The top three realms of life: suffering, not talking, laughing without words, shocking but not messy

The top three realms of life: suffering, not talking, laughing without words, shocking but not messy

2022-08-09 02: 08 · I am Wenxin

If a person wants to be a noble person, he must cultivate his body and have a noble soul. The noble soul is the top three realms of life: bitterness, no words, laughing without words, shocking but not messy.

1. Better and don't say

Wang Yangming said: "The hardships in the world are all hardworking. The world is a dojo, and the mud raw lotus." This is a mentality and a realm.

Those who have this realm have become accustomed to the hardships of the world and have the courage and ability to resist and overcome difficulties. The mind has become clean and open -minded, and has regarded suffering as the norm of life, even the landscape.

Wang Yangming also has a famous saying: "People are suffering, they are speechless." It means that people who live suffer often do not say anything.

It is a kind of low -key and humility. It is a kind of realm and generosity. Buried bitterness in his heart and slowly resolved it alone. It was still a smile when he treated outsiders. It seemed that nothing happened, as if he had a good life and happiness.

Because, he knew that it was also said that he could not play any role, and no one would come to help you, or even sympathized with poor people. Instead, it would make others look down on themselves, and even let people who were unhappy laughed and satirized, and they ended up. A boring end.

Even if someone helps you, it is a lot of money to solve the fundamental problem. It is better to get rid of your own spirit, strong and brave, and solve it silently.

People who are poor to borrow money are borrowed, because they are afraid that you ca n’t afford it.

People who are poor and enter the public, they are looking for troubles in the public, and they are embarrassed to find themselves. People who are more powerful than your status will not pay attention to you, and even a word will not tell you, even a greeting will not fight you.

Saying said, no one listened. Don't persuade people, because people don't understand you at all. If you don't understand this, you will only talk about themselves, let others roll their eyes, and even order you to stop.

Some words are not good, not let others know, because it is a big thing to you, and it is a trivial matter for others. Even if you say it, not only does not play a good role, it may also play a bad role. He may stop and destroy from it. The reason you may not know that he may be relatives or friends of the other party.

Second, laugh without words

There is a saying: "The real thing is a smile without spending a penny."

Smile is friendly and generous, and it is a acceptance of the world.

Laughing and silent is mature, capable, stable.

When you meet a good person, laughing without words is friendly; when you meet a bad guy, you laugh without saying a smile; when you meet a civilized person, you laugh without words; you are respecting your opponent, laughing without saying a word; The person who laughed and said nothing was forgiveness.

Some words are not good. If you say it, it may not be in line with the other party's mind.

Therefore, smile is the best expression, and it is a "language" that everyone understands.

Laughing without saying, making the environment quiet and friendly, harmonious and relaxed.

Laughing and silent, it shows a person's cultivation and civilization, not only the beauty of mentality, but also read books and the path of walking.

In an unfamiliar environment, laughing without words is a silent language and an expression of goodwill; in the environment of acquaintances, laughter is polite, shaking hands, friendly.

Third, shocked but not chaotic

Zhuge Liang said: "A gentleman's trip is quiet, frugal to nourish morality.

Fan Zhongyan said: "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad." Highlighting the meaning of quietness.

Shocked, showing a person's maturity, stability, and generosity. It is a mentality, which is calm, calm and calm.

Hands and feet are chaotic, and there is no complemention; panic and scourge, which is not conducive to the solution of the problem.

A person who has a nourishment, looking at the outside world, is not moved, does not disturb the quietness of the heart because of the prosperity of the outside world, does not cause irritability because of others' money, not because others have houses and cars, have the right to have the power and momentum. Envy, not jealous of others because of other friends and others.

It is a maturity without envy anyone. The peony has the luxury of peony, the rose is pleasant in the rose, and the dandelion has the elegance of dandelion. They are all beautiful.

Although the official has the right, it is unable to take care of the family; although the business is rich, it is more and more gathered with loved ones. Eating meat is susceptible to hypertension, and it is easy to hurt liver and stomach. Rough tea and rice can be the best health. Knowing the realm of life is the envy of everyone.

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