Jiang Xun: Before you love everyone and things, you should first love yourself

The first edition of Jiang Xun's "Twelve letters to L to L" was at the end of the last century. At that time, mobile phones and computer terminals had not yet become mainstream. The twelve lovers' fluttering words were presented in front of us through handwriting letters. Twenty years later, when mobile phones can easily satisfy our imagination and desire, what inspiration can we get from such a letter?

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"Twelve letters written to L" connects Jiang Xun's understanding of love in the twelve letters. It is affectionate and frank enough, so it can resonate with thousands of readers so far.

These twelve letters only give a specific voice called "ly's M". The paper is short and long, but this is another letter that cannot be delivered, because these twelve letters are pointing to a determination after a breakup. A look back.

The model of this book is that it deserves to show the tangles, difficulties, desires and pains of love. Maybe only by facing the negative side of these loves, can we actively feel love, learn tolerance, learn how to establish establishment Real life value.

If you want to ask who "Ly's M" is, you can see it as TA, you can be regarded as you, me, because you know yourself correctly before you love others. Therefore, we can use "Twelve letters to L to L" as a love letter to ourselves, imagine a elopement with ourselves, a journey of love.

Islands, street corners, plains, ruins, try to make me more details about your love for you

How to love? It is a problem in front of the contemporary. Jiang Xun wrote his views on love with his shocking strokes. He opened his mind in the book, and his desire to love was accompanied by pain and evidence. The journey of love starts with a breakup, because the results have been irreversible, and only at the time of separation, through memory, build a belief in self.

Twelve letters, followed Jiang Xun's footsteps, set off from Barry, Italy, across the continent, and travel all over the place. Amsterdam, Paris, Rome, Jade Leng Cui, Venice, and Cambodia, sent love in different locations. He described the scene during the journey, the echo of the valley, the shape of the wind, and the heat waves of the wheat field. From the island, street corners, plains, ruins, 30,000 feet, each place carried the thoughts of travel.

In Rome, he walked through the ruins of the empire and realized that he was willing to "love all the love in a poverty." Jiang Xun said: "In the lofty faith, he restores himself into a slave, begging for true liberation, tolerance, and redemption And love. "

He saw the virtue of working in Assei. In the real wilderness, hypocritical dogma can be removed. Naturally, I do n’t believe in morality, and there is no way to promote seedlings. It only believes in down -to -earth cultivation.

"A form of flowers blooming in nature, a quiet rotation of clear streams, a word of birds that are free to look forward to the wild, the aroma of a pine tree in the snow, or the bright summer sun released by grapes The sweetness of the rain ... "

Unexpectedly, Jiang Xun's love has more details. Love is to remove the camouflage, remove morality and law, and give it to another person. During the text, we hear his call for lover, "It is the temperature of such a specific person that makes me sure that I can love myself, love life, and walk on a difficult and lonely way. Terminate your dreams and hope for the future. "

Before you love everyone and things, you should first love yourself

The essence of people is lonely. In these letters, Jiang Xun also discussed many topics of doing its own. Before loving others, we should love ourselves. He said: Each individual is independent and free. They fully understand the importance of independence and freedom, and they may love others on this basis.

From the first letter to the end of the twelve letters, all these conversations towards the void are no longer limited to Ly's M. It has a more practical object, that is, itself. Jiang Xun believes:

"Before you love everyone and things, you should first love yourself; make yourself full and complete. If you are aggrieved by your love for yourself, you will also be wronged in the same way. Do not take grievances or pity others as people. Love, that is not a sound love, that is not even love, it is the harm of the pathogen of life when the morality is solved. "

"A ship must first know that it is a purely independent individual, it does not belong to the dock, nor does it belong to the harbor, and it also does not belong to the ocean; Or choose the ocean. "

Because the Sri Lanka has gone and no longer returns. Only in the sorting of the past can we have a fuller self, a desired future, a new love travel. So when he saw a friend break up, he wrote:

"Her body and life are meaningful to herself, and it is possible to make sense to others. She is not angry or resentful. She is not trapped in the most useless self -pity. At the moment of breaking up, she has a bright and open -minded blessing and tolerance. "

As a reader said: The text is very beautiful, the love letter is written like this, real and self -self. Walking and perception at one station, it is easy to bring people into the author's mood atmosphere, that is, the loneliness and thoughts of a person. When the book is completed, a promise is fulfilled, the heart is done, or loves this matter, except for me, it does have nothing to do with anyone, even the object of love. The love of thousands of readers, the readership of love for more than 20 years

Jiang Xun Zi Chen: This is a private book, which is only written to a specific person's words. Published for more than 20 years, this book has many hidden repercussions among readers, and these echoes are converged into the word "brave".

Regarding the independent self -construction and the meaning of loneliness in a relationship, Jiang Xun inspired me a lot. Such existence can help us travel without a step towards ourselves without fear of cold and hardships. I was lucky when I read these texts, I have a reference to think. —— Champagne Iron House

Remarks about learning love. People who have not experienced may only be submerged by the author's thinking about love. ——A Story Teller

I can't explain the vibration and inspiration I have received after reading the book. All my rhetoric and praise are redundant. About love, about beauty, about faith and eternity, are in the book. ——Byrd

The fullness of love in my heart flows out of the pen to warm people. —— Shi Si

After reading a few articles, I felt cautious, and considered the words. The love inside is very heavy and hard, but it is not narrow and radical, it is surprising, even admirable. —— Love greenberry

"Twelve letters written to L" was originally called "Desire to Love Books", talking about people's desires and love, but we believe that it should return to a simple state, a letter, and the enthusiasm of life.

Jiang Xun said: "In the era that was not generally used in computers, twelve letters were handwritten." In the new version, one of the "River called Ano" was specially selected and the temperature was relieved twenty years ago.

"Love" requires a lot of strokes to complete, and it is so different from the newsletter in the mobile phone to knock out "love".

At the same time, we re -published "The Time is quiet -Jiang Xun's daily homework". Maybe everyone can bring up my daily homework again and write down the understanding of love. In the twenty -four solar terms, cultivation and love, and look at yourself seriously.

Edit: Liu Qihan

Source: People's Literature Press

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