Please stay away from those who are negative energy

I don't know if you found that there is such a person in life:

There seems to be a dark cloud on the top of the head. No matter where they go, they are still clear in the sky, and they will become sad.

We often call this personality "rainy" personality.

If you want to make your mood not infected by them, try to stay away from this type of person.

Even if you have a strong heart, you can't afford the consumption of negative energy.

After get off work a few days ago, when I met a colleague who had been seen for a long time, we happened to go to a place, so I invited me to accompany me.

Since I sit on the seat, I find that this is a wrong decision.

Because along the way, she talked to me about my unhappy in life.

Through her dumping, I learned about her recent life:

The newly -appointed leader was very fierce to her and wore a small shoes everywhere. She was as thin as the company;

When I return home, my husband does not let himself go smoothly. He often stays home late with his friends before returning home.

The son of the son's class often called her, saying that the son caused trouble at school, disturbing other children to learn ...

One piece, a pile ...

She said spitting, emotional excitement, and even angry.

I heard my head, and my original good mood was a bigger head here.

In the end, I really didn't know how to comfort her. When I heard the sound of the next stop, I wanted to grab a life -saving straw:

Thanks, I finally arrived.

Then she quickly said goodbye to her. When she left, she seemed to be relieved, but I was worried.

I found that negative energy would really be contagious.

In the process, no matter how I do not let my mentality contaminate, but I still have no avoidance infected by bad emotions.

It is not to say that there is no negative energy in life, which is also unrealistic. Moreover, people with different people and people with nature and optimism have pessimistic and negative people.

The pessimistic negative is not terrible. What is annoying is that you are used to bringing others as their own emotional trash can and bringing their negative energy to others at will.

When they dumped arbitrarily, their junk emotions were empty, but they were depressed by others.

Writer Liu Yu said: "Stay away from those who consume you, don't consume others."

It is the basic cultivation of every adult that does not dump your negative energy and be responsible for your emotions.

Positive emotions are contagious, and good habits also affect each other.

Some time ago, I saw a news of "Xueba dormitory".

There is a dormitory of Wuhan China University of Geosciences, and all eight girls have successfully studied.

Four of them were sent to our university, and the other four were sent to Tongji University, Wuhan University, Chinese Academy of Sciences, and Beijing Normal University.

Talking about collective insurance research, they said:

"The learning atmosphere in the bedroom has a great effect on Baoyan."

"Whenever I see them studying hard, I will unconsciously put down my mobile phone and pick up the book."

When it's okay, everyone will meet at the library together until the library will be closed at 10 pm, and they will return to the dormitory one after another.

Once someone wants to give up laziness and see the people around him without relaxation, he will regain confidence.

When you encounter problems that cannot be solved, everyone will discuss it together, ask each other, and the difficult problems will be solved.

In such an atmosphere, a person who does not like to learn will gradually change his learning habits and then change his life trajectory.

The impact of the environment on people is so obvious, and what kind of person will have a different life.

I have heard a word that makes sense:

"Your level is the average value of the five people you mostly contact.

The more people who associate with you, the higher the level, the faster your ability will be improved. "

With humorous people, you will not be boring;

With the optimistic person, you have no time to be sad;

With the smart brain, your thoughts will be unprepared ...

On the contrary, when you play with lazily love, you will also contaminate evil habits. When playing games and videos, you will become at ease, and over time, the whole person will be abolished.

People gather together and things are divided into groups. If you want to be an excellent person, you have to be with such people.

Human potential is slowly inspired during the process of ears.

What kind of person is with, what kind of person are you?

Friends Xiaomin once talked about a bad relationship.

Every time she met her boyfriend at that time, she became mood.

The reason was that her boyfriend had to hit her every time, saying that her figure was not good, and she said that she was not ability.

Xiaomin listened to these words. She desperately lost weight when she was not good.

The worst time was that she fainted halfway and was taken to the hospital.

The boyfriend rushed to the hospital reluctantly, and said blame blame: "I didn't let you lose weight?"

Xiaomin broke up with him, and later talked about a relationship.

In this relationship, Xiaomin understands what is healthy love.

First of all, her mental state has undergone tremendous changes.

It turns out that she is always nostalgic, for fear that she will not do well, her boyfriend will break up with her.

In this love, she didn't need to change anything, and her boyfriend liked her original appearance.

Praise her, praise her, and encourage her, she is like a small animal every day.

It turned out that love was right, and the state really became different.

Those who truly love you will never pick you three and suppress abuse; but appreciate you, respect you, and guide you to go in a better direction. I have heard a word that makes sense:

What is the right person? If he gives you energy, you can get up happy every day, you can sleep at ease every night, and do everything full of motivation. If you look forward to the future, you have no love for the wrong person.

Those relationships that make you uncomfortable are wrong. Good relationships never need to be deliberately maintained, and this is the case for affection, friendship, and love.

Once, Gao Xiaosong interviewed Hui Ruoqi, a Chinese women's liner in the show:

"Is it not nervous?"

Hui Ruoqi replied:

"We will control our emotions during the game and pass to teammates are positive information.

On the contrary, if you pass more positive energy and release more positive signals, the entire team will become better. "

High -quality relationships are positive energy superimposed.

When I entered the trough, you injected energy for me and pulled me.

When you get into the peak, I will celebrate and applaud you.

With the right person, it is often the result of 1+1> 2;

Being with you, it is often the ending of 1+1 <2.

For the rest of my life, the person who brings you positive energy to you, and the person who always brings you a haze to say goodbye.

Writer Li Shanglong said:

Negative energy is the badness of others and scolding the social injustice; the positive energy is to tell you after speaking, even if it is bitter, I can still change it by hard work.

Even though the world has darkness, the other side of the darkness is the sun, and the light is full of light.

When your eyes are beautiful, your world will be blooming;

When your heart is full of sadness, all you meet are also frustrated.

Sadness and frustration cannot be changed, positive, but it can affect everything around.

For the rest of my life, to be a warm person, people who can bring strength to others are better than a pessimistic person.

Click [watching], be an optimistic person to attract the positive magnetic field, your life will walk on a better and better road.

Author | Su Shanshu, do not make sense, only tells stories.

Picture | Visual China, the Internet (if there is any infringement, please contact and delete)

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