"Mom knows you don't want to get married"

Dear daughter:

The day before yesterday, you shared the video of a single girlfriend group pension for me.

You said, "Mom, you can live well if you don't get married."

I said, "You can live well without getting married, and you can get a good life. Why don't you try to get married?"

You may think that your mother is implying that you should get married again, and simply stop talking.

Your silence is a silent protest.

I think it may be necessary to talk to you on this issue, so I wrote this letter to you.

In fact, you misunderstand your mother. Mom knows that you don't want to get married, but you don't want you to prejudice about getting married.

When my mother was still a girl, I saw my grandmother's work and effort for the family all day long. I felt that such a life was too hard, and she had thought that she didn't want to get married.

Of course, grandfather and grandmother are very traditional people, and I only dare to think about this kind of thought.

Later, I met your dad. Don't look at his blessing now, and he was also a handsome guy when he was young.

At that time, he was a temporary worker in the power station. When he came to our house to collect electricity, he took the initiative to watch the movie. I was afraid that I would be gossip when I was afraid to ask me to watch a movie alone. Bring your girlfriends together.

Over time, your dad's sincerity moved me, and the idea of ​​not wanting to get married began to shake. Maybe the magic of love lies in this. Those rules and standards are not numbered.

So when someone comes to the media for your father, my grandfather and grandmother asked me for opinions, and I decided to bet and marry your dad.

After getting married, there were a lot of sweetness, but the feathers of life began to come.

I can't work when I am pregnant, and the family economy must rely on your father alone;

After giving birth to you, who will help with you, how to bring;

Grandma came to help with, live in the same roof, how to deal with the relationship between mother -in -law and daughter -in -law;

Who is responsible for your child's study and how to go to school;

Someone at home is sick, how to balance all kinds of things

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These are all life problems.

These problems, my dad and I crossed the river with the stone, and came step by step.

Sometimes I think, am I gambling right?

When your dad takes up the responsibility of the whole family, I feel gambling;

When I live with your grandma, when I made a chicken flying dog jumping, I felt wrong;

When you are born, when you bring us a lot of joy, I feel gambling;

When I have a headache for Chai Mimi, I feel that I have gambled wrong;

When your father always puts me first, I think it's gambling right

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Life is half -mixed, my mood is like this, often swaying between right and wrong.

Until now, at the age of known destiny, I feel right or wrong.

My dad, my young couple, my wife came.

Our family, neatly and peaceful and peaceful, are content to me.

For me now, I will not say that getting married is a bet. It is still just a choice. It is a major choice on our lives. For a long time, the responsibilities and consequences you need to bear for this.

Remember the mother's old friend, Aunt Wang? When she got married, she obeyed her parents and married a person he didn't like.

Although the two also gave birth to a child after marriage, because they often quarreled, they made chickens flying, and they wanted to divorce and worried about their children.

After graduating from her son's university the year before, she left simply.

Aunt Wang told her mother that her life after divorce was more happy than before.

People, this life is paying for their choices. What kind of choice you do, what kind of responsibility you have, as long as you think of it in the future, you will not regret it.

Moms share these stories with you, I want to tell you, whether it is love or marriage, one thing should not be easily denied before you try it.

In the final analysis, life is still focusing on experience. The more experienced, the richer your life will be.

At the same time, I also want you to understand that sometimes love can help us overcome many problems, be brave, don't be afraid to love.

Marriage is important, but it does not need to force yourself. Marriage must be based on love. Only love can still give us the power to persist when life is confused.

Moms do not want you to get married, but hope, whether you get married or not, are the choices you make after thought.

No matter what choice you make, you must be prepared for this.

Times are progressing and concepts are updating.

Mom is not old antiques, your generation of marriage and love is destined to be different from us.

Regarding marriage and lifestyle, you have your own options, and I will respect you.

The important thing is that no matter what lifestyle, you must live yourself well.

Responsible for your own life, getting yourself well, is more important than not getting married.

Mom always supports you to have your own life.

Forever, bless you!

Love your mother

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