe me?"
Then there was one thing to send a novel.
When they were young, they all liked to recording video tapes and exchanged each other.
At that time, many people slid their heads, divided a story film into five plates, and then changed five -set video with others.
Gradually, everyone did this, but Luo Yonghao did not.
Sending a novel: "Seeing the character in details, I thought you were reliable and worthy of deep intersection."
Later, Luo Yonghao failed to start a business.
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Cao Dewang said:
Everything in your life is every brick of your historical building.
When a brick is broken, when you cover it high, the pressure is stressful. If that place can't stand scrutiny, the building is easily destroyed.
The biggest bankruptcy of a person is the bankruptcy of credit; a person's greatest wealth is a positive and reliable character.
Real smart people will never overdo their credit, nor will it disappoint the trust of others.
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Reliable people, do not perfunctory things
The writer Liu Ye once explained that his daughter watered the flowers.
The daughter was anxious to go out to play, and the flowers were poured in three or two times.
Just when she was going out, Liu Ye stopped her.
He brought his daughter to the flowerpot and asked, "What is the difference between your dad poured flowers and the flowers you poured?"
The daughter shook her head, and Liu Xun raised the two pots of flowers, showing the root of the flower to her daughter, and the daughter's face immediately became red.
It turned out that the water that was poured on the surface was only on the surface, and the flowers poured by the father had penetrated into the roots.
Liu Ye's center of gravity taught her daughter:
Do not only do superficial work, you must do thoroughly to achieve "roots".
Being a person should also be a responsible, responsible, and reliable person.
A reliable person does not need to have much professional skills, you just need to do things well.
After graduating from Harvard, economist Chen Yisun returned to Tsinghua to teach.
At that time, the content of Tsinghua's intercom was not clearly stipulated, but Chen Yisun spent three hours a day to prepare carefully.
Large logic, as small as a punctuation symbol, all strive to be accurate.
One day, a classmate was absent from a class and wanted to find Chen Yisun to tuition by lectures.
Chen Yisun told the classmate: "You need to wait a while, because I have new opinions on the original content, and I will give it to you when I finish it."
The classmates asked with some puzzles: "Isn't it already finished, why do you need to add?"
Chen Yisun replied:
"No matter how many times I have said, I will add new ideas in time. In order to be responsible for you, I am willing even if I change it 100 times."
The rigorous style and the attitude of excellence make his academic ability and students' reputation better.
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A writer once said: "Do everything seriously, don't bother, don't give up, don't perfunctory."
Relief is not perfunctory.
Smart people are busy taking shortcuts, and reliable people step by step.
Pay attention to every detail, do not let go of every small mistake, and use 100 % intentions to find a deserved heart.
Reliable people, doing things reassuring
From the media people Qingge said:
No matter how high your academic qualifications are, or talented, everyone is ashamed of not daring to open your eyes, but what you can respect and look at you will always be your reliable professional spirit.
Because talent does not allow a person to respect you, but it is reliable.
The author Ai Xiao sheep has a partner with a strong ability to execute.
For a while, she heard that many people came to dig her, and these people had a good deal with her.
Some of them often deliver meals to the partner and go abroad to take the initiative to help her buy their legs.
But in the end, the partner still did not leave.
Ai Xiaoyang asked "why" curiously, and the partner said frankly:
Because of these people, only you tell me what to do, how to do, what is the profitability of profit, and what I can get after the goal is beyond the goal. Your professionalism makes me trust.
In life, many people say that they have high emotional quotient, they are exquisite, and they are at the source.
But no matter how much skills are, it is not as good as a down -to -earth attitude.
Revisiting the TV series "Big River" a while ago, a plot inside impressed me very deeply.
Lei Dongbao, secretary of the village branch of the Xiaolei family, led the women in the village to raise a long rabbit. After all the people died, they were ready to sell the rabbit hair directly to Shanghai.
Lei Dongbao sent two people, one four treasures, and one old.
When he returned, Sibaoxing highly mentioned the interesting things in Shanghai.
When I was asked by Lei Dongbao and "How can others evaluate our rabbit hair quality" and "Is there anything else can be improved?"
In contrast, the old man took the initiative to invite the secretary to the house, not only reported in detail the development prospects of Chang Mao Mao in Shanghai, but also talked with several stores for two years in advance.
In some comparison, high standing.
Four Bao watched the clever on weekdays, but could do something without a tail, so that many years have passed, he is still doing nothing in the village;
Lao Xun looked silent, but he was careful and everything, and was later promoted to be the webmaster of the rabbit hair acquisition station.
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Writer Chi Li said: "Reliable, simple to say, and complicated."
Relief is that it is reassuring.
No matter how glorious the title, no matter how clever means, it is better than being a person, and there is a head and end.
Reassuring is to get luck to your life, and when the opportunity comes, you can catch it firmly.
At the end
Some students once asked Nan Huaijin: What kind of people are more likely to get the favor of others?
Nan Huaijin replied: "A stupid man, a person who does not play, is very sincere for people and things."
Reliable people may not be surrounded by halo often, but that personally will be trusted by others for a long time.
They may not be good at communication and cannot immediately catch people's attention, but the sense of security can make people automatically surround them.
Standing in the world, reliable is the top talent of a person.
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Author: Annabe Su. Source: Dianxuality (ID: DJ00123987), different views, different stories, WeChat large number of 25 million people.
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