Night reading: Your circle of friends can no longer see traces of life anymore

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01

I recorded ten years of life in the circle of friends.

In the past one or two years,

There is no sense of friends and security in the circle of friends.

Sometimes I feel mood and daily,

Put in the middle of countless information and advertising,

It makes people feel that they are alternative.

You live well, someone is jealous.

If you are not doing well, someone laughs.

Slowly lost the desire to share and record.

02

Why no longer want to share your true life?

My friend said, "Everyone will have the desire to share,

The circle of friends is a good platform,

However, as various commercial activities have joined the circle of friends,

The circles that were originally shared became mixed with fish dragons.

Among them, there is no shortage of relatives and friends.

As the number increases,

Gradually lost the meaning of the circle of friends.

Entering the society, friends have no kind of atmosphere of the school before,

Many are just passers -by, and the desire to share naturally becomes gone.

Without someone who wants to share, don't talk about what you want to share with your circle of friends.

As we grow up,

The independence allows us to encounter something,

More biased to self -solution.

Sharing is an unnecessary thing. "

03

From private space to commercialized information release port,

Everyone has become a rushman who is busy for life.

Many people say they don't remember what dreams when they were young,

But it is definitely not the case now,

Unwilling to be mediocre, but have to do this.

I only know when I grow up,

Say different things from different people,

It is a very valuable ability to show a different attitude.

Instead of hypocrisy.

Perhaps it is afraid of saying the wrong words without sharing, and even more afraid of being understood.

Silence has become the most practical expression of years.

04

More and more people around you close the circle of friends,

Many people start to appear "social media burnout",

The psychological burden brought by the complexity in work,

Many people’s circle of friends have experienced the process of continuous expansion,

From friends to parents, colleagues, leaders, customers, classmates, teachers,

Similar weakness has become more and more,

The circle of friends has reduced the fun of sharing.

I think the most important point is,

Each person's relationship is changing each period.

Those who have nothing to talk about will become nothing to say.

05

If you don't want everyone to see your life,

If you think the recent life is not good,

If you want to disappear quietly for a while,

Then turn off all the social dynamics,

Experience the gift of life with your heart.

in my opinion,

Whether to send a circle of friends is just a living habit.

It can reflect some things from the side,

But after all, it is dynamic, don't care too much.

By the way, you can not lose yourself.

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