Reading in evening | The way of survival in adversity: "Hot things" must be "cold treatment"

Author:Study legion Time:2022.09.04

It is inevitable to encounter various "enthusiastic things" in life, which is impetuous and confused.

In the face of them, we need "cold treatment".

The so -called "cold treatment" is not negatively idle, but to give yourself time to accumulate energy better and start properly.

Urgent things should be slow, cold emotions

It is inevitable to encounter urgent things in life.

At this time, it should be "more slow to get in a hurry."

The so -called slowing is not to give up, but to allow yourself to ease emotions, think calmly, and judge rationally.

There is a saying: "A calm heart can build a deeper world in any environment."

It is a long time, and it is difficult to achieve. The more anxious things, the more you should be sober and calm.

The rushing to do it will only be more effective;

To converge, cold mindset

Many people like to make the limelight. As long as they achieve a little results, they do not know that the height is thick and open.

Mu Xiu is in Lin, and the wind will destroy it; pile up on the shore, flowing will be turbulent;

Those who love to show off are prone to expansion and forgetting, and they can't stand the test and can't stand the setbacks.

"Book of Rites · Table" has a saying: "A gentleman is not self -sufficient, and he does not work."

Those who really have a structured pattern know how to hold themselves. Do not show your credit, have the ability not to show off, have a status and not arrogant, do not show the mountains and not show the water, calmly and hidden.

The restraint of success is the magic weapon of Changsheng, which will make a person's mind wider, more full of confidence, larger pattern, and more transparent life.

Difficult to change, cold thinking

When most people encounter difficulty, they will be caught in the horns and cannot extricate themselves or go deeper and deeper in the dead alley.

In fact, it is often not the difficulties itself, but that we do not know the mentality of change.

Changing is not to give up, but to find a solution to the problem better and faster.

When you find that the road in front of you cannot arrive as soon as possible, you may wish to avoid obstacles and try to try.

The mountains and rivers are exhausted and Liu Danhua is often only between one thought.

Life has never been a single line, there is no way to go, but only the endless bend.

When the current wind is raining, it may be a sunny day.

Bad things to leave, cold heart

Every stage of life has a variety of troubles. The troubles are like itching. I didn't feel itchy.

In the face of troubles, the first thing we think of is not to let go of the light, but to consume energy, so that the more annoying, the worse, the worse.

I have heard such a sentence: "There must be an incompetent wisdom in life."

The best way to avoid falling into the abyss is to stay away from the abyss.

Rather than entangle the trouble, it is better to save time to do something meaningful.

Life is a process of walking while walking. People who can let go will encounter their own little luck every day, otherwise they will become more and more tired.

When you encounter annoyance, let it go; when you encounter bad things, Qing Yiqing can live calm and happy.