"Transformers": The man who turned into a beetle hid the biggest sadness of middle -aged people

There is a book, although it is not long, it has a deep impact.

"Centennial Loneliness" author Garcia Marquez was inspired by it and wrote the first novel in his life.

The Nobel Prize winner Elias Cuniti finished the comments and said: "

"He wrote a work that he could not surpass, because there was no more anything, which could surpass the greatest perfect work of this century."

This book is Kafka's "Transformer".

In the book, the protagonist Guri Golg turned into a beetle overnight and became an alien that no one could communicate.

After losing the human figure, he lost his job, and changed from the pillar of the family to a worthless bug.

Kafka told a weird and bizarre story in a bland tone, but taking off the coat of the story, the hidden truth behind it deeply tingled us.

The beetle hiding in the darkness is not the epitome of our people to middle age.

1

There is no easy word in the middle -aged dictionary. Grimulg, originally a travel salesman.

Every morning, he had to get up without light and take a five -o'clock train to work.

In the past five years, Grie Gaul has been a "model employee." He never asked for leave because of any private affairs, and never stole the work at work.

Life could have been bland until one day, he woke up and suddenly found that he became a beetle.

Guri Gaul, who turned into a beetle, felt his strange body panic.

But not long after the panic, it was replaced by another thought: the alarm clock had been pointing at six:30, and now he got up to work, it was too late to come to work!

Because of abnormal lateness, the company manager came to urge, and even suspected that he had escaped with money.

When Grig Gaul opened the locked door difficulty, he hurriedly explained the reason why he was late.

But he did not find that his chattering words were just a bunch of worms in the ears of others.

The family was shocked to see his worm shape, and the manager was difficult to control himself, and he fled when he turned.

At this time, Grim Gol, full of his own rice bowl. He must leave the manager and soothe him, otherwise he will be unemployed immediately!

He crawled down and tried to catch up with the manager, but only saw the manager turned over and jumped down the stairs.

The mother was scared, and the father couldn't hear the voices of Grim Golg at all. Instead of helping to retain the manager, he held a crutch step by step to him.

Grim Golfur avoided it, and was finally stabbed into the room by his father's crutch. The abdomen was scratched by the door, blood was dripping, and he fell to the ground.

For the appearance of Grim Gaul's sorrow, how many middle -aged people were sour.

In order to perform their boss and seek customers for performance, because the most terrible thing is not to lose face, but to lose their jobs. There are more and more young people, and the competition is becoming more and more intense. Every day, he carefully highlights his value, for fear that the next one will be eliminated. Open your eyes every day, your mind is the health of parents, children's education, family expenses, and become dare to be willful, dare not get sick, and dare to resign ...

Liang Wendao said: "When an adult fan moves wings, the wings on both sides are still heavy scales."

Middle -aged people who are asce about ascetic can only be left and right in the heavy boxing of life. They are tired and embarrassed.

We can only be held forward by life without any retreat.

There is no choice but to support.

2

It can afford the burden of life, but can't resist the disappearance of feelings. Since five years ago, his father had lost money because of his career failure, and Grim Gaul voluntarily took over his family burden. He became the pillar of the family from an ignorant guy overnight.

As the only source of the family in the family, he was appreciated by his father, the care of his mother and the worship of his sister.

The whole family turned around until he became a beetle.

Since then, his father has no concealment of his disgust, and his mother has never been able to overcome the fear of bugs. Only Grig Gaol's most beloved sister is willing to take care of him carefully.

Helplessly, no matter how deeper feelings will be exhausted in the gradually aggravated burden.

After the pillar fell down, the family was forced to eat and found their livelihood.

Her sister became a salesperson and ran away at the counter. The fatigue of her work made her slowly lose her patience. She gradually perfunctory the Gryer Gork's diet. In the end, she even discussed with her parents to drive away Grig Gork.

The human tragedy faced by Grimul is not the dilemma of countless middle -aged people.

As a pillar of the family, you must not fall or dare to fall.

Because once it falls down, those once silently paid, and the once -teeth insistence will be buried by time, and they have changed in the resentment of the family.

People who are used to supporting umbrellas in their families will forget their family and themselves, and it turns out that the rain will fall on themselves.

I have watched a Singapore advertising film "Father's Promise".

The protagonist is a company staff. He goes out early and returns every day and accepts the summoning of the family at any time.

He never dropped his living expenses for his parents every month, but his father counted the money and disliked him too little.

His mother had a sudden illness. He left from the project and hurried to the hospital. He ran around and asked for someone, but he couldn't arrange a good ward for his mother.

His wife wanted to travel. He turned over the leaflet for a long time, and finally could only say, "It's too expensive, can we go closer?"

The refrigerator at home is to be repaired, the mother's mobile phone is to be replaced, the wife's due date is approaching, and the birth of the new members must be prepared. He worked hard, in exchange for his father's dissatisfaction, his mother's silence and his wife's loss.

In the end, he had to say this kind of confession: "Sorry, I can't give you the best. I did not become a expectation, but became a mortal."

In your career, your family still complains that you are less accompanied; you are burnt by family chores, but your family cannot see you.

The boundless heavy pressure, endless trivial matter, boiled the enthusiasm of a person into indifferent and dull, grinding the kindness of a person's bones to face the whole face.

We can afford the burden of life, but we can't resist the disappearance of feelings.

The real difficulty in middle age may not be the wind meal, but the shortness of the parents and the garlic.

The real difficulty of middle age comes from this twisted life, and it is more incomprehensible from family.

3

Loneliness is the only way to middle age. For a long time, Grim Gaul's favorite thing every day is to lock himself in the room, read books, and make wooden works.

After becoming a beetle, he couldn't communicate with his family, but could only hide in the room, and Renworm continued to eat his consciousness.

But he did not admit his fate, and made three efforts to be completely reduced to beetle.

For the first time, when Grim Gaul was just deformed, he tried to communicate with his parents, but his father thought he wanted to hurt his family and drive him into the room;

For the second time, the family decided to move all the furniture of Grimul Golg. He tried to retain his beloved paintings and proof of his own person, but his rashness was stunned by his mother.

The younger sister thinks that Griger is unreasonable and deliberately scary. The anger father smashed him with an apple. He could only hide from the room;

For the third time, my sister performed for the new tenant, but the guests didn't care, only chatting.

In order to maintain the dignity of his sister, Grie Gaul climbed out of the room and wanted to deter them, but was mistaken for him by his family that he was deliberately troubled, scared away the tenant, and unanimously decided to drive him out of the house.

In the end, the kusky Golka died lonely in the dark world that no one could understand.

After this book was published, Kafka's cover design of "Transformer" once mentioned such suggestions:

"Parents and managers stand in front of the closed door, or better, parents and sisters are open to the door of the dark room in a bright light room."

The door is separated from the Guri Gaul and the outside world.

Outside the door, I do n’t trust my boss and do n’t understand my family; inside the door is its own world, and it is also the loneliness that belongs to its own.

Shi Tiesheng once talked about the three predicament of the people in "Destiny Ruoqin String". Among them, the first predicament was loneliness.

He said: "Life can only be destined to be yourself, destined to live among countless others, and cannot communicate with others thoroughly."

When people reach middle age, maybe everyone has emptied themselves on the side of the road, digested sadness in the cold wind, and shed tears silently late at night.

The weakness occurred, but no one was relying on her side. The pain often invaded, and there was no one behind it.

In the lively, we should have been happy, but the empty emptiness is like a shadow, lingering.

In the end, there was no one who could understand some thoughts, and some pain could only be responsible for themselves.

Those who walk to middle -aged can only take their own way in the reality of wind and frost, boil their own suffering, and cross their calamities.

4

Jonathan Lautan, a well -known think tank expert in the world, proposed a "happy curve" theory.

After investigating a large number of personnel, he found that a person's happiness index is closely related to age.

In a person's life, childhood was the highest in the happiness index, and then began to fall slowly, reaching the valley point in middle age.

As long as this period is spent, the happiness index will continue to rise until they are old.

When people reach middle age, they are half -slopes in life, and the road ahead is long.

Every middle -aged person who climbs is facing the same dilemma of Grimol. In order to work tightly, he is stretched with nerves for his family, and he suffers from the grievances of life.

But we are in Banpo, and we have no way to retreat.

As Hu Shi said: "After doing the river, you can only desperately move forward."

The difficulties of life can only walk step by step; the huge waves of the Yangtze River must also get to grit their teeth again and again.

Like a praise, and the middle -aged people who are willing to live in the lives can support the family for a day and be understood and pity by the family.

Author: insight · Fang Yuan

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