Li Shangyin: Every encounter in life is to meet yourself

Author: Insight · Nian Nian

Be the best yourself to meet the best others.

Li Shangyin once wrote in the poem: There is no colorful phoenix double flying swallow, and he has a little heart.

For the road of life, everyone is eager to find a soul confidant and work together for a song.

But the fate between people can not be required.

Flying birds and fish are different, and those who can appear in your life are attracted by you.

Who are you to meet who you will meet?

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Appreciate you, come from your talent. Born in the late Tang Dynasty, Li Shangyin, under the dazzling light of the predecessors, did not start the way of poetry.

He "recites the scriptures at the age of five, seven years old to make a pen", and at the age of sixteen, he was named in the literary world of "Talent" and "Holy Theory".

In the three years of Tang Dahe, Li Shangyin moved his family to Luoyang with his mother, where he met his Bole -Linghu Chu.

Linghu Chu was the doctor of Henan Yin and the Royal History.

According to the "Old Tang Book", Li Shangyin came to the door to dry up, and Linghu Chu loved it. If he got the treasure.

On weekdays, as long as Linghu Chu has a spare time, he will teach him to write a text, and give food and food every year.

Linghu Chu will take Li Shangyin to the Tianping, Peizhou and other places, so that he will have the opportunity to broaden his eyes and increase his knowledge.

After confirming that Li Shangyin was a talented talent, Linghu Chu hired him to enter the curtain as an inspector and reuse it.

In Li Shangyin's heart, Linghu Chu was like a master's warm existence.

In order to thank the grace of this knowledge, Li Shangyin wrote a song "Xie Shu" affectionately:

There was a slightest in Wei Yi, and he carried the pen to Feng Longtao.

Since Mongolia passed on his clothes in the middle of the night, he did not envy Wang Xiang.

I have always been carrying you, but I am unable to repay you. I can only try to write a good article to inherit your career.

Li Shangyin thought so, and did this.

He did not disappoint the cultivation of Linghu Chu, and soon he was very advanced in Wingwen writing, and he could draft some important documents and play.

In the eight years of Linghu Mansion, he insisted on doing things seriously and studying carefully. He was the most powerful assistant in the officialdom.

Linghu Chu left two last wishes before dying:

One is to give the emperor Xie En Watch to let Li Shangyin write; the second is that the epitaph must let Li Shangyin write.

It shows his affirmation of Li Shangyincai.

The interaction between Li Shangyin and Linghu Chu seems to be full of legend, but it is the mutual achievement between the appreciation and the appreciated.

As the old saying often says: Jiu Xiang is not afraid of deep alleys, and the floral fragrance has its own butterfly flying.

Outstanding people can always see each other, and they cherish each other.

When you have enough ability and talent, you will meet the person who knows how to appreciate you sooner or later.

02

The person who helps you comes from your character. In Li Shangyin's circle of friends, Han Zhan is not only a friend of confidant, but also his relatives of the Communist Party.

The two were the same as the same year and obtained the new science jinshi in the same year, thus associating.

From getting along, Han Zhan slowly learned about Li Shangyin's growth background.

Knowing that he was the eldest son in the family, since he was nine years old, he had the burden of family due to his father's death and lived a life of "commissioners".

In those years, Li Shangyin made a book and Mi Mi made living expenses at home every day.

However, not only did he be overwhelmed by a hard life, but he used the chance of copying the book to practice good calligraphy.

A person who can adhere to responsibility in the predicament must be a dependent person.

Because of this, then Han Zhan, who was the son -in -law of Wang Maoyuan, wanted to do the media and introduce his wife's sister to Li Shangyin.

After becoming a coast, Han Zhan's career was relatively smooth, but Li Shangyin was suffering from the vortex of the "Niu Li Party".

For three years, Li Shangyin participated in the official examination of the official examination, and was removed for no reason during the review.

The gentleman of the righteous man was always calculated by the villain, making Han Zhan very embarrassed by Li Shangyin.

For this reason, Han Zhan has been trying to help Li Shangyin silently support and encourage him.

At the age of 40, Li Shangyin's wife was ill and suffered from diabetes, but he still had to go to Sichuan as a staff member and continue to run for his livelihood.

Han Zhan took the initiative to propose to support Li Shangyin's two children.

Before leaving, the Han Zhan family also specially hosted a banquet for him. His sincere affection gave Li Shangyin a great comfort in frustrated.

In the time of the Hakka Land, the Han Zhan family and the children far away from Changan have also become Li Shangyin's deepest concern.

This is the "Night Rain Sending North" written to Han Zhan:

Jun asked the return period, and Bashan night rain rose autumn pool.

He Dang cut the western window candle, but when Bashan night rain.

How I hope that one day, I can talk to Jun as long as the past, and talk about the thoughts in the night rain in the night of the night.

Why can Li Shangyin and Han Zhan have known each other for more than 20 years and experienced countless storms, but have never shaken their trust in each other?

Because small things see people's character, they see people's hearts for a long time.

There is no reason to extend for no reason, everything comes from their own.

If you want to gain understanding, you must give sincerity first; if you want to gain friendship, you must give goodwill first.

You are worthy of people who are willing to treat you.

03

The people who are together together are because of your three views. When it comes to Li Shangyin, it is reminiscent of the poem friend of "Wen Li" with him -Wen Tingyun.

At that time, Wen Tingyou learned Chang'an, and often went to Linghu Chufu as a guest, and was able to know Li Shangyin in the micro -time. Interestingly, Li Shangyin has a restrained and low -key personality, but with Wen Tingyun, he is free and free.

Both of them are children of Hanmen, and they want to rely on talents.

In terms of poetry, they all love to create beautiful and affectionate hazy poems.

Not only that, the two still have a lot of consistent opinions in the world, and there are always topics in the meeting.

The three views are the same, and the frequency is the same, destined to be a traveler who can join hands with each other.

Li Shangyin has been in the second consecutive year, and almost all of them are accompanied by Wen Tingyu.

A story has spread.

One year, Li Shangyin and Wen Tingyun and other friends went to Beijing to rush to take the exam together, and met a girl named Liu Zhi.

Li Shangyin fell in love with Girl Liu at first sight and met three days later. As a result, when he was about to go to the appointment, he was praised by Wen Tingzhang and deliberately took his luggage away.

In desperation, Li Shangyin had to chase Wen Tingyu to miss the meeting with Liu Girl.

The reason why Li Shangyin was not angry is obviously because he knew that his friend was out of good intentions and didn't want him to delay the exam for this.

There is a kind of tacit understanding, calling the heart, and not being declared; there is a kind of understanding, called flowing water.

Two like -minded young people came together in the chaos of the late Tang Dynasty, and the association was a lifetime.

For six years, Li Shangyin, who was a staff member of Zizhou, heard the news of the death of his old friend Lu Xianqing, the old friend of Wen Tingyu, and was sad.

He wrote a poem "Smelling the Millet and Questioning to Send Fei Qing", and sent it to Wen Tingyu:

In the past, he sold his bones, and he was full of tears.

The residual double jade sword, without a pot of ice.

In the poem, Li Shangyin used the "double jade sword" to compare the friendship between him and Wen Tingyu, and vividly explained the state of the two people's hearts.

There is a cloud in "Zhou Yi": "Corresponding to the same voice, seeking the same qi."

In this life, who is with who is with, has its own arrangements.

Some people can only be the passengers in your life, and they are really willing to approach you to recognize you. Only those who are consistent with you.

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I have heard a word:

"Life is a journey to meet myself. All the outside world is the reflection of its own life."

No matter who you meet, you are encountering yourself in different states.

If you are a handsome bird, you have your own Phoenix.

In this life, you can only meet the best others by being the best yourself.

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