Talk to the 10 -year -old "Calligraphy Genius" parents: Do not go to interest classes before school, go to the library to borrow calculus

[Source: Wuhan Headline]

Recently, a 10 -year -old boy with a "6 -year -old body and European body such as 8 months" in Wuhan, Hubei, became popular on the Internet. Many netizens praised the map very talented and can be called "calligraphy genius". Jiupai News contacted Ms. Pan, the mother of Tu, and she shared her parenting experience story to reporters.

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[Interested class is like going to the amusement park]

The time for Tu Tu to contact calligraphy has not been imagined for a long time. Ms. Pan recalled that during the first grade of Tu Tu Elementary School, "I reported the children's summer vacation classes in order to pass the vacation time." The child was interested in calligraphy and improved quickly, which surprised Ms. Pan and Mr. Ding.

Before the age of school, Ms. Pan did not report any interest classes to the map. Although she helped the child to choose an interest class, they would respect his wishes. "In addition to calligraphy, there are piano, badminton, and basketball. The description of the interest class on the map is the same as going to the amusement park.

However, it is not easy for children to maintain a long -term interest in things. "It is not important to learn what the educational concept of my father and my father has always been. It is important to maintain the child's interest, exploration and accomplishment." Interest, Ms. Pan's approach is to "encourage greater criticism." When Tu is still in the second and third grades, the mathematics grades are very average, but both Ms. Pan and Mr. Ding use positive incentives to educate their children. Ms. Pan gave an example to reporters. Once, Tu Tu made a mathematical problem. Ms. Pan said to the map: "Have you found that you are very talented in mathematics? You see us telling you one, you can quickly raise one. So the mathematics in the school is a very simple thing for you, but you have not thought about it. If you think about learning, you have a talent than many children. "In the fourth grade summer vacation, the map actively actively take the initiative to take the initiative to take the initiative to take the initiative Ask parents to buy a fifth grade test paper for themselves, finish their own scores, and tell parents how much scores they get.

Although in the eyes of many people, the "prodigy" may be born. But Ms. Pan believes, "In fact, there is no child you imagined, and children who don't have to worry about." Each child has a burnout -mindedness, as well as the picture. In Ms. Pan's view, it is important to help children build self -confidence. "You want to make him feel this. He is very talented. He is better than other children and builds self -confidence. When he is confident When it was established, when he showed interest, he bought him something that was slightly more difficult than in the class, and then further consolidated his self -confidence. "It was also under the temptation of Ms. Pan. He took the initiative to brush the mathematical paper, and also went to the library to borrow books. "When he takes him to the library, he will borrow some calculus and triangle -related books." Tu Tu once borrowed "The Beauty of the Triangle: the Edge of the Corner "Come to read," Where do he really understand these esoteric things, but he is willing to understand. "

In addition, letting children maintain the habit of sharing and internalize the knowledge of learning, cultivate children's desire to share, and constitute the motivation to drive the self -drive learning. Tu Tu arranges more than 1 hour of reading time reading in -class and extracurricular readings. I am very interested in literary history and firearms war. Some celebrities do not say. Although Ms. Pan will not read with her children now, it will let Tu Tu share what reads reading. "I will ask him what he reads today?" On one occasion, Tu Tu talked about the story of Zeng Guofan. The introduction of the picture and said, "Mom did not know this person, I know this person as soon as you talk."

[To establish family rules, and to establish communication channels]

Ms. Pan admits that the map is a very obedient child, but she also spent a lot of thoughts on the issue of educational maps. She often looks at some educational methods on the Internet and the method of regulating the mind in her parents. When she sees good, she forwards it to her husband to reflect on her educational experience. On the issue of educational maps, Ms. Pan will give the child a sense of security, but the sense of security is not the same as doting. "The rebellious child is not doting, but because of his insufficient sense of security, he feels that the love is not enough. "

In fact, establishing a family rules and punishment mechanism is also one of the educational methods of Ms. Pan's couple. Ms. Pan's educational model has been reasonable. On the issue of educational maps, Ms. Pan joined the punishment mechanism to let the children know that "the promise should do it, and we are constantly adjusting their own ways."

Every time the picture is punished, the first thing Ms. Pan and her husband did was to hug the child. Ms. Pan said: "The child feels very intuitive. You praise me to love me. You criticize me, you just don't like me, so you want to let him know that his parents teach him. It is because as his parents, you have to love him in the right way. "At the same time, Ms. Pan believes that maintaining communication is always the first priority. If Tu couldn't tell his father, he would come to communicate with her, and then communicate with his father together to ensure that "my dad and I can communicate with him."

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